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Fear is really a nice guy (Honey you know I mean that in the good way) he just does the weird to death because he is bored; I think. Now do I give you Cary Nation's ax or later Fear?
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I stand Corrected.... Make that 3 Posts... *Rolling my Eyes*  
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You can learn a lot about people from their angry rambeling. Anyone will vent now and then but if it is too repetative you got to wonder. Goes both genders. Both can be bitter ect. some I think just get worn down. Some just talk them self into what they get used to and sometimes it is habitual single. Easier to save face by saying you like being alone. I see not trying and bashing on the opposite sex as more than a little boring... I also see accepting being single forever as a cop out... |
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You can learn a lot about people from their angry rambeling. Anyone will vent now and then but if it is too repetative you got to wonder. Goes both genders. Both can be bitter ect. some I think just get worn down. Some just talk them self into what they get used to and sometimes it is habitual single. Easier to save face by saying you like being alone. I see not trying and bashing on the opposite sex as more than a little boring... I also see accepting being single forever as a cop out... Well I agree with your first statement.. The second, I don't cop out, I just feel that I won't settle so if I want is unattainable, I'm fine being single... That's acceptance not coping out.. |
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Awww (((D))) don't cry, not everyone is into the Jeffrey thing...  I actually don't care...just wondering why people bother taking me seriously the majority of the time.  well you know I sure don't.. but loves ya!     Once again we've all solved internet romance problems, no? We're that damn good. 
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You can learn a lot about people from their angry rambeling. Anyone will vent now and then but if it is too repetative you got to wonder. Goes both genders. Both can be bitter ect. some I think just get worn down. Some just talk them self into what they get used to and sometimes it is habitual single. Easier to save face by saying you like being alone. I see not trying and bashing on the opposite sex as more than a little boring... I also see accepting being single forever as a cop out... Well I agree with your first statement.. The second, I don't cop out, I just feel that I won't settle so if I want is unattainable, I'm fine being single... That's acceptance not coping out.. 
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Fear is really a nice guy (Honey you know I mean that in the good way) he just does the weird to death because he is bored; I think. Now do I give you Cary Nation's ax or later Fear? That's what you think...I can wait for the ax... 
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Awww (((D))) don't cry, not everyone is into the Jeffrey thing... I actually don't care...just wondering why people bother taking me seriously the majority of the time. well you know I sure don't.. but loves ya! Once again we've all solved internet romance problems, no? We're that damn good. yes, yes we are.. Right Calleigh...  |
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Allow me to sum this up, we all want the things we can't have...
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Allow me to sum this up, we all want the things we can't have... i want whirled peas, let me go fire up the blender
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Awww (((D))) don't cry, not everyone is into the Jeffrey thing... I actually don't care...just wondering why people bother taking me seriously the majority of the time. well you know I sure don't.. but loves ya! Once again we've all solved internet romance problems, no? We're that damn good. yes, yes we are.. Right Calleigh... right
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Allow me to sum this up, we all want the things we can't have... Um that's what you got out of this??? Holy hell...  
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Sometimes I wonder why some people are even on a "dating site" at all, and list themselves as wanting to date, when it's clear they dislike or even hate the gender they're trying to be with. If every woman is a b!tch, a whore, a liar, only wants the "bad boy" while you describe yourself as the "nice guy," a cheater, a game player, sneaky and conniving, a ball buster, a gold digger, only into looks while you think you have a great personality and doesn't appreciate you for "being yourself" WHY are you trying to date/get married/be in a relationship at all? My profile clearly says I'm only here for friends, but if I set my preference to wanting to date, I'd feel pretty silly being a man basher. How do you desire what you also despise? Discuss! People want to put their best foot forward when describing themselves. One of my ex's called it the four person phenomenon... There are four people on a first date, the person I am, and the person I want you to see, and the reverse is also true. Not to mention, it is all about value, intrinsic value or what is important to you personally, and extrinsic or percieved value. Some of these people want the 'pretty boy' or 'airheaded bimbo' because they believe society wants them to find the prettiest person to be with; then the woman ends up with a bad boy type, simply because he makes her work for his affection. She doesnt realize that she will ALWAYS have to work to keep him, meanwhile, the nice guy (and we ARE OUT HERE) sits and listens to you cry time and time again... Likewise, the man wants the 5'7" blond 'bimbo' type when in reality this could not be further from the truth. Men generally have an idea of what attracts them, but in reality, a lot of women make it seemingly impossible to approach them, leaving the man to search for what TV tells them that they want. Basically after a few foiled relationships; the man ends up a cynical bastard... The reality is that it is all about communication. People need to be able to address their own feelings, comfortable enough to embrace them, and honest enough to actually let the other person know what they want in reality. Then when this person isn't Pamela Anderson, or Brad Pitt... give the other person a chance, they may be the great love of your life. |
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Good points Tanker...
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You can learn a lot about people from their angry rambeling. Anyone will vent now and then but if it is too repetative you got to wonder. Goes both genders. Both can be bitter ect. some I think just get worn down. Some just talk them self into what they get used to and sometimes it is habitual single. Easier to save face by saying you like being alone. I see not trying and bashing on the opposite sex as more than a little boring... I also see accepting being single forever as a cop out... Well I agree with your first statement.. The second, I don't cop out, I just feel that I won't settle so if I want is unattainable, I'm fine being single... That's acceptance not coping out.. I understand not settling... But you are still open to the idea of finding someone to share your life with therefore you are not accepting it... After all you wont know where it is coming from or how it will hit you but you are still open to the idea that someone is there. Those that refuse to be open to the idea of finding someone because they got burned a few times, are the people whom cop out... |
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Ahhh gotcha... I think you're right...
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You can learn a lot about people from their angry rambeling. Anyone will vent now and then but if it is too repetative you got to wonder. Goes both genders. Both can be bitter ect. some I think just get worn down. Some just talk them self into what they get used to and sometimes it is habitual single. Easier to save face by saying you like being alone. I see not trying and bashing on the opposite sex as more than a little boring... I also see accepting being single forever as a cop out... Well I agree with your first statement.. The second, I don't cop out, I just feel that I won't settle so if I want is unattainable, I'm fine being single... That's acceptance not coping out.. I understand not settling... But you are still open to the idea of finding someone to share your life with therefore you are not accepting it... After all you wont know where it is coming from or how it will hit you but you are still open to the idea that someone is there. Those that refuse to be open to the idea of finding someone because they got burned a few times, are the people whom cop out... When it comes to dating and "settling", the wimmins are like sharks- If they stop moving, they're dead.
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Oh shush Moof!
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I was JUST thinking this a little bit earlier!!!! Tonight I've read more bashing about women from men and men from women, and marriage. I thought, boy, all this negativity is soooo appealing. I think for the MOST part, people meet each other, or at least get to know one another through the boards here. (Some behind the scenes in email) If I were looking, and read some of the things I've read tonight, I'd have had a check list in my lap going, nope, not him! and nope Definitely not him! So funny you bring this up! i'm probably on that list. . . . |
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I was JUST thinking this a little bit earlier!!!! Tonight I've read more bashing about women from men and men from women, and marriage. I thought, boy, all this negativity is soooo appealing. I think for the MOST part, people meet each other, or at least get to know one another through the boards here. (Some behind the scenes in email) If I were looking, and read some of the things I've read tonight, I'd have had a check list in my lap going, nope, not him! and nope Definitely not him! So funny you bring this up! i'm probably on that list. . . . I don't think you are... |
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