Topic: okay i gotta ask this, answer if you can....
74Drew's photo
Thu 07/09/09 12:08 AM

Allow me to sum this up, we all want the things we can't have...drinker

i thought it was we are all not wanted by the things we can't have.



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74Drew's photo
Thu 07/09/09 12:09 AM



I was JUST thinking this a little bit earlier!!!! Tonight I've read more bashing about women from men and men from women, and marriage. I thought, boy, all this negativity is soooo appealing. I think for the MOST part, people meet each other, or at least get to know one another through the boards here. (Some behind the scenes in email) If I were looking, and read some of the things I've read tonight, I'd have had a check list in my lap going, nope, not him! and nope Definitely not him! laugh

So funny you bring this up! drinker

i'm probably on that list.


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I don't think you are...

maybe not yours

or hers for today.


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IndnPrncs's photo
Thu 07/09/09 12:11 AM
the one's on the list are there for very obvious and blantant reasons... You do not bash women ever that I have seen...

74Drew's photo
Thu 07/09/09 12:16 AM

the one's on the list are there for very obvious and blantant reasons... You do not bash women ever that I have seen...

not necessarily bash. but i do generalize from time to time. usually when i'm on a "i'm a nice guy that gets treated like crap" rant.



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74Drew's photo
Thu 07/09/09 12:18 AM
and i admit that women and i have a love hate relationship. i love 'em and i hate 'em. doesn't stop me from treating them as well as i can.

it's just courtesy.


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IndnPrncs's photo
Thu 07/09/09 12:21 AM
exactly.. courtesy goes both ways... as far as generalizing, well we know my stance on that but I call you on it when I see it... :wink:

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Thu 07/09/09 12:22 AM

and i admit that women and i have a love hate relationship. i love 'em and i hate 'em. doesn't stop me from treating them as well as i can.

it's just courtesy.


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i'm the same way with candyflowerforyou

74Drew's photo
Thu 07/09/09 12:24 AM

exactly.. courtesy goes both ways... as far as generalizing, well we know my stance on that but I call you on it when I see it... :wink:

i try to let people know it's coming.

besides, generalizations are like stereotypes. we all know that not every person encompassed in the grouping belongs in the group. it's just easier to say that they do instead of naming the few individuals that don't belong.


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74Drew's photo
Thu 07/09/09 12:25 AM


and i admit that women and i have a love hate relationship. i love 'em and i hate 'em. doesn't stop me from treating them as well as i can.

it's just courtesy.


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i'm the same way with candyflowerforyou

me too. i'm eating sour fruit slices candies right now.


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Thu 07/09/09 12:30 AM



and i admit that women and i have a love hate relationship. i love 'em and i hate 'em. doesn't stop me from treating them as well as i can.

it's just courtesy.


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i'm the same way with candyflowerforyou

me too. i'm eating sour fruit slices candies right now.


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ugh, i'm drinking tea in hopes that i don't get sick. now i want sour fruit slicessad

auburngirl's photo
Thu 07/09/09 03:52 AM


Allow me to sum this up, we all want the things we can't have...drinker


Um that's what you got out of this??? Holy hell... slaphead rofl rofl rofl



Sorry...wrong yet again

auburngirl's photo
Thu 07/09/09 03:53 AM



I was JUST thinking this a little bit earlier!!!! Tonight I've read more bashing about women from men and men from women, and marriage. I thought, boy, all this negativity is soooo appealing. I think for the MOST part, people meet each other, or at least get to know one another through the boards here. (Some behind the scenes in email) If I were looking, and read some of the things I've read tonight, I'd have had a check list in my lap going, nope, not him! and nope Definitely not him! laugh

So funny you bring this up! drinker

i'm probably on that list.


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I don't think you are...


There really is no list, for me anyway! laugh But no I don't recall seeing you bash.

auburngirl's photo
Thu 07/09/09 03:57 AM





Likewise, the man wants the 5'7" blond 'bimbo' type when in reality this could not be further from the truth. Men generally have an idea of what attracts them, but in reality, a lot of women make it seemingly impossible to approach them, leaving the man to search for what TV tells them that they want. Basically after a few foiled relationships; the man ends up a cynical bastard...

The reality is that it is all about communication. People need to be able to address their own feelings, comfortable enough to embrace them, and honest enough to actually let the other person know what they want in reality. Then when this person isn't Pamela Anderson, or Brad Pitt... give the other person a chance, they may be the great love of your life.




Priceless!

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Thu 07/09/09 04:12 AM
bah humbug grumble

auburngirl's photo
Thu 07/09/09 04:13 AM

bah humbug grumble


What's the matter gay? bad night?

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Thu 07/09/09 04:15 AM


bah humbug grumble


What's the matter gay? bad night?


nope, just can't get a decent argument online somedays! :wink:

auburngirl's photo
Thu 07/09/09 04:17 AM
awww now now. I like you FUNNY!!!! Because you are naturally funny it seems!

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Thu 07/09/09 04:19 AM

awww now now. I like you FUNNY!!!! Because you are naturally funny it seems!



oh,oh? u takin the pee pee? bigsmile

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Thu 07/09/09 04:19 AM

Sometimes I wonder why some people are even on a "dating site" at all, and list themselves as wanting to date, when it's clear they dislike or even hate the gender they're trying to be with. If every woman is a b!tch, a whore, a liar, only wants the "bad boy" while you describe yourself as the "nice guy," a cheater, a game player, sneaky and conniving, a ball buster, a gold digger, only into looks while you think you have a great personality and doesn't appreciate you for "being yourself" WHY are you trying to date/get married/be in a relationship at all?

My profile clearly says I'm only here for friends, but if I set my preference to wanting to date, I'd feel pretty silly being a man basher. How do you desire what you also despise? Discuss!flowerforyou


I wonder that too. There are some angry, bitter people on here.

auburngirl's photo
Thu 07/09/09 04:20 AM


awww now now. I like you FUNNY!!!! Because you are naturally funny it seems!



oh,oh? u takin the pee pee? bigsmile


HUH?? laugh noway