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Topic: where's all the nice guys
Kleisto's photo
Tue 07/07/09 08:30 PM

im not saying just jump in the sack that went out along time ago. but when a girl says all she wants is to be friends with you it will never go beyond that.... ever..... omg


What you say here is entirely different then what you implied above before. If someone wishes to be just friends that's one thing, it's totally different to have a female friend with no "just friends" designation around the relationship. Even when that IS the case, doesn't always mean it will stay that way forever, things change, and so do feelings sometimes with time.

racerx767's photo
Tue 07/07/09 08:32 PM
yeah right!!!! what color is the sky in the world youre living in

Kleisto's photo
Tue 07/07/09 08:33 PM

yeah right!!!! what color is the sky in the world youre living in


I could ask the same thing of you, you seem to strike me as very much a cynic, whereas with me, you never say never. Sometimes we think we know everything, but you know what, we don't.

directandwrite's photo
Tue 07/07/09 08:33 PM

yeah right!!!! what color is the sky in the world youre living in


No I think the just friend thing can change also...There are several guys I have been friends with in the past that I assumed was just friends, but at some point, I started feeling differently about them....so I have to agree with Kleisto on this one...

directandwrite's photo
Tue 07/07/09 08:37 PM
But you know what, Racer....if these "rules" you come up with as basic generalizations about women from what you have seen and experienced are true, then I am glad and proud to be the exception...at least, if nothing more, than to be a great representation for all of the unique women out there who don't fall into that same category!!!!

racerx767's photo
Tue 07/07/09 08:41 PM
i just saw his age, lets see if he still feels the same in 10 or 15 years. im not saying that it doesnt happen it is just rare when it does. look thats the reason im here im here to make female friends not sleep with them i want to be on the list but there was a time when i would say "i have enough friends i dont want another i want to sleep with you. lol. take it or leave it. its funny in my profession its harder to find female friends than it is to find a sex partner.

directandwrite's photo
Tue 07/07/09 08:43 PM

i just saw his age, lets see if he still feels the same in 10 or 15 years. im not saying that it doesnt happen it is just rare when it does. look thats the reason im here im here to make female friends not sleep with them i want to be on the list but there was a time when i would say "i have enough friends i dont want another i want to sleep with you. lol. take it or leave it. its funny in my profession its harder to find female friends than it is to find a sex partner.


What's your profession??

IndnPrncs's photo
Tue 07/07/09 08:45 PM

But you know what, Racer....if these "rules" you come up with as basic generalizations about women from what you have seen and experienced are true, then I am glad and proud to be the exception...at least, if nothing more, than to be a great representation for all of the unique women out there who don't fall into that same category!!!!


You are unique and special (((Direct)))

(((Kleisto))) How have you been?


Some women do know right away if they're attracted or not to someone and decide to put them on the friends list.. However, sometimes things change and they can be taken off that friends list... Life is not black and white anything can happen.. Anyone who is inflexible will not go very far in life...

directandwrite's photo
Tue 07/07/09 08:51 PM


But you know what, Racer....if these "rules" you come up with as basic generalizations about women from what you have seen and experienced are true, then I am glad and proud to be the exception...at least, if nothing more, than to be a great representation for all of the unique women out there who don't fall into that same category!!!!


You are unique and special (((Direct)))

(((Kleisto))) How have you been?


Some women do know right away if they're attracted or not to someone and decide to put them on the friends list.. However, sometimes things change and they can be taken off that friends list... Life is not black and white anything can happen.. Anyone who is inflexible will not go very far in life...


Okay that was put very well....and thank you, ((IndnPrncs)) flowers flowerforyou

IndnPrncs's photo
Tue 07/07/09 08:52 PM



But you know what, Racer....if these "rules" you come up with as basic generalizations about women from what you have seen and experienced are true, then I am glad and proud to be the exception...at least, if nothing more, than to be a great representation for all of the unique women out there who don't fall into that same category!!!!


You are unique and special (((Direct)))

(((Kleisto))) How have you been?


Some women do know right away if they're attracted or not to someone and decide to put them on the friends list.. However, sometimes things change and they can be taken off that friends list... Life is not black and white anything can happen.. Anyone who is inflexible will not go very far in life...


Okay that was put very well....and thank you, ((IndnPrncs)) flowers flowerforyou


Thank you and you're welcome flowerforyou

Kleisto's photo
Tue 07/07/09 08:52 PM


But you know what, Racer....if these "rules" you come up with as basic generalizations about women from what you have seen and experienced are true, then I am glad and proud to be the exception...at least, if nothing more, than to be a great representation for all of the unique women out there who don't fall into that same category!!!!


You are unique and special (((Direct)))

(((Kleisto))) How have you been?




I concur with you Indn, she is very unique to be sure. As for me, I've been kinda up and down and all around lately pretty much. Just trying to figure out where I'm going and who with right now. What about you?

IndnPrncs's photo
Tue 07/07/09 08:54 PM
I'm doing well.. Some days I still try to figure it out so don't rush yourself, you have nothing but time on your side darlin'flowerforyou

racerx767's photo
Tue 07/07/09 08:54 PM
let me first offer an apology if i offended you last night i was not trying to ok. and you just said exactly what i have been trying to say a girl knows right away and put you into a catagory of yes i will or no i wont. and its hard to switch to EITHER one

Kleisto's photo
Tue 07/07/09 08:55 PM

I'm doing well.. Some days I still try to figure it out so don't rush yourself, you have nothing but time on your side darlin'flowerforyou


I know need to go much slower. It's easy to rush and get so involved sometimes.

IndnPrncs's photo
Tue 07/07/09 08:58 PM
Thank you Racer..

I think you make a good point but there is room for other points as well..

It may be hard for some it is not for us to say... I am not every woman so I cannot speak for every woman, I can only speak for myself and know that there are others like me... Direct said that she has changed gears so she has proven that it's not black or white and there are other women like her...

directandwrite's photo
Tue 07/07/09 08:59 PM
I have to hand it to you, Racer...at least you ARE man enough to come and apologize...I don't think Geckgo would have apologized..not sure, but I don't know....either way I don't want to make that generalization....lol laugh laugh laugh

Kleisto, thanks for concurring with Indn about my uniqueness! lol :tongue:

RKISIT's photo
Tue 07/07/09 08:59 PM
ok simple fact...they only time i have ever heard...Rob your a nice guy is when i'm getting rejected...example..Rob your a nice guy and everything but your not really my type..this is from christian girls mind ya....why would they say that to me,i'm not a nice guy or a justifiable wanna be, i'm an a$$hole,period(no pms pun intended):smile:

IndnPrncs's photo
Tue 07/07/09 09:00 PM

ok simple fact...they only time i have ever heard...Rob your a nice guy is when i'm getting rejected...example..Rob your a nice guy and everything but your not really my type..this is from christian girls mind ya....why would they say that to me,i'm not a nice guy or a justifiable wanna be, i'm an a$$hole,period(no pms pun intended):smile:


Rob you're a good guy that likes to pretend he's an azzhole... :wink: laugh

RKISIT's photo
Tue 07/07/09 09:01 PM


ok simple fact...they only time i have ever heard...Rob your a nice guy is when i'm getting rejected...example..Rob your a nice guy and everything but your not really my type..this is from christian girls mind ya....why would they say that to me,i'm not a nice guy or a justifiable wanna be, i'm an a$$hole,period(no pms pun intended):smile:


Rob you're a good guy that likes to pretend he's an azzhole... :wink: laugh
pretend...no i am...but you can join me in my land of make believe:wink:

no photo
Tue 07/07/09 09:01 PM
Prncs is a nice guy. laugh

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