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I think I am a nice guy and one of the few guys on here who doesn't constantly think about sex.  My female friends tell me that is rare. 
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Edited by
74Drew
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Tue 07/07/09 04:27 PM
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she doesn't look like the kind of girl that would appreciate a nice guy. . . . Okay, 74Drew...I'm unclear. Are you a nice guy or are you a wanker?  i am whatever the consensus deems me to be. i can claim to be a nice guy and i can claim to be a jerk, but it's only what other people decide that will be held as the truth. in any case, i never said that she would or wouldn't be into me. just that she probably wouldn't appreciate a nice guy. . . . |
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she doesn't look like the kind of girl that would appreciate a nice guy. . . . Okay, 74Drew...I'm unclear. Are you a nice guy or are you a wanker? i am whatever the consensus deems me to be. i can claim to be a nice guy and i can claim to be a jerk, but it's only what other people decide that will be held as the truth. . . . |
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perception is reality? is it not? probably too deep of a question for this thread, but when a group concurs on a subject, that is deemed to be the truth regarding that subject until it can be proven otherwise. the world was flat until it was proven not. the earth was the center of the universe until it was proven not. i am whatever people believe me to be until i am proven not. . . . |
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perception is reality? is it not? probably too deep of a question for this thread, but when a group concurs on a subject, that is deemed to be the truth regarding that subject until it can be proven otherwise. the world was flat until it was proven not. the earth was the center of the universe until it was proven not. i am whatever people believe me to be until i am proven not. . . . You would be surprised how many people disagree with the whole perception is reality concept. |
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  I heard that she is looking really hard for a "nice guy" with benefits.
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Edited by
lifestooshort6
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Tue 07/07/09 05:07 PM
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I heard that she is looking really hard for a "nice guy" with benefits.  Ed you're a nice guy!!  
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the worst place to be is on the female FRIENDS LIST what that means is that they have already figured out in the first 10 minutes of meeting you, that you will never have sex with her. you know how it is boys, "i could never have sex with you because we are to good of friends" im not saying that having females for friends is bad but if you are looking to get sexed up stay off that friends list boys. i am an interpiter of the woman language and i am here to help. lol  |
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the worst place to be is on the female FRIENDS LIST what that means is that they have already figured out in the first 10 minutes of meeting you, that you will never have sex with her. you know how it is boys, "i could never have sex with you because we are to good of friends" im not saying that having females for friends is bad but if you are looking to get sexed up stay off that friends list boys. i am an interpiter of the woman language and i am here to help. lol |
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*Peeks head in the door* Is everyone decent in here tonight??? lol
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Edited by
racerx767
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Tue 07/07/09 07:59 PM
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 yes just starting a "discussion" again thats all lol
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yes just starting a "discussion" again thats all lol Uh oh...should I put this catsuit away and whip out my ninja girl get up??? 
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seriously am i wrong about the "friend list"? i have heard from friends and actually heard it myself that if you have a female for a "friend" you never get the goodies because she doesnt want to ruin the friendship. i have told a girl that i wanted to just be friends because friends dont break up!! they get mad at each other at times sure, but you never break up with a friend like you would with a boyfriend or girlfriend.
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seriously am i wrong about the "friend list"? i have heard from friends and actually heard it myself that if you have a female for a "friend" you never get the goodies because she doesnt want to ruin the friendship. i have told a girl that i wanted to just be friends because friends dont break up!! they get mad at each other at times sure, but you never break up with a friend like you would with a boyfriend or girlfriend. Actually, friends CAN break up.....but putting that point aside, I want my significant other to be my best friend too. I want to share all of that with him. I think you have to be friends first....so I would be more inclined to want to date someone I made friends with first than I would if we just started going out... |
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seriously am i wrong about the "friend list"? i have heard from friends and actually heard it myself that if you have a female for a "friend" you never get the goodies because she doesnt want to ruin the friendship. i have told a girl that i wanted to just be friends because friends dont break up!! they get mad at each other at times sure, but you never break up with a friend like you would with a boyfriend or girlfriend. Actually, friends CAN break up.....but putting that point aside, I want my significant other to be my best friend too. I want to share all of that with him. I think you have to be friends first....so I would be more inclined to want to date someone I made friends with first than I would if we just started going out... a woman knows in the first ten minutes if she is going to sleep with a guy or just be friends in most cases, thats what trying to convey. and if you get put on that friend list you never get off no pun intended. lol just like my black list once you go on your there for good |
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Edited by
Kleisto
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Tue 07/07/09 08:25 PM
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seriously am i wrong about the "friend list"? i have heard from friends and actually heard it myself that if you have a female for a "friend" you never get the goodies because she doesnt want to ruin the friendship. i have told a girl that i wanted to just be friends because friends dont break up!! they get mad at each other at times sure, but you never break up with a friend like you would with a boyfriend or girlfriend. Actually, friends CAN break up.....but putting that point aside, I want my significant other to be my best friend too. I want to share all of that with him. I think you have to be friends first....so I would be more inclined to want to date someone I made friends with first than I would if we just started going out... a woman knows in the first ten minutes if she is going to sleep with a guy or just be friends in most cases, thats what trying to convey. and if you get put on that friend list you never get off no pun intended. lol just like my black list once you go on your there for good Coming from a guy's perspective, just what is wrong with being friends with someone first before really getting serious? Isn't that the natural progression of a relationship, friends first, lovers second? But then I guess it isn't popular anymore to be friends and really get to know the person before you ever think about sleeping with them is it, or dare I say it waiting to marry the person first. |
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Edited by
directandwrite
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Tue 07/07/09 08:26 PM
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seriously am i wrong about the "friend list"? i have heard from friends and actually heard it myself that if you have a female for a "friend" you never get the goodies because she doesnt want to ruin the friendship. i have told a girl that i wanted to just be friends because friends dont break up!! they get mad at each other at times sure, but you never break up with a friend like you would with a boyfriend or girlfriend. Actually, friends CAN break up.....but putting that point aside, I want my significant other to be my best friend too. I want to share all of that with him. I think you have to be friends first....so I would be more inclined to want to date someone I made friends with first than I would if we just started going out... a woman knows in the first ten minutes if she is going to sleep with a guy or just be friends in most cases, thats what trying to convey. and if you get put on that friend list you never get off no pun intended. lol just like my black list once you go on your there for good I don't meet or talk to guys and decide in the first 10 minutes whether they are potential mates/dates/marriage potential or anything else.... Or am I just the "exception" to all the rules you keep making???  Surely that's not the case...
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im not saying just jump in the sack that went out along time ago. but when a girl says all she wants is to be friends with you it will never go beyond that.... ever..... omg
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