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Topic: where's all the nice guys
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Tue 07/07/09 10:32 PM


the worst place to be is on the female FRIENDS LIST what that means is that they have already figured out in the first 10 minutes of meeting you, that you will never have sex with her. you know how it is boys, "i could never have sex with you because we are to good of friends" im not saying that having females for friends is bad but if you are looking to get sexed up stay off that friends list boys. i am an interpiter of the woman language and i am here to help. lol
You do not speak for me. :angry:


you only encourage him by replying to his postslaugh

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Tue 07/07/09 10:33 PM



she doesn't look like the kind of girl that would appreciate a nice guy.


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Okay, 74Drew...I'm unclear. Are you a nice guy or are you a wanker? flowerforyou

i am whatever the consensus deems me to be. i can claim to be a nice guy and i can claim to be a jerk, but it's only what other people decide that will be held as the truth.
in any case, i never said that she would or wouldn't be into me. just that she probably wouldn't appreciate a nice guy.


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so only ugly women want nice guys? that will get you lots of play on here:wink: laugh

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Tue 07/07/09 10:35 PM

seriously am i wrong about the "friend list"? i have heard from friends and actually heard it myself that if you have a female for a "friend" you never get the goodies because she doesnt want to ruin the friendship. i have told a girl that i wanted to just be friends because friends dont break up!! they get mad at each other at times sure, but you never break up with a friend like you would with a boyfriend or girlfriend.


women only use that line "it will ruin the friendship" if the guy is ugly.

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Tue 07/07/09 10:36 PM




seriously am i wrong about the "friend list"? i have heard from friends and actually heard it myself that if you have a female for a "friend" you never get the goodies because she doesnt want to ruin the friendship. i have told a girl that i wanted to just be friends because friends dont break up!! they get mad at each other at times sure, but you never break up with a friend like you would with a boyfriend or girlfriend.



Actually, friends CAN break up.....but putting that point aside, I want my significant other to be my best friend too. I want to share all of that with him. I think you have to be friends first....so I would be more inclined to want to date someone I made friends with first than I would if we just started going out...


a woman knows in the first ten minutes if she is going to sleep with a guy or just be friends in most cases, thats what trying to convey. and if you get put on that friend list you never get off no pun intended. lol just like my black list once you go on your there for good



I don't meet or talk to guys and decide in the first 10 minutes whether they are potential mates/dates/marriage potential or anything else....

Or am I just the "exception" to all the rules you keep making??? huh Surely that's not the case...


i don't do it eitherdrinker

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Tue 07/07/09 10:38 PM


yeah right!!!! what color is the sky in the world youre living in


I could ask the same thing of you, you seem to strike me as very much a cynic, whereas with me, you never say never. Sometimes we think we know everything, but you know what, we don't.


drinker

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Tue 07/07/09 10:40 PM


seriously am i wrong about the "friend list"? i have heard from friends and actually heard it myself that if you have a female for a "friend" you never get the goodies because she doesnt want to ruin the friendship. i have told a girl that i wanted to just be friends because friends dont break up!! they get mad at each other at times sure, but you never break up with a friend like you would with a boyfriend or girlfriend.


women only use that line "it will ruin the friendship" if the guy is ugly.


Hey Calleigh! Now that one isn't true...I wouldn't do that..but I don't judge guys by their looks....

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Tue 07/07/09 10:41 PM



seriously am i wrong about the "friend list"? i have heard from friends and actually heard it myself that if you have a female for a "friend" you never get the goodies because she doesnt want to ruin the friendship. i have told a girl that i wanted to just be friends because friends dont break up!! they get mad at each other at times sure, but you never break up with a friend like you would with a boyfriend or girlfriend.


women only use that line "it will ruin the friendship" if the guy is ugly.


Hey Calleigh! Now that one isn't true...I wouldn't do that..but I don't judge guys by their looks....


eh, sorry to generalize. i guess i'm the only female on mingle who's into looks. oh well:wink: flowerforyou

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Tue 07/07/09 10:42 PM
Edited by IndnPrncs on Tue 07/07/09 10:43 PM
Well some do Direct.. I mean rather than the word ugly let's use "the girl isn't attracted to the guy"... But besides looks it could be his personality or he's as dumb as a bag of hammers... laugh

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Tue 07/07/09 10:43 PM
OR he doesn't have an eight-figure income! laugh

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Tue 07/07/09 10:43 PM




seriously am i wrong about the "friend list"? i have heard from friends and actually heard it myself that if you have a female for a "friend" you never get the goodies because she doesnt want to ruin the friendship. i have told a girl that i wanted to just be friends because friends dont break up!! they get mad at each other at times sure, but you never break up with a friend like you would with a boyfriend or girlfriend.


women only use that line "it will ruin the friendship" if the guy is ugly.


Hey Calleigh! Now that one isn't true...I wouldn't do that..but I don't judge guys by their looks....


eh, sorry to generalize. i guess i'm the only female on mingle who's into looks. oh well:wink: flowerforyou



No you're fine....I wasn't speaking for all women....just me...lol

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Tue 07/07/09 10:44 PM

OR he doesn't have an eight-figure income! laugh


OH please.. I've never dated a man that made more money than me... It's not about money...

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Tue 07/07/09 10:44 PM
I know. I was just joshin'. laugh

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Tue 07/07/09 10:45 PM

I know. I was just joshin'. laugh


I need a kick in the butt emoticon...

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Tue 07/07/09 10:46 PM

OR he doesn't have an eight-figure income! laugh


where do you live that men even have 8 figure incomes? beverly hills?:tongue:

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Tue 07/07/09 10:47 PM





seriously am i wrong about the "friend list"? i have heard from friends and actually heard it myself that if you have a female for a "friend" you never get the goodies because she doesnt want to ruin the friendship. i have told a girl that i wanted to just be friends because friends dont break up!! they get mad at each other at times sure, but you never break up with a friend like you would with a boyfriend or girlfriend.


women only use that line "it will ruin the friendship" if the guy is ugly.


Hey Calleigh! Now that one isn't true...I wouldn't do that..but I don't judge guys by their looks....


eh, sorry to generalize. i guess i'm the only female on mingle who's into looks. oh well:wink: flowerforyou



No you're fine....I wasn't speaking for all women....just me...lol


well, you're right though, most women do seem to not care about looks. i'm just in the minority in more ways than onelaugh

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Tue 07/07/09 10:50 PM






seriously am i wrong about the "friend list"? i have heard from friends and actually heard it myself that if you have a female for a "friend" you never get the goodies because she doesnt want to ruin the friendship. i have told a girl that i wanted to just be friends because friends dont break up!! they get mad at each other at times sure, but you never break up with a friend like you would with a boyfriend or girlfriend.


women only use that line "it will ruin the friendship" if the guy is ugly.


Hey Calleigh! Now that one isn't true...I wouldn't do that..but I don't judge guys by their looks....


eh, sorry to generalize. i guess i'm the only female on mingle who's into looks. oh well:wink: flowerforyou



No you're fine....I wasn't speaking for all women....just me...lol


well, you're right though, most women do seem to not care about looks. i'm just in the minority in more ways than onelaugh


I care, I have to be attracted to the person...

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Tue 07/07/09 11:04 PM
I think the question is what is attractive...to me....a guy can be not so great looking but have an awesome personality, thus making him much better looking in my opinion.....

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Tue 07/07/09 11:10 PM

I think the question is what is attractive...to me....a guy can be not so great looking but have an awesome personality, thus making him much better looking in my opinion.....


that is true.. I've dated people that at first I wasn't physically attracted to but when I got to know them I found so many things attractive...

and there are those that are attractive to most women but their personality stinks or they're dumb as a rock, which just blows the attractiveness all together...

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Tue 07/07/09 11:30 PM
This thing is still going? noway

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Tue 07/07/09 11:33 PM
some freakin' moron just ruined "good guy" now.... I'm going to have to come up with a new word that some idiot can't screw up..

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