Topic: Why do people CHEAT!? | |
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(((((lady)))))
boredchick,, I have never been cheated on, (that I know of) and never cheated on no one, even tho Im sure man do their thing and you would never know!!!! |
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Lack of respect for onesself and one's partner, low self esteem and
boredom are three of the big reasons for cheating, or so I've heard. |
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exactly morena that's the scary thing! I would have to go inspector
gadget on him! Like lazy said he would have to trustworthy and honest to begin with. Who needs extra non-sense in their life? cascavel good posts :) |
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LOL I can understand the others shenerd but boredom!?
That is the most pathetic thing I ever heard. If the relationship is boring you, try 2 things. Try to work it out with exciting new things to do or it's time to move on. That can be worked out though! |
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you have to have a solid foudation from both ends.. if one end is not
solid it never works.. they cheat because they are lacking soething in them selves.. it is not the other person it is something that they need to fullfill that never gets full. |
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lol @ lady (bobbit)
There are many and we will never know them all but lack of interest in the relationship, bordem and lack of courage to leave, fear, financial stability are a few and most but not all are excuses not reason good or bad. |
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So how would you guys cope with it?
Would you stay with that person? |
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yes right.. there are no excuses..
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I'm gonna shut up now..the men on this site are already scared of me as
it is..lol..they'll never talk to me now..lol |
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nope,, have to move on.. can't live with their sin.. forgive and walk
away.. |
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No, I wouldn't tolerate cheating. IMHO, that is one of the worst
character flaws a person can have. |
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They can't all be worked no matter how hard one tries. In relationships
like that most are one sided. And it's hard to work that out. |
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I know I couldn't tolerate it. I would forgive because the Bible says
"forgive others so God will forive you." Then I would walk away |
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she is right.. you can't fix your partner..
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and you have to forgive..
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Men cheat for sex. Forget that whole "I was lonely crap", it was all
about OPP. Women cheat for...I don't know. I'm sure some cheat for OPP too. But, I've heard they sometimes cheat due to cuckoo complex. It works like this: Find a good provider. Find a good DNA donor. The two don't have to be the same. The good provider raises the DNA donors child without ever knowing, you call the good provider cuckold. |
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If I was going to work that hard to turn the other cheek and forgive it
wouldn't be in a relationship with a loser that cheated. I couldn't sleep next to a person after that none the less make love to them. |
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yep.. they violated the bond of the relationship.. there for you can
band aid it but nothing can replace the hurt that it caused.. |
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But..."Men" arent the only ones who "CHEAT"!...
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hell no, it is both gender..
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