So I know that nightclubs are a good way to find a single girl, but where else is a good place? I mean, $25+ cover charges and a long drive is a lot of money for one night. There are no nightclubs in Palmdale, CA, so it is tough.

I know how to hold a good conversation, just lacking of knowledge where to go.

Zoo? Seriously, I may be a bit older than you but I meet a lot of single Moms there.

is there a high school near ya?

bingo halls

Everywhere are single women.


For zip code 93531, ages 20-25, within 50 miles, there are 66 women on this site. Now I understand they are all not active, but its not a bad place to start.

Yakima?

My zip code is 93550. There are only 2 active girls and they don't respond.

A club is the only place I can think of where you can start talking to a girl and almost knowing for sure they are single. Elsewhere you look like a dumbass because they are taken.

So what age group women do you want to meet?

You go where single women hang out.....

the mall, the gym, the cute little coffee shops...supermarket.

It depends what your interests are....

sports stores, hardware/tools....is where guys hang out.

Every time I have signed up for a Sign Language class there were always more women than men.
I may do it again just for that.

Meat dept. at the super market.

Yeah, I can hold a conversation, but fail at starting one without creeping them out. Knowing if they are single or not is the biggest thing too. I have a very monotone voice, and when I try to change it, it sounds like I am uptight.

From what I've seen lately, most of the ones at the club are with someone too. Someone once said, women are everywhere. Open your eyes and look around, they're everywhere. Every store you go into, every sidewalk that you go down, they serve you at resturants, you bump into them at the laundry, you see them when you rent a movie. You're asking the wrong questions. They are everywhere, approaching them and knowing what to say and what kind of questions to ask is the hard part. I don't look for single women, b/c like I said they are everywhere. I just walk up to people around me (men, women, whatever) and try to spark up a conversation. Chances are that even if the person you are talking to is not your type or whatever they might know someone who is, or have single friends.

As far as what to say? I usually start with "Hi."

supermarket, library, malls

Do you sing?

Go get singing lessons...seriously...learn to create pitch and range in your voice, develop expression....

that will carry into your day to day speaking voice, and also give you confidence when chatting with people.

do they still have homes for unwed mothers

ya never know

Sing? Um, lol. Is that the only way? My voice is not good for sining. I don't like to sing along to my favorite songs because they have the better singing voice, lol.

There must be an alternative.

Clubs are where you are most likely to meet single women???? I usually go to clubs on Girls Night Out and then I'm usually the only single one in the group.

Most of the men totally ignore me and go after the girls with the wedding rings. I've also determined that I don't want to date guys who pick up women at bars and clubs. So I never date anyone I meet at a bar or club.

Co-ed hobbies. Go to watch female friends at their hobbies if they are performance arts or sports. Hang around, you start to meet the other people involved. Soon you have a bigger group of friends. Some might become something more. Some might hook you up with someone you haven't meet yet and it works out great.

Don't pick up women at the grocery store. It really creeps us out.

Adult book store!

Yeah. I see. Maybe I should join softball or something. That is co-ed I know.

I have only been to one nightclub in my life. I am new at this, because I have been single for almost 4 years. Sounds unreal but yeah. Thanks for the advice.

Clubs and bars are usually a bad place to find someone to date unless you're just looking for fun for that night. What are your interests? Try volunteering or taking a class? You'll meet people with the same interests.