Topic: The Fine Line...
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Sat 06/27/09 12:40 PM
Yes...I'm referring to the ones who think they are "in love" & gush about it publicly after the first week...it rarely ever works out the way they think... :wink:

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Sat 06/27/09 12:44 PM
I've seen that happen soooooooooooo many times... If I'm close to them I suggest they take it slow and don't announce it b/c inevitably it ends... Maybe some people are still in love with the idea of being in love so they're not as reserved as others...

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Sat 06/27/09 12:47 PM
I have a lot of friends here, i also have a short list of people i don't like. I just try to get along with everybody.


You are right Phuque, I've seen many "romances" start or people brag about them which normally is fine , but be sure, because i've seen many fail, that must be embarrassing.

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Sat 06/27/09 12:48 PM

I've seen that happen soooooooooooo many times... If I'm close to them I suggest they take it slow and don't announce it b/c inevitably it ends... Maybe some people are still in love with the idea of being in love so they're not as reserved as others...



And that kinda' goes back to my point... So far in this thread...no one has admitted to actually hating someone (which is a good thing). I just wonder why when it's on the other foot...the "love" word is bandied about so carelessly...

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Sat 06/27/09 12:49 PM
Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering.

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Sat 06/27/09 12:50 PM

what a great topic!

hate's a pretty strong word, but there are certainly people who instantly rub me the wrong way and with whom i am certain i'd never get along and/or have any sort of relationship, romantic or otherwise.

in reverse, there are those to whom i'm immediately attracted and a certain chemistry exists, even if it's platonic. i am seldom wrong about either.

and then there is a huge grey, shaded area within which most people fall and where they forever stay.


Well said.

I can't say I hate anyone I haven't met, yet there are some that I'm pretty sure I would not get along with well in real life. If there's someone on here that I don't get along with well, I'm not going to put any energy into getting to know them or meeting them in real life.

There are also people I've chatted with here that I'm pretty sure I would get along with if we met.

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Sat 06/27/09 12:50 PM

Yes...I'm referring to the ones who think they are "in love" & gush about it publicly after the first week...it rarely ever works out the way they think... :wink:



and then it is so flipping embarrassing embarassed embarassed

when they come back to the drawing board frustrated frustrated frustrated

with their proverbial tail between their legs blushing blushing blushing

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Sat 06/27/09 12:51 PM
I don't know Phuque, I think that both are thrown around by some or so I've seen... I think it's no different than RL, I'm sure we'll all had friends that go out with someone for a week and profess love then get dumped a week or so later and we're left to pick up the pieces and help them feel better.. Some where their heart or hate on their sleeves and give it out whenever someone causes that firing synapsis in the brain good or bad...

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Sat 06/27/09 12:51 PM

i can't say that i hate any one particular individual, but i do collectively hate the scammers that go around trying to manipulate and use people (especially when those people happen to be friends of mine). every so often, the issue of being fake used to arise on a site of which i was a member and there were specific predator-type people who acted in this manner.

i can, however, say - without any doubt at all - that i was completely in love with robin before meeting him. it might not be YOUR version of love, or even anyone else's, but it certainly was what i felt.

(and mr. talldub up there was one of those whom i immediately liked; and, of course, instantly assumed he was fake because of it laugh )


I'm proud to say that I was once thought of as a fake by papersmile shades shades

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Sat 06/27/09 12:57 PM

I'm proud to say that I was once thought of as a fake by papersmile shades shades


who hasn't? laugh

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Sat 06/27/09 12:58 PM
slaphead I thought Phuque was a fake profile when she first joinedfrustrated

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Sat 06/27/09 12:59 PM
happy A lot of people used to think that I was JasmineInglewood.happyI never did figure that one outspock

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Sat 06/27/09 12:59 PM

slaphead I thought Phuque was a fake profile when she first joinedfrustrated



Yes...yes you did...pfffffffffffffffffft! :tongue:

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Sat 06/27/09 01:00 PM

happy A lot of people used to think that I was JasmineInglewood.happyI never did figure that one outspock




Truth be told he's actually Mr. Tinascared

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Sat 06/27/09 01:02 PM


I'm proud to say that I was once thought of as a fake by papersmile shades shades


who hasn't? laugh


Come to think about it, you're right!slaphead

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Sat 06/27/09 01:03 PM
Hate is a waste of valuable passion. Unless they are truly threatening your life, loved ones, or existence, I don't think allowing hate to rise in you will serve any good purpose.

I suggest that you chose to IGNORE such people.

Bryism: Ignore the Riff-Raff

Peace



Bry glasses

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Sat 06/27/09 01:08 PM


slaphead I thought Phuque was a fake profile when she first joinedfrustrated



Yes...yes you did...pfffffffffffffffffft! :tongue:
laugh You and Phuque2 didn't have pics and you were posting all over the place like you been here forever.laughI thought you were one of my friends playing aroundslaphead

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Sat 06/27/09 01:08 PM
Edited by MirrorMirror on Sat 06/27/09 01:09 PM


happy A lot of people used to think that I was JasmineInglewood.happyI never did figure that one outspock




Truth be told he's actually Mr. Tinascared
laugh bull****laugh

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Sat 06/27/09 01:10 PM



happy A lot of people used to think that I was JasmineInglewood.happyI never did figure that one outspock




Truth be told he's actually Mr. Tinascared
laugh bull****laugh



laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Sat 06/27/09 01:10 PM



slaphead I thought Phuque was a fake profile when she first joinedfrustrated



Yes...yes you did...pfffffffffffffffffft! :tongue:
laugh You and Phuque2 didn't have pics and you were posting all over the place like you been here forever.laughI thought you were one of my friends playing aroundslaphead



Oh lawdy! Let's not start the pic debate up again! scared :laughing: As I've said before...I INTENTIONALLY did not post a pic in the beginning...it was an interesting study in "paranoia"...:wink: