Hey, folks... I am 30 years old and a single father. Anyone care to check out my profile and let me know what the HELL I am doing wrong as far as finding a woman...? Granted I am somewhat of a unique individual, I drink a little bit too much Slurm sometimes and stumble home in a state of inebriated ecstasy but, what gives??? LOL... If you didn't get that last reference, you probably shouldn't even be participating in this discussion as I am really seeking advice from my peers. Anywho, I'm a big boy and I could really use a little constructive criticism...so, let me have it! Oh, and P.S. - I already know I'm not really the most attractive guy in the world so, let's leave that one alone, huh??? Oh, and I don't really need replies from guys and especially not from idiots or hicks... Thank you and discuss... Outtie.

You haven't even been on a full week yet silly. Post in the forums and get to know people here

I happen to think you kinda look like MeatLoaf, so that ain't bad.....

But IMO most women look at a pessimistic profile and posts, and it is a turn off.

Give it time, as MsMyka said......Rome wasn't built in a day....(in other words, things take time). Good luck to you.

Might want to try and find yourself first. Your looks and being a single Dad are the least of your problems.

Dreamy

hello eileena. like my new photo?

finding a women, they're everywhere, all you have to do is bust a move; in fact, there's a women that posts often looking to get married, you ought to hit her up

roko

Dang ol' man im a dang ol' hick and ima post anyway.

Man I tell you what man get some dang CK1 man ladies love that man woo hoo!

What you are doing wrong is trying to get a date online. You can do much better chatting up women in the real world. It's MUCH easier.

Been here seven days, have 15 posts, and you're actually wondering why they're not beating down your door yet??

Wait till you've been here 2 1/2 years, have 20,000 posts, and STILL wonder why they're not beating down your door....!!

Or even spray-painting interesting graffiti on it....

I just cannot understand the mentality of some people. They sign up on a social site, and expect the love of their life to just fall into their lap, like it's just supposed to "happen". Guess what? You must ALWAYS be SOCIAL first before finding someone for a relationship!

Why is this such a hard concept for so many people to wrap their head around?

flash some paper

use the pic where your son and you are most happy.....the one with your tongue out! great pic! and just stay on here, for you will learn vast amounts about yourself and othere here. if you apply what you've learned, and moved toward a possitive attitude, you will, i repeat, you will find what you're looking for, even if it's just your own solace! good luck man, and i'm here if you need to talk.

i like to have some of that paper!!!! dubz can you drop it in the mail?

wtf is with people downing hicks/farmboys all the time?


i got half a mind to drag ya behind my truck..

even though ya stereotype horribly...good luck

you seemed okie doke till you said that. Now you seem kinda like a *****

<==== idiot AND a hick

I actually like your pics that you have up. It shows a sense of humor that I like!

your post does feel a bit condescending...well, actually a lot...although, I do get some of your humor in the first couple of lines. the rest is just condescending and would have been better left off IMO..

perhaps you could used that in your profile.

I will make an assumption; which is not the brightest thing to do; however...this is not your first social site and your question is rhetorical...to a point anyway.

I think that the 'separated' status may also be a bit of an issue...yet, you have to be honest.

your profile shows me you have a sense of humor...however, I can also guess that you are a responsible person as you have your son...yet, the that is only my guess as you share nothing really serious about yourself in your profile. nothing 'real' in your profile...nothing that shows me any depth of who you are as a person...

now, granted, I am old as heck and have a child your age...so it may not even matter to you what I think...and then again...

I could be wrong...

PS~ also, do not make fun of your body size...that really is not going to win you any points IMO...cause if you make fun of you, then you are making fun of me too.. I am a large person and if I keep talking about it and let it define me, then others will do the same thing...really, people will know you are not skinny from your pics...

Well I'm a guy but your going to hear from me anyway...

Dude, reword your profile. You need to point out the positives you have going on. Also change your default picture. Want to live in luxury...come on man. I see your humor poking through but maybe jsut change the slant some.

Sorry to be a little harsh but I am sure you are a good person and just need to emphasize that aspect.

Take care,

B