Topic: can you help??
taylorfan's photo
Wed 05/16/07 11:35 AM
ok...and im sure im gonna get bashed..but thats ok i can take it...i
live in tampa florida...i recently meet someone..online...she lives in
new york....im pretty sure shes "the one"...but ofcourse she lives far
away...should i just forget it??i mean,i do date alot here..but when you
know you know...can you help??any advice??
thanks and be nice

AutonomousW's photo
Wed 05/16/07 11:39 AM
My advice, bus tickets are cheap. go see her

jeanc200358's photo
Wed 05/16/07 11:40 AM
why would you get bashed? If SHE wants you to come visit (or vice versa)
then that's all that matters.

kntrygal1964's photo
Wed 05/16/07 11:44 AM
you only live once and distance shouldnt detere you from someone you
love. if you dont go for it you will always wonder what could have been
and you will regret itflowerforyou good luck and hello from a fellow
floridian

iRon's photo
Wed 05/16/07 11:44 AM
Dude, take it from someone who does know, you don't know until you spend
personal in RL time with someone. Trust me.


I hope she is the ONE for you but until you are in the same room with
her and spent spme TIME with her YOU DON"T KNOW.

no photo
Wed 05/16/07 11:49 AM
taylor babe meet up somewhere with her, and try a long distance thing..
make sure feelings are mutual on both of yoursides and if things
continue to work out well then you guys can talk about whos moving
where!

Raindrops's photo
Wed 05/16/07 11:53 AM
I totally agree with iRon. You won't know for sure until you meet in
person and spend time with them. People can be quite different online
than they are in person. And I'm talking from experience.

Good luck. I hope she is the "one."

no photo
Wed 05/16/07 11:54 AM
Taylorfan,

I'm sure that long distance relationships can work, but my personal
experiances were fairly bad. I suggest you take things very slowly.
Things are not always as they seem.

taylorfan's photo
Wed 05/16/07 11:58 AM
thanks everyone and your are..were right...but she just emailed me that
she doesnt want to continue...because of the distance...good thing i
didn't start packing!!!!!

no photo
Wed 05/16/07 12:04 PM
awww * huggles* taylor

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Wed 05/16/07 12:06 PM
You go for a road trip! Just cause someone lives farther away from
you-does'nt mean it won't work.That one that is far away may be the one
you never know...:smile:

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Wed 05/16/07 12:10 PM
oops sorry taylor...

But don't let distance get in the way in the future.
I have alot tell me I'm too far away...
There is'nt anyone around here...so whats a person to do?

slikylisa's photo
Wed 05/16/07 12:11 PM
ya never know till ya pull the trigger

atleast meet her and find out

Kens_Barbie's photo
Wed 05/16/07 12:20 PM
TaylorFan....don't count her out just because of distance! You just
might miss out on the best thing that has ever happened to you
flowerforyou Good luck and best wishes to you!

rozey2680's photo
Wed 05/16/07 12:24 PM
you never know... I went to Arizona thinking he was "the one" he was
great... but it still didn't work out... but that's besides the point...
I'm glad I went because otherwise I would've been wondering if he was
the one or not... this way I know... so go see her... and good luck!
flowerforyou

outthere's photo
Wed 05/16/07 12:24 PM
GO 4 IT LIVE ON THE EDGE AND GO , :smile:

iceprincess's photo
Wed 05/16/07 12:24 PM
take a trip worst case scenario it doesn't fly but hell you got a little
vacation out of it