Topic: Guys today are a bunch of sissies
ReddBeans's photo
Sat 06/20/09 10:05 AM
This is only my opinion an if no one else agrees with me fine by medrinker

To me a real man is someone who treats others with dignity an respect. Who treats his woman or signifigant other with love, kindness an respect. He appreciates who that person is an how they enrich his life for bein it. He raises his children with love an teaches them good morals an values. He's out there teachin his kids to ride a bike, throwin a ball with em, teachin em to bat, goes to the school functions, teaches his son how to work on his first car, is there with tears in his eyes an a 12 gauge leanin behind the front door when his daughter goes out on her first date. Will cry with his woman or signifigant other when times call for it. Will be there in sickness an in health. Will do whatever job necessary to help provide for his family whether it be ridin on the back of a garbage truck to sittin behind a desk in an office. Will go without the newest man toy so his kid has that new pair of Nikes. A real man bursts with a smile from ear to ear the 1st time he holds his 1st grandchild. Who extracts pure joy from bein called Papaw the first time. A real man admits his mistakes an doesn't shy away from them but learns an asks forgiveness to those he's wronged. A real man knows that not everyone is purfect an excepts it. shades

*I will now go back to my good ole sarcastic self*

rara777's photo
Sat 06/20/09 10:07 AM

This is only my opinion an if no one else agrees with me fine by medrinker

To me a real man is someone who treats others with dignity an respect. Who treats his woman or signifigant other with love, kindness an respect. He appreciates who that person is an how they enrich his life for bein it. He raises his children with love an teaches them good morals an values. He's out there teachin his kids to ride a bike, throwin a ball with em, teachin em to bat, goes to the school functions, teaches his son how to work on his first car, is there with tears in his eyes an a 12 gauge leanin behind the front door when his daughter goes out on her first date. Will cry with his woman or signifigant other when times call for it. Will be there in sickness an in health. Will do whatever job necessary to help provide for his family whether it be ridin on the back of a garbage truck to sittin behind a desk in an office. Will go without the newest man toy so his kid has that new pair of Nikes. A real man bursts with a smile from ear to ear the 1st time he holds his 1st grandchild. Who extracts pure joy from bein called Papaw the first time. A real man admits his mistakes an doesn't shy away from them but learns an asks forgiveness to those he's wronged. A real man knows that not everyone is purfect an excepts it. shades

*I will now go back to my good ole sarcastic self*



drinker :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: drinker

yellowrose10's photo
Sat 06/20/09 10:07 AM

This is only my opinion an if no one else agrees with me fine by medrinker

To me a real man is someone who treats others with dignity an respect. Who treats his woman or signifigant other with love, kindness an respect. He appreciates who that person is an how they enrich his life for bein it. He raises his children with love an teaches them good morals an values. He's out there teachin his kids to ride a bike, throwin a ball with em, teachin em to bat, goes to the school functions, teaches his son how to work on his first car, is there with tears in his eyes an a 12 gauge leanin behind the front door when his daughter goes out on her first date. Will cry with his woman or signifigant other when times call for it. Will be there in sickness an in health. Will do whatever job necessary to help provide for his family whether it be ridin on the back of a garbage truck to sittin behind a desk in an office. Will go without the newest man toy so his kid has that new pair of Nikes. A real man bursts with a smile from ear to ear the 1st time he holds his 1st grandchild. Who extracts pure joy from bein called Papaw the first time. A real man admits his mistakes an doesn't shy away from them but learns an asks forgiveness to those he's wronged. A real man knows that not everyone is purfect an excepts it. shades

*I will now go back to my good ole sarcastic self*


:cry: touching. and I 100% agree...now can we fight? :tongue:

rara777's photo
Sat 06/20/09 10:09 AM



Sweetness just who are you calling a sissie?

Just because I never held a job in the field that you do, doesn`t make me a sissie.

Just because I treat a woman like a lady doesn`t make me a sissie either.

When you have raised 2 sons, been a foster parent to aprox 50 other children, and been married for 24 years, come and talk to me.

By the way pal, I am widowed does that also make me a sissie?

I think not.


What about not taking threads personally?

He was talking "in general" and I think he didn't mean that one specific work would make a man more man while other doesn't.


I suspect rara was just giving his side of the story just like everyone else does


flowerforyou smooched Thank you (((yellowrose)))smooched flowerforyou

yellowrose10's photo
Sat 06/20/09 10:09 AM
blushing rara...I knew what ya meant bigsmile

GG2's photo
Sat 06/20/09 10:10 AM

This is only my opinion an if no one else agrees with me fine by medrinker

To me a real man is someone who treats others with dignity an respect. Who treats his woman or signifigant other with love, kindness an respect. He appreciates who that person is an how they enrich his life for bein it. He raises his children with love an teaches them good morals an values. He's out there teachin his kids to ride a bike, throwin a ball with em, teachin em to bat, goes to the school functions, teaches his son how to work on his first car, is there with tears in his eyes an a 12 gauge leanin behind the front door when his daughter goes out on her first date. Will cry with his woman or signifigant other when times call for it. Will be there in sickness an in health. Will do whatever job necessary to help provide for his family whether it be ridin on the back of a garbage truck to sittin behind a desk in an office. Will go without the newest man toy so his kid has that new pair of Nikes. A real man bursts with a smile from ear to ear the 1st time he holds his 1st grandchild. Who extracts pure joy from bein called Papaw the first time. A real man admits his mistakes an doesn't shy away from them but learns an asks forgiveness to those he's wronged. A real man knows that not everyone is purfect an excepts it. shades

*I will now go back to my good ole sarcastic self*



Well that sounds like the ideal HUSBAND! laugh

ReddBeans's photo
Sat 06/20/09 10:14 AM


This is only my opinion an if no one else agrees with me fine by medrinker

To me a real man is someone who treats others with dignity an respect. Who treats his woman or signifigant other with love, kindness an respect. He appreciates who that person is an how they enrich his life for bein it. He raises his children with love an teaches them good morals an values. He's out there teachin his kids to ride a bike, throwin a ball with em, teachin em to bat, goes to the school functions, teaches his son how to work on his first car, is there with tears in his eyes an a 12 gauge leanin behind the front door when his daughter goes out on her first date. Will cry with his woman or signifigant other when times call for it. Will be there in sickness an in health. Will do whatever job necessary to help provide for his family whether it be ridin on the back of a garbage truck to sittin behind a desk in an office. Will go without the newest man toy so his kid has that new pair of Nikes. A real man bursts with a smile from ear to ear the 1st time he holds his 1st grandchild. Who extracts pure joy from bein called Papaw the first time. A real man admits his mistakes an doesn't shy away from them but learns an asks forgiveness to those he's wronged. A real man knows that not everyone is purfect an excepts it. shades

*I will now go back to my good ole sarcastic self*


:cry: touching. and I 100% agree...now can we fight? :tongue:


Evidently u didn't read the footnote. I said I was now returnin to my usual self. Jeez, U get all serious an mushy for like 2 secondsgrumble

ReddBeans's photo
Sat 06/20/09 10:15 AM


This is only my opinion an if no one else agrees with me fine by medrinker

To me a real man is someone who treats others with dignity an respect. Who treats his woman or signifigant other with love, kindness an respect. He appreciates who that person is an how they enrich his life for bein it. He raises his children with love an teaches them good morals an values. He's out there teachin his kids to ride a bike, throwin a ball with em, teachin em to bat, goes to the school functions, teaches his son how to work on his first car, is there with tears in his eyes an a 12 gauge leanin behind the front door when his daughter goes out on her first date. Will cry with his woman or signifigant other when times call for it. Will be there in sickness an in health. Will do whatever job necessary to help provide for his family whether it be ridin on the back of a garbage truck to sittin behind a desk in an office. Will go without the newest man toy so his kid has that new pair of Nikes. A real man bursts with a smile from ear to ear the 1st time he holds his 1st grandchild. Who extracts pure joy from bein called Papaw the first time. A real man admits his mistakes an doesn't shy away from them but learns an asks forgiveness to those he's wronged. A real man knows that not everyone is purfect an excepts it. shades

*I will now go back to my good ole sarcastic self*



Well that sounds like the ideal HUSBAND! laugh


Husband, Boyfriend, Live In, don't matter long as he's a real mandrinker

yellowrose10's photo
Sat 06/20/09 10:16 AM
laugh beans...I read that part...that's why I asked if we could fight now laugh

nuttin wrong with mushy beans laugh

Riding_Dubz's photo
Sat 06/20/09 10:16 AM

Sweetness just who are you calling a sissie?

Just because I never held a job in the field that you do, doesn`t make me a sissie.

Just because I treat a woman like a lady doesn`t make me a sissie either.

When you have raised 2 sons, been a foster parent to aprox 50 other children, and been married for 24 years, come and talk to me.

By the way pal, I am widowed does that also make me a sissie?

I think not.


Rara my brotha from anotha drinker drinks

i admire who you are and what you've been throu :thumbsup: :thumbsup:

Riding_Dubz's photo
Sat 06/20/09 10:17 AM
i'll stick to being a pretty boiii

and drink my paradise islands drinker

TBRich's photo
Sat 06/20/09 10:19 AM
Rara is a man's man and I am proud to know him. You women want to talk about being a sissy, well try staring down the double barrel of a thirty year mortgage and you will start to know what a real man is all about.

bastet126's photo
Sat 06/20/09 10:21 AM

Sweetness just who are you calling a sissie?

Just because I never held a job in the field that you do, doesn`t make me a sissie.

Just because I treat a woman like a lady doesn`t make me a sissie either.

When you have raised 2 sons, been a foster parent to aprox 50 other children, and been married for 24 years, come and talk to me.

By the way pal, I am widowed does that also make me a sissie?

I think not.


rara, do you have subjects that trip your trigger? :wink: and...smooched flowerforyou

PATSFAN's photo
Sat 06/20/09 10:22 AM

i'll stick to being a pretty boiii

and drink my paradise islands drinker




Kev knitted me a nice sweater, it's really warmdrinker

ReddBeans's photo
Sat 06/20/09 10:25 AM

laugh beans...I read that part...that's why I asked if we could fight now laugh

nuttin wrong with mushy beans laugh


I'll meet ya in Politics an see if we can't stir up some chaosrofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

speedbug72's photo
Sat 06/20/09 10:28 AM


i may have been laid off for the past yuear but i built a stone wall around the boarder of my pa's yard. an im still doin any job that i get called to.

yellowrose10's photo
Sat 06/20/09 10:30 AM


laugh beans...I read that part...that's why I asked if we could fight now laugh

nuttin wrong with mushy beans laugh


I'll meet ya in Politics an see if we can't stir up some chaosrofl rofl rofl rofl rofl


don't we always....beware of the redneck girls

rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

Riding_Dubz's photo
Sat 06/20/09 10:33 AM

Kev knitted me a nice sweater, it's really warmdrinker


Hey no prob john happy i put a little extra love into yours :heart:



krupa's photo
Sat 06/20/09 10:42 AM
The irony of it is this...

When I ain't at my job...I clean up nice...(I am glad that I am not scruffy and unkempt)...Sure I love my beer (drinking one right now)..But a Dirty Martini has its place too.

As far as work ethic...I got a monster work ethic...don't matter if it is sweating my @ss off in the blazing sun or trying to wrap my head around yet another new spread sheet or the FDA laws I gotta know...

I love hanging around with my friends who ain't shaved in three days....don't bother to pull a comb through thier hair and think that a Harley T-shirt and jeans that they have worn for the last three days is supposed to be a p**sy lure.

They are the ones resentful that women aren't throwing themselves at them.

Because I take pride in my grooming doesn't make me less of a man...It means I can pick and choose who I am gonna f**k.

ThomasJB's photo
Sat 06/20/09 11:27 AM

This is only my opinion an if no one else agrees with me fine by medrinker

To me a real man is someone who treats others with dignity an respect. Who treats his woman or signifigant other with love, kindness an respect. He appreciates who that person is an how they enrich his life for bein it. He raises his children with love an teaches them good morals an values. He's out there teachin his kids to ride a bike, throwin a ball with em, teachin em to bat, goes to the school functions, teaches his son how to work on his first car, is there with tears in his eyes an a 12 gauge leanin behind the front door when his daughter goes out on her first date. Will cry with his woman or signifigant other when times call for it. Will be there in sickness an in health. Will do whatever job necessary to help provide for his family whether it be ridin on the back of a garbage truck to sittin behind a desk in an office. Will go without the newest man toy so his kid has that new pair of Nikes. A real man bursts with a smile from ear to ear the 1st time he holds his 1st grandchild. Who extracts pure joy from bein called Papaw the first time. A real man admits his mistakes an doesn't shy away from them but learns an asks forgiveness to those he's wronged. A real man knows that not everyone is purfect an excepts it. shades

*I will now go back to my good ole sarcastic self*


drinker I am glad to see a woman who sees what a real man should be. I have seen too many women who either don't know, don't care, or think that those kind of men aren't out there. They are.:thumbsup: