Topic: dating
Winx's photo
Fri 06/19/09 11:28 AM

The way I see it is by the time you're the age where you're dating someone with grandchildren, you might not want to take on any small children.
It's their right. Small children are a lot to take on. I have no problem dating someone with small children, however I can't say when I'm "older" I would want to take that role on.


I'm older then her and I have a child in elementary school.laugh

PATSFAN's photo
Fri 06/19/09 11:28 AM

I find it funny that people are lashing out and attacking someone they don't even know based of their personal preference of not wanting to get in a relationship with someone that is taking care of kids. I'm going to start lashing out at people for not wanting to date a drug user, alcoholic, or smoker. Level the playing field a little...




I agree , lashing out at someone over preference is ridiculous!

TBRich's photo
Fri 06/19/09 11:29 AM
My butt needs a lashing

PATSFAN's photo
Fri 06/19/09 11:31 AM

omg...im already disliked for either smoking, drinking, kids, tats...the list goes on.........lolol...rofl rofl




I get passed by a lot because i smoke... no big deal!

earthytaurus76's photo
Fri 06/19/09 11:31 AM
I find it offensive that someone would discriminate against a little innocent child, and their family member.

I dont think anyone has lashed out. Call it a "personal preference"



no photo
Fri 06/19/09 11:32 AM
Kids are just little people with gigantic heads!!scared shocked

earthytaurus76's photo
Fri 06/19/09 11:33 AM

Kids are just little people with gigantic heads!!scared shocked


laugh true.

no photo
Fri 06/19/09 11:34 AM


omg...im already disliked for either smoking, drinking, kids, tats...the list goes on.........lolol...rofl rofl




I get passed by a lot because i smoke... no big deal!


Thanks ((((Pats)))Thats so true.
Go hop in your chair Ill go bring you a beer or two...and your ciggs.smooched flowers

DamnPhule's photo
Fri 06/19/09 11:35 AM
< ----- Phule says: I like kids ... just don't think I could eat a whole one.
:laughing:

PATSFAN's photo
Fri 06/19/09 11:36 AM



omg...im already disliked for either smoking, drinking, kids, tats...the list goes on.........lolol...rofl rofl




I get passed by a lot because i smoke... no big deal!


Thanks ((((Pats)))Thats so true.
Go hop in your chair Ill go bring you a beer or two...and your ciggs.smooched flowers



smitten

yellowrose10's photo
Fri 06/19/09 11:37 AM
who is lashing?what

earthytaurus76's photo
Fri 06/19/09 11:37 AM
Someone would be absoloutely blessed to meet my little man, he rocks.

I would think someone is a total wierdo for not wanting to be with me because of him. Hes awesome.

LoveToLaughLinda's photo
Fri 06/19/09 11:38 AM
I do understand that many would not want to get involved with a yound kid, and I can understand that. What I don't understan is the things they say.I have on my profile in plain site that I am raising my grandson,so if that is a problem to them they should just go on. But instead they send emails saying just stupid and hateful things. That is what I don't understand.I wasn't trying to bash anyone for any reason

Winx's photo
Fri 06/19/09 11:39 AM

I do understand that many would not want to get involved with a yound kid, and I can understand that. What I don't understan is the things they say.I have on my profile in plain site that I am raising my grandson,so if that is a problem to them they should just go on. But instead they send emails saying just stupid and hateful things. That is what I don't understand.I wasn't trying to bash anyone for any reason


Those are the creeps.

When they do that, just block them.flowerforyou

tanyaann's photo
Fri 06/19/09 11:40 AM

I do understand that many would not want to get involved with a yound kid, and I can understand that. What I don't understan is the things they say.I have on my profile in plain site that I am raising my grandson,so if that is a problem to them they should just go on. But instead they send emails saying just stupid and hateful things. That is what I don't understand.I wasn't trying to bash anyone for any reason


I don't think that they were intially saying that you were bashing. I made a comment that they were probably jerks anyways. I think that's how the topic of bashing or lashing out was brought up!

earthytaurus76's photo
Fri 06/19/09 11:40 AM

I do understand that many would not want to get involved with a yound kid, and I can understand that. What I don't understan is the things they say.I have on my profile in plain site that I am raising my grandson,so if that is a problem to them they should just go on. But instead they send emails saying just stupid and hateful things. That is what I don't understand.I wasn't trying to bash anyone for any reason



What are they saying?

"ERRR STINKIN GRANDMA!" WTF??? lol

I cant imagine. laugh

FearandLoathing's photo
Fri 06/19/09 11:41 AM

I find it offensive that someone would discriminate against a little innocent child, and their family member.

I dont think anyone has lashed out. Call it a "personal preference"





See, you're taking it too personal. No one is discriminating against a little innocent child or their family members. Some people just don't want to get into a relationship with someone that already has a child. And here's a recap.


Whats funny is theyre presumptious enough to really assume youd ever ALLOW theyre low selves to be NEAR your children or grands.


And in the same post:


Its good you found out up front, because you didnt have to waste time with the robot.


And from another poster:


Don't sweat it, they were probably jerks anyways!


So, what do you call "lashing out"?

tanyaann's photo
Fri 06/19/09 11:43 AM
Fear, are you having a bad day? Mad cause Reddy beat you up in the sandbox?

FearandLoathing's photo
Fri 06/19/09 11:44 AM

Fear, are you having a bad day? Mad cause Reddy beat you up in the sandbox?


Nope, just find it funny that personal preference gets such an attack. Actually quite sad...

yellowrose10's photo
Fri 06/19/09 11:44 AM
Fear....the way I read the OP was in response to the emails from these guys...not in general. some people don't want kids (whether they don't like them or their kids are grown or whatever) that isn't a problem. But (at least for me) I responded to it being clear on her profile and the emails saying what they did