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Bullcrap :P You ALWAYS hurt the ones you love the most. That is reality. The best relationships have their moments when things go to **** and you fight and argue and wonder why you're there. Then, you either choose to remember or you don't. You either choose to make it work, or you don't. People give up too easy anymore. Problems arise and they run instead of standing their ground and fighting for their loved one. Both sexes are guilty of it. FearandLoathing, if you're happy single, more power to ya! I really wish you the best and hope you stay happy :) I was simply asking questions O.o Do you see yourself still single in 10 years? 20 years? I don't want to be, but that's me :) I'm actually hoping for it, I'd rather not be in a relationship that will inevitably hurt me in one way or the other emotionally. So far every relationship has done that in one or the other, therefore not permitting survival to be any easier...which is human nature, I'm a good specimen to evolution. I realized what didn't work for me and no longer pursue that in which will hurt me more. |
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C'mon Fear, you know one day some crazy broad will come around and knock you out of your comfortable singledom. It'll happen, whether you want it to or not.
I'm also very happy being alone...most of the time. But being that my baby making gear will expire if I don't get a move on I am always open to the possibility. 
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Because we keep hoping it will change or they will change and by some miracle, which only happens in the movies, they will see we are THE ONE for them and start appreciating us. 
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Because we keep hoping it will change or they will change and by some miracle, which only happens in the movies, they will see we are THE ONE for them and start appreciating us. Sad, but true. I tried to work it out for the sake of the kids, the old memories that I missed and the love I thought I had. Once it switches over to that selfcentered mode, I realize there was no love and respect- its all conditional. He said I was the one.. He said he appreciate me.. but that was only when everything went his way.Oh yea, He told her the same things too. |
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Because we keep hoping it will change or they will change and by some miracle, which only happens in the movies, they will see we are THE ONE for them and start appreciating us. Sad, but true. I tried to work it out for the sake of the kids, the old memories that I missed and the love I thought I had. Once it switches over to that selfcentered mode, I realize there was no love and respect- its all conditional. He said I was the one.. He said he appreciate me.. but that was only when everything went his way.Oh yea, He told her the same things too.  you just explained it to a tee!! shelfishness is the key word... can be nice to get what they want, and in return its easy to be nice back.. then as time goes they got you manipulated and not realizing that you are now the only one being nice and giving, just the way they wanted it... then you realize that after a while..
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C'mon Fear, you know one day some crazy broad will come around and knock you out of your comfortable singledom. It'll happen, whether you want it to or not. I'm also very happy being alone...most of the time. But being that my baby making gear will expire if I don't get a move on I am always open to the possibility. Maybe I should go to Canada? Eh? 
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C'mon Fear, you know one day some crazy broad will come around and knock you out of your comfortable singledom. It'll happen, whether you want it to or not. I'm also very happy being alone...most of the time. But being that my baby making gear will expire if I don't get a move on I am always open to the possibility. Maybe I should go to Canada? Eh? Well maybe...we certainly have our share of crazy women!  And we do outnumber the male populations here... Be nice to have some fresh meat around 
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C'mon Fear, you know one day some crazy broad will come around and knock you out of your comfortable singledom. It'll happen, whether you want it to or not. I'm also very happy being alone...most of the time. But being that my baby making gear will expire if I don't get a move on I am always open to the possibility. Maybe I should go to Canada? Eh? Well maybe...we certainly have our share of crazy women! And we do outnumber the male populations here... Be nice to have some fresh meat around As long as you bury me under my stoop, I like my collection. 
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C'mon Fear, you know one day some crazy broad will come around and knock you out of your comfortable singledom. It'll happen, whether you want it to or not. I'm also very happy being alone...most of the time. But being that my baby making gear will expire if I don't get a move on I am always open to the possibility. Maybe I should go to Canada? Eh? Well maybe...we certainly have our share of crazy women! And we do outnumber the male populations here... Be nice to have some fresh meat around As long as you bury me under my stoop, I like my collection. 
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 If we love and it hurts us, why do we keep going back for more? Cuz some people are just idiots, that's why. Either that, or they've had their minds scrambled by the other party so massively that they wouldn't be able to tell poop from chocolate pudding. I'm a firm believer of the "if it hurts, get your hand outta there" rule- the SECOND you're gettin' crapped on by someone or something, get the heck out. It's as simple as that. |
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The sad thing for me is, if all women were traditionally unattractive or overweight, I wouldn't desire women in my life at all, and I think the same can be said of all guys and a lot of women concerning men.
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Because we keep hoping it will change or they will change and by some miracle, which only happens in the movies, they will see we are THE ONE for them and start appreciating us. Sad, but true. I tried to work it out for the sake of the kids, the old memories that I missed and the love I thought I had. Once it switches over to that selfcentered mode, I realize there was no love and respect- its all conditional. He said I was the one.. He said he appreciate me.. but that was only when everything went his way.Oh yea, He told her the same things too. you just explained it to a tee!! shelfishness is the key word... can be nice to get what they want, and in return its easy to be nice back.. then as time goes they got you manipulated and not realizing that you are now the only one being nice and giving, just the way they wanted it... then you realize that after a while.. |
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I dont
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 Good answer, PATSFAN
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The sad thing for me is, if all women were traditionally unattractive or overweight, I wouldn't desire women in my life at all, and I think the same can be said of all guys and a lot of women concerning men. 
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