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Those are just the ones pullin' off mind games on you. Even when they say they don't wanna get in your pannies, they actually DO wanna get in your pannies. We're all jerks, you know? ALL of us!  But I'm sure some women can be just as sexually crazed.. just not me... because I am strange lol we're not telling you to play for the other team. you just wanted to understand males better. the ones that say they're waiting for marriage are easily corruptible or they're more in love with god than women. you'll never be first in that sort of man's life. . . . |
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Lexy...
I'm right here. No worries, babe. I'm domesticated enough for us both. I am quite a good cook too. I'll watch American Idol upstairs. 
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Lexy... I'm right here. No worries, babe. I'm domesticated enough for us both. I am quite a good cook too. I'll watch American Idol upstairs. If you lived closer to me, I bet I'd be in big trouble, huh?  Seriously, though, these kinds of posts always make me wonder about just HOW universal these bad experiences are.... I mean, when you see 1000 topics from Gender A asking why there are no good Gender B people in the world, when you actually sort of think of yourself as being a pretty good Gender A or B person (as the case may be), then you start thinking "Am I the only one?" But no, it all goes back to terminology. I CAN'T be a "good" Gender A or B person if I don't have the same wants and desires and needs and expectations as the Original Gender A or B Person who posted the question in the first place. My self-assessment counts for nothing; not just because it's inherently biased, but also because my own frame of reference is almost inevitably going to be somewhat different from the other person's. And it's a self-defeating exercise anyway. Asking Gender A or B what they want is sure to elicit nothing more than the standard whitebread PC "looks don't matter it's what's on the inside that counts" claptrappatory drivel that permeates these threads. |
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Exactly.... and if a woman treats a man badly she always thinks there is justification. Even if that justification is, well, other people do it all the time. (Or vice versa, for men)
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Lexy... I'm right here. No worries, babe. I'm domesticated enough for us both. I am quite a good cook too. I'll watch American Idol upstairs. If you lived closer to me, I bet I'd be in big trouble, huh? Seriously, though, these kinds of posts always make me wonder about just HOW universal these bad experiences are.... I mean, when you see 1000 topics from Gender A asking why there are no good Gender B people in the world, when you actually sort of think of yourself as being a pretty good Gender A or B person (as the case may be), then you start thinking "Am I the only one?" But no, it all goes back to terminology. I CAN'T be a "good" Gender A or B person if I don't have the same wants and desires and needs and expectations as the Original Gender A or B Person who posted the question in the first place. My self-assessment counts for nothing; not just because it's inherently biased, but also because my own frame of reference is almost inevitably going to be somewhat different from the other person's. And it's a self-defeating exercise anyway. Asking Gender A or B what they want is sure to elicit nothing more than the standard whitebread PC "looks don't matter it's what's on the inside that counts" claptrappatory drivel that permeates these threads. Ohhhhhhhhhhhh please Lex let's not get into the looks don't matter issue. I mean you just know if the hunch back of notra dame came in with no picture but was the sweetest guy on earth. He would get bashed for no picture no matter how nice he was then if he put one up he would be cursed for sure cause all of a sudden what was inside they no longer can see.  Shshshshhsshshh.... And no matter what one does if the next person does them wrong then you all of a sudden get lumped right along with them.
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Lexy's hot and smart.
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Ohhhhhhhhhhhh please Lex let's not get into the looks don't matter issue. I mean you just know if the hunch back of notra dame came in with no picture but was the sweetest guy on earth. He would get bashed for no picture no matter how nice he was then if he put one up he would be cursed for sure cause all of a sudden what was inside they no longer can see. Shshshshhsshshh.... And no matter what one does if the next person does them wrong then you all of a sudden get lumped right along with them. Exactly, and that's a big part of the problem -- people aren't being honest with everybody here (and maybe not even with themselves, but I can't be as certain about that part) about what it is they really ARE looking for, what it is they really DO want. Poor old Quasimodo wouldn't stand a chance here, and would probably end up as the designated thread-killer on "Would You Ring The Bell Of The Person Above You?" And your "lumped right along with them" point is right on target, too. How many profiles have I seen where the woman says "Prove to me that you're different from other guys!" but refuses to give anyone a chance to do that.... |
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Lexy's hot and smart. I would tend to agree, but my approval ratings indicate otherwise! |
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Didn't the Elephant Man get a lippy kiss?
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Ohhhhhhhhhhhh please Lex let's not get into the looks don't matter issue. I mean you just know if the hunch back of notra dame came in with no picture but was the sweetest guy on earth. He would get bashed for no picture no matter how nice he was then if he put one up he would be cursed for sure cause all of a sudden what was inside they no longer can see. Shshshshhsshshh.... And no matter what one does if the next person does them wrong then you all of a sudden get lumped right along with them. Exactly, and that's a big part of the problem -- people aren't being honest with everybody here (and maybe not even with themselves, but I can't be as certain about that part) about what it is they really ARE looking for, what it is they really DO want. Poor old Quasimodo wouldn't stand a chance here, and would probably end up as the designated thread-killer on "Would You Ring The Bell Of The Person Above You?" And your "lumped right along with them" point is right on target, too. How many profiles have I seen where the woman says "Prove to me that you're different from other guys!" but refuses to give anyone a chance to do that.... You're right on the money on that one. I mean now come on if you met someone and they are not pleasing to your eyes at least, what are they gonna say ohh don't worry about that I want to get to know you and what is inside. Then after they dissect you they throw you back with some unknown excuse maybe you sleep on the right side of the bed and that was just beyond them and no way they could deal with that. Hey sorry but if I don't appeal to the one I'm with nor they to me then get real and admit it. I have no plans on waking up to a nightmare in the morning. I want at least someone that to me is pleasing to the eye and one I look forward to seeing each day. It amazes me within my years I have yet to met two men that were twins so far each and everyone of them were different in many ways. Matter of fact I really can't say that any of them were alike down to the tee in even one aspect.
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Didn't the Elephant Man get a lippy kiss? Don't make me move this to another forum. |
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Didn't the Elephant Man get a lippy kiss? Don't make me move this to another forum. Well, I have no recollection of Quasimodo getting any action so I had to pull out the Elephant Man. Gosh that flick makes me cry. Can I cuddle with you and watch it? |
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I dont find them confusing, just very predictable.
Im glad my honey is clear, and honest.  He always goes the extra to make me happy. Always lets me know what hes up to, even if its in text. So glad to have him. |
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Didn't the Elephant Man get a lippy kiss? Don't make me move this to another forum. Well, I have no recollection of Quasimodo getting any action so I had to pull out the Elephant Man. Gosh that flick makes me cry. Can I cuddle with you and watch it? Absolutely, assuming there's Pepsi involved....! |
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I make wicked good guacamole too.
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I make wicked good guacamole too. I'm really more of a meat loaf and Reese's Peanut Butter Cups kind of guy.... |
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Okie dokie. The guacamole for the appetizer then. I swear... it's da bomb. My nephews won't eat it anywhere else. I don't even like avocado.... Do you want bacon on the top of the meatloaf?
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Okie dokie. The guacamole for the appetizer then. I swear... it's da bomb. My nephews won't eat it anywhere else. I don't even like avocado.... Do you want bacon on the top of the meatloaf? My friend Lorie made it for me that way on my birthday a couple years ago -- never had it like that before -- and it was excellent! I wanted to go back to Kristi's comment about how no two men in her experience were exactly alike....because I think this is really the case when you take the time to look at each person as an individual -- and it's far too easy to do the "lumping" thing, saying "Why are there no good ones?" when, in fact, maybe there ARE; but we all need to be clear about what "good one" means to us, in this context.... I've never been comfortable with the "Why are all men pigs?" and "Why are all women gold-diggers?" types of threads -- it's the whole "blanket" thing, the overgeneralization -- the denial of the POSSIBILITY of being different, of being anything "other-then-the-designated-category" -- Sure, it's much easier to just say ALL of ______ are bad, period, the end. That way, it's THEIR fault. But is it honest? |
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Problem is Lex too many want to take the easy way out and generalize instead of taking the time to see each person as the individual they really are.
At times you will find some that will think alike to a certain degree but there will always be something different about them. But........then if one is too busy trying to find that one thing you do think like others on just so they can lump you with the others. I guess they will never be able to see that there really is a difference. Like a horse with blinders on they can only see what they have been programed to see and nothing more...... |
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Most men suck big drippy rhino dork, Kristy.
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