Topic: You Males..
IAreRei's photo
Tue 06/16/09 08:13 AM

Uh.. ouch.
No.. it isn't all about me, what part of waiting for the guy to be ready makes you think it's all about me?


Well, let's see....just from your one prior post, you wrote:

When it feels right I will ask the guy out but if not then meh..


I would rather they ask me and I can formulate an opinion for them when they ask..


And that's only from that one post.


How does that make it all about me?
I believe in taking things slow and sometimes it is hard to speak my mind and guys don't always speak theirs, so I have no idea what they are thinking unless they ask.. and that's also depending on the circumstances, regarding what they are asking and how long I have known them for.

DTHRomeo's photo
Tue 06/16/09 08:16 AM
Some things never change

IAreRei's photo
Tue 06/16/09 08:23 AM
Anyway : D

I was just hoping for a better understanding of men

and I know not all of them are like the guys I deal with here in West Michigan.. but perhaps a move out of the State within the next few years will do my young body good.

auburngirl's photo
Tue 06/16/09 08:26 AM


but perhaps a move out of the State within the next few years will do my young body good.



I've been thinking the same thing.

IAreRei's photo
Tue 06/16/09 08:28 AM



but perhaps a move out of the State within the next few years will do my young body good.



I've been thinking the same thing.
Let's go! Road trip? : D

74Drew's photo
Tue 06/16/09 08:37 AM

Anyway : D

I was just hoping for a better understanding of men

and I know not all of them are like the guys I deal with here in West Michigan.. but perhaps a move out of the State within the next few years will do my young body good.

nope, we're all jerks and pigs and we all are searching for that space you women keep hidden away in the front of your undies. some of us are just better than others at treating well the girls who allow us access to that space.


. . .

auburngirl's photo
Tue 06/16/09 08:38 AM


Anyway : D

I was just hoping for a better understanding of men

and I know not all of them are like the guys I deal with here in West Michigan.. but perhaps a move out of the State within the next few years will do my young body good.

nope, we're all jerks and pigs and we all are searching for that space you women keep hidden away in the front of your undies. some of us are just better than others at treating well the girls who allow us access to that space.


. . .


Ah so THAT is really what it's all about?!

Mr_Music's photo
Tue 06/16/09 08:39 AM



Anyway : D

I was just hoping for a better understanding of men

and I know not all of them are like the guys I deal with here in West Michigan.. but perhaps a move out of the State within the next few years will do my young body good.

nope, we're all jerks and pigs and we all are searching for that space you women keep hidden away in the front of your undies. some of us are just better than others at treating well the girls who allow us access to that space.


. . .


Ah so THAT is really what it's all about?!


No, the Hokey Pokey is what it's really all about. bigsmile

auburngirl's photo
Tue 06/16/09 08:40 AM
:laughing:

Mr_Music's photo
Tue 06/16/09 08:42 AM
See how that works? winking :laughing:

74Drew's photo
Tue 06/16/09 08:42 AM



Anyway : D

I was just hoping for a better understanding of men

and I know not all of them are like the guys I deal with here in West Michigan.. but perhaps a move out of the State within the next few years will do my young body good.

nope, we're all jerks and pigs and we all are searching for that space you women keep hidden away in the front of your undies. some of us are just better than others at treating well the girls who allow us access to that space.


. . .


Ah so THAT is really what it's all about?!

yep, since the dawn of man it's all been about that special space.


. . .

auburngirl's photo
Tue 06/16/09 08:42 AM

See how that works? winking :laughing:


laugh Wait for it Wait for it laugh

Mr_Music's photo
Tue 06/16/09 08:44 AM


See how that works? winking :laughing:


laugh Wait for it Wait for it laugh


Oh, the angst! tears

auburngirl's photo
Tue 06/16/09 08:44 AM



See how that works? winking :laughing:


laugh Wait for it Wait for it laugh


Oh, the angst! tears


rofl I love that word.

IAreRei's photo
Tue 06/16/09 08:51 AM
Edited by IAreRei on Tue 06/16/09 08:51 AM




Anyway : D

I was just hoping for a better understanding of men

and I know not all of them are like the guys I deal with here in West Michigan.. but perhaps a move out of the State within the next few years will do my young body good.

nope, we're all jerks and pigs and we all are searching for that space you women keep hidden away in the front of your undies. some of us are just better than others at treating well the girls who allow us access to that space.


. . .


Ah so THAT is really what it's all about?!

yep, since the dawn of man it's all been about that special space.


. . .
What about the ones who refuse to have sex until marriage? : D

Not that there is anything wrong with it but at least they aren't seeking their naughty pleasures until they're married..

Mr_Music's photo
Tue 06/16/09 08:52 AM
What about 'em? huh

no photo
Tue 06/16/09 08:52 AM
Those are just the ones pullin' off mind games on you. Even when they say they don't wanna get in your pannies, they actually DO wanna get in your pannies.

We're all jerks, you know? ALL of us! laugh

IAreRei's photo
Tue 06/16/09 08:54 AM

Those are just the ones pullin' off mind games on you. Even when they say they don't wanna get in your pannies, they actually DO wanna get in your pannies.

We're all jerks, you know? ALL of us! laugh
So are you saying I am better off going lesbian?
But I'm sure some women can be just as sexually crazed.. just not me... because I am strange lol

auburngirl's photo
Tue 06/16/09 08:54 AM
Whoever decides to wait, should do just that. Be true to yourself.

no photo
Tue 06/16/09 09:01 AM

So tell me boys.. what exactly goes through your mind? (aside from sex)

As you can tell I have had bad experiences with "boys"..so be gentle.


All I want is someone who's smart enough that I don't have to define and spell every third word I say to her -- I was married to someone like that, I've dated dozens like that, and I'm really tired of it --

Someone who understands something about the creative process, someone who actually participates in the creative process in some way --

Someone who is deeper, more complex, than a cardboard cutout trying to be a better cardboard cutout trying to be a MySpace friend-collector.

Someone who doesn't feel locked into the "herd" mentality, someone for whom "domestication" is a fate worse than death....

Someone whose reality is based on her own thoughts and ideas and hopes and dreams, not on some nebulous externally-generated expectations derived from reality shows and bad made-for-TV movies.

Sex? Yeah, it's nice. But it's pretty far down on my own personal list of priorities.