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Alright, I'll tell you something you can try. This may not work and it's sort of a head game. But, chicks do this kind of thing all the time. All is fair in love and war.
You can try to make her jealous. Just find some friendly girl to show up with you someplace you know the love of your life will be. The prettier she is the better. Introduce the two of them and get your helper to tell her what a great guy you are and make sure she mentions you're great in bed. |
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Sorry to tell ya big guy......you're her little security blankie. And that's all. Welcome to pet world. You're her big fluffy teddy bear. No more no less. Won't change till you get that......."uh, I met someone and I think he's the one" story.
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JUST DO HER AND LEAVE HER
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Sorry to tell ya big guy......you're her little security blankie. And that's all. Welcome to pet world. You're her big fluffy teddy bear. No more no less. Won't change till you get that......."uh, I met someone and I think he's the one" story. been there before thats why i ended our friendship and shes all upset because she doesn't know why i did. not like i havent spoken my mind or anything |
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And I understand that my freind. But stand in my shoes. Think about it. You're trying very hard to try to defend her actions in trying to understand what's going on. I'm sorry she's just using you for security, safety, and comfortability motives. But you're going to have to talk to her (more) and base your decision and your actions on said chat. I wish you both luck.
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And I understand that my freind. But stand in my shoes. Think about it. You're trying very hard to try to defend her actions in trying to understand what's going on. I'm sorry she's just using you for security, safety, and comfortability motives. But you're going to have to talk to her (more) and base your decision and your actions on said chat. I wish you both luck. you're right theres nothing more i can do but talk i'll man up and just shut the door. i had enough drama with my last ex i cant go through that again thank you |
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Dude, she does not want to be in a relationship with you and is coming up with excuses. Time to move on. Good Luck  Yep, that's what I read from your post as well. |
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Here is a thought..............talk to her???? Ask her what she wants with you??? Not just what she wants........but what she wants with you???
Point blank.... do it now........... 
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Here is a thought..............talk to her???? Ask her what she wants with you??? Not just what she wants........but what she wants with you??? Point blank.... do it now........... friends 
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Here is a thought..............talk to her???? Ask her what she wants with you??? Not just what she wants........but what she wants with you??? Point blank.... do it now........... friends 
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pudding is gonzo baby..................yep..............she will sh*t herself............
and think you have the advantage right now.......... 1-800-gypsyknows
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tea-bag her
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pudding is gonzo baby..................yep..............she will sh*t herself............ and think you have the advantage right now.......... 1-800-gypsyknows how do i have the advantage???? |
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By doing what I said in my last post. I'm telling you dude it can work.
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Edited by
darkowl1
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Tue 06/16/09 01:20 AM
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pudding is gonzo baby..................yep..............she will sh*t herself............ and think you have the advantage right now.......... 1-800-gypsyknows how do i have the advantage???? dude! if gypsy's gonna give you pointers....TAKE EM!!!!!! SHE KNOWS HOW PEOPLE WORK!  she's a bad ass, and does not do that often......and everyone else here is correct as well. good luck, but you've got great advice here!!! |
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Sorry to tell ya big guy......you're her little security blankie. And that's all. Welcome to pet world. You're her big fluffy teddy bear. No more no less. Won't change till you get that......."uh, I met someone and I think he's the one" story. Pretty much. |
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Sorry to tell ya big guy......you're her little security blankie. And that's all. Welcome to pet world. You're her big fluffy teddy bear. No more no less. Won't change till you get that......."uh, I met someone and I think he's the one" story. Pretty much. naw we talked about that before shes and independent girl which is cool as hell. she told me she haves feelings for me so i guess no all i gotta do is wait lol |
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naw we talked about that before shes and independent girl which is cool as hell. she told me she haves feelings for me so i guess no all i gotta do is wait lol Waiting for her is absolutly the wrong thing to do. Go out and find another chick. She won't apperciate you until she no longer has you. You are an easy target and she wants a man that's hard to get. She wants to bag the grand prize. As long as she knows she can have you whenever she wants you, she doesn't want you. She wants a man she must earn. "Tell a woman she can't join your club and she'll do almost anything to get in." Gracho Marx |
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i recently found a girl that i really like we have a lot in common and everyone in her family loves the fact that i make her happy and whenever she comes home from a weekend at my house shes full of pep. and not sex wise ive only taken her to a race at pocono and the following weekend to the movies. but it seems im being pushed away because she said she wants to get her license and a job first which i dont mind im totally willing to wait. but it seems that shes put up a list and is going in that order and pushing things away that arent at the top. Its even harder when her family can see that we would make a perfect couple and that means a lot to me because i never got along well with any of my ex's family. im told im a good friend but ive heard that before and gotten hurt. i dont want to put all the effort into something only to have it come back and hurt me again. i know everyone says just wait on it have patients blah blah blah but how am i supposed to feel when we've both told each other things we've never told anyone else? someone please help i could use it :( Since i dont know her or you, i may be wrong, but besides the other option of her just not wanting a relationship, i have learned that timing is everything.....maybe she is the right one and you are for her, who knows, but if the timing isnt right, it wont fit at this point...thing is, IF she is the one for you, it will happen..in time, if not, it wont....be patient, but dont hang your heart on it..be open to others because if she isnt the one, waiting on her may make you miss out on the possible "one" , like I said , if she truely is the one, it will be... |
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Seems to me you're looking for someone here to give you the why don't you just wait it out and see advice. I do not believe you're looking for objective opinions at all. You want someone to condone your unwise thought processes about this situation.
It's already been said many times on this thread and I'll say it again. SHE'S NOT INTO YOU! Time to move on and not ask one of us to give you hope so that you waste more of your time. |
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