Topic: seriously, What do men want?
Dodo_David's photo
Tue 11/06/12 10:27 PM



I got the formula for what men want... A Silent, Submissive, Sex Slave... Right


noway How did you know?





Just for that, I'm keeping the chocolate that I was going to give you.

amaria90's photo
Tue 11/06/12 10:39 PM




I got the formula for what men want... A Silent, Submissive, Sex Slave... Right


noway How did you know?





Just for that, I'm keeping the chocolate that I was going to give you.




robster1170's photo
Wed 11/07/12 09:10 AM
Funny stuff kids .....rofl

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Wed 11/07/12 12:06 PM



Intelligence. Can't deal with someone who does not have it. Has to watch more than Honey Boo Boo or Basketball Wives.

Interests. You ought to be interested in something other than work or getting a man. Even though for many getting a man is work. :-)

Interested in me. This may sound petty but I don't want to be one of a number of potential men. I want her to genuinely want me. Not for security, not because she is lonely, not for a baby daddy (lol) not for sex - but to genuinely want me.

Secure. Another woman is only a threat if you allow her to be. Be the type of woman that your man tell other women I ain't interested I got somebody - even if you are just friends for now.

Don't punish me because of the wrongs some other guy did to her. Many relationships are destroyed because they think they see something that was not there. All men are not the same just like all women are not the same.

Confidence. That is very appealing and attractive to me. No matter the height, or weight, she should take care of herself and present herself well to all.

Have time/Make time. Life gets all of us busy, but if you can not make time to spend together, why bother? I will take off work, take a plane or whatever to spend time with someone who wants to spend time with me - even on a friend basis.

Has a good relationship with her kids if she has them. If she is always cussing them out, or every time we are on the phone she is yelling at them - not interested.

Takes care of her home. Whether a house or an apartment, in the suburbs or the hood if the house is tore up more than it is straightened up - pass.

Great sex. If this ever happens it should be so great that it keeps both of us coming back for more with each other.

After reading all that I can see why I don't have anybody now. Too much to ask for....lol.



YEAH; If you got wants like that then you got to give her, her wants as well and then. The reason why I say that is because if you go into the relationship expecting then she is going to go into the relationship expecting too. Now if you go looking for someone as a friend and develop into something more that is what I think is a good foundation to start on. Plus, unconditional love, like Jesus’ love for us, is the Best love of all!




You are right. I always have gone by the adage friends first, last, and always. Also since I am not looking for anything other than friends, it makes it a lot easier for me to be straight up honest with how I feel than to say the politically correct things. Sorry if I took a serious question and gave a serious answer.oops

metalwing's photo
Thu 11/08/12 11:11 AM
Friends are good things. Best friends are much better. If a couple are truly best friends, there is little that can damage them. Trust will never a be an issue. Problems are solved together, as a team, or as each has abilities. Solutions found by one are accepted by the other. Communication is always there, always open, and never used to hurt. Honesty is assumed, rightly so, in all communication. Sex, children, money, family, or any other problem is worked on together. Best friends are more than the sum of the whole.

My parents were best friends. I miss them alot. I wish I could have learned this lesson earlier in life.

Jtevans's photo
Thu 11/08/12 11:58 AM

IS it that they want their women to have implants ?! OR Botox? What is the real Scoop, Men?spock



beer,boobs,and bacon



thats what we want smokin

TexasScoundrel's photo
Fri 11/09/12 02:54 PM
Four things:

*Long hair
*Stay thin
*Sex anytime
*Shut up

Manuallove's photo
Fri 11/09/12 06:56 PM


IS it that they want their women to have implants ?! OR Botox? What is the real Scoop, Men?spock



When you figure out what men want then let us know what we as women want laugh


laugh love it

Manuallove's photo
Fri 11/09/12 07:00 PM

they are all different and want different things...just like us. I guess. Oh yeah...and they want sex.
What's wrong with sex? Don't you like it? Cause I'm pretty sure it's something men and women do it together.

Manuallove's photo
Fri 11/09/12 07:06 PM

I got the formula for what men want... A Silent, Submissive, Sex Slave... Right
Gee let me guess... You've been hurt? huh noway

Manuallove's photo
Fri 11/09/12 07:12 PM
Is it really asking too much to expect a woman to not flip out if you express an interest in sex. I mean I'm a decent guy, a quality person but as a single man I like a little sex once and a while. I know, I know, I'm evil incarnate.

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Sat 11/10/12 04:08 PM
a man wants a woman who actually wants to have sex with him.

yourromeo1970's photo
Sat 11/10/12 06:33 PM
hi, so you folks are talking about football and tv. i see how some men enjoy their games. i hardly ever watch sports, only once in a while

yourromeo1970's photo
Sat 11/10/12 06:35 PM
myself i'm not looking for a submissive woman. just a gal who is very loving and easy going like myself. the sex and stuff when we have chemistry or we are in love.. know what i mean..

proudbaldman's photo
Sun 12/02/12 02:11 PM
A woman that they can feel safe with to discuss what they really feel. Most women do not know how to create that environment, and if he cannot say what he really wants to her he will never be satisfied in that relationship. He will have to look elsewhere to fulfill the needs he is not comfortable communicating to that woman.

notsoincognito's photo
Sun 12/02/12 02:30 PM
Edited by notsoincognito on Sun 12/02/12 02:31 PM

A woman that they can feel safe with to discuss what they really feel. Most women do not know how to create that environment, and if he cannot say what he really wants to her he will never be satisfied in that relationship. He will have to look elsewhere to fulfill the needs he is not comfortable communicating to that woman.


Some women want & feel the same way

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Sun 12/02/12 02:39 PM
spock this should be interesting........

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Sun 12/02/12 02:41 PM

A woman that they can feel safe with to discuss what they really feel. Most women do not know how to create that environment, and if he cannot say what he really wants to her he will never be satisfied in that relationship. He will have to look elsewhere to fulfill the needs he is not comfortable communicating to that woman.


he needs to just say what he wants to say. if the environment is not there it is not the woman's fault they are most likely not a good match

for anything long term, I mean

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Sun 12/02/12 05:13 PM
Guys want what all people want - "an excuse to get hurt and to hurt".

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Sun 12/02/12 05:55 PM

Guys want what all people want - "an excuse to get hurt and to hurt".


I thought you might say freedom from painflowerforyou