Topic: seriously, What do men want?
whattheheywastaken's photo
Wed 01/11/12 09:46 AM
I'm looking for not-so-much book smart as comic book smart.

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Mon 01/16/12 01:35 AM
At Town I'm well known,
but I wish had a girl to call my own.
Most of my relationships didn't last.
I'm tryin' to move on, cause that's a thing of the past.
I'm searching for a girl who can hold a conversation,
who can can talk about different things going on across the nation.
She doesn't have to be Janet Jackson or Stacy Dash,
but she gotta respect herself and show some class.
I want a girl who knows how to speak her mind.
An organized woman who can give me time.
I need a smart girl who isn't impressed by pick-up lines,
a dedicated girl who I can call all mine.
I'm searchig for a girl who keeps her head in the books.
Somone isn't always concern by the way she looks.
I'm looking for a girl who can grasp a concept,
she wants more from a man than a car, money, and bicepts.
I need a girl who meets all my qualifications.
If she does then I'll give her dedication and appreciation.
So God please send an angel from above.
A special girl who can share all my love.
I need a girl who can share all my world.
I'm not tryin' to sound crazy but DAMN, I need a girl.love

JERMANICUS's photo
Sun 01/29/12 03:11 PM
I want a companion to go through life with.

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Sun 01/29/12 03:13 PM
3 hots

A cot..

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SEX!!!!!!

not necessarialy in that.....

order!!!!

Mirage4279's photo
Mon 02/06/12 09:56 PM
Appreciate the things I am into...like appreciating the things I do in school... someone who actually admires a well designed program (this is boring to all but the dead I know, I can do some pretty cool stuff though), Plus I am going to school for astro physics here pretty soon.. so someone whom is kind of compatible in investing a lot of attention witht someone who is not there b y their side right that second for the next few years.. that sort of thing

teadipper's photo
Tue 02/07/12 07:39 AM
quick answer to this: men want women who act like women NOT dudes. They do not want to hear about other dudes just like you do not want to hear about other women. I tell boyfriends, "You are a virgin and have never seen another woman naked in your life, got that???"

teadipper's photo
Tue 02/07/12 07:42 AM

Appreciate the things I am into...like appreciating the things I do in school... someone who actually admires a well designed program (this is boring to all but the dead I know, I can do some pretty cool stuff though), Plus I am going to school for astro physics here pretty soon.. so someone whom is kind of compatible in investing a lot of attention witht someone who is not there b y their side right that second for the next few years.. that sort of thing


We are out there. But we are a lot to contend with. Like my ex husband went on a trip frustrated he could not make dual boot Linux box work, I followed the notes in the margins of his book and completely redid the system and when his plane landed and he ate lunch, he called me and I told him what I had done and he was all happy. A lot of guys would say "Leave my schitt alone".

high IQ male or female = crazy to some degree

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Tue 02/07/12 07:49 AM


I find it easy to find boyfriends but I end up getting rid of them because they pull a double standard on me.

Seriously, #1 reason I end up with boyfriends:

I don't try to change them.

Seriously, I like them how they are.

#1 reason that we break up, they ironically want ME to change. SIGH.



That has been my experience too.


I think some men (lots) would prefer porn to an actual partner. They can get satisfaction they are looking for without the social interaction women typically require.

Ive known way too many men who just wanted me to be what they wanted me to be, instead of myself. They even get angry with me for it, and tell me Im being mean for not being something else for them. These sorts of demands are dehumanising. Particularly if you are trying to give them your heart.

I imagine men who are NOT like this meet the many female counterparts to this phenomenon. I think its been made clear that its not a gender specific thing.


I haven't met any men who prefer porn to actual women. Some may prefer the kind of women they see in porn, some prefer more realistic women.

international5123's photo
Tue 02/07/12 08:22 AM
I would LOVE to meet a woman that has an interest in pc's and anything with an engine. It would make it so much easier to work on something for a few hours and her not get board. A lady that wears coveralls during the day, a dress at night and Victoria's Secret to bed. :)

amaria90's photo
Thu 11/01/12 12:19 PM
I'M really into falling in love with Christ and a lot of men look at me and see one hot number and think S E X...
I'm looking 4 that guy who puts God first in their life instead of themselves and that's rare to find even in church because once they do they're not interested in relationships

SpicyExcel's photo
Thu 11/01/12 12:38 PM

I'M really into falling in love with Christ and a lot of men look at me and see one hot number and think S E X...
I'm looking 4 that guy who puts God first in their life instead of themselves and that's rare to find even in church because once they do they're not interested in relationships


Are you saying that once a man turns religous that they forget the meaning of procreation.

metalwing's photo
Thu 11/01/12 01:25 PM

I'M really into falling in love with Christ and a lot of men look at me and see one hot number and think S E X...
I'm looking 4 that guy who puts God first in their life instead of themselves and that's rare to find even in church because once they do they're not interested in relationships


That's easy. Just find a guy whose religious beliefs meet your standards then give him sex till his brain melts.

Problem solved.

amaria90's photo
Thu 11/01/12 01:39 PM


I'M really into falling in love with Christ and a lot of men look at me and see one hot number and think S E X...
I'm looking 4 that guy who puts God first in their life instead of themselves and that's rare to find even in church because once they do they're not interested in relationships


Are you saying that once a man turns religous that they forget the meaning of procreation.


That's exactly what I'm saying

amaria90's photo
Thu 11/01/12 01:41 PM


I'M really into falling in love with Christ and a lot of men look at me and see one hot number and think S E X...
I'm looking 4 that guy who puts God first in their life instead of themselves and that's rare to find even in church because once they do they're not interested in relationships


That's easy. Just find a guy whose religious beliefs meet your standards then give him sex till his brain melts.

Problem solved.


NNNNNNNNNNNaaaaaaaaaaaaawwwwwwwww a ring has to be on this finger for that

SpicyExcel's photo
Thu 11/01/12 01:49 PM



I'M really into falling in love with Christ and a lot of men look at me and see one hot number and think S E X...
I'm looking 4 that guy who puts God first in their life instead of themselves and that's rare to find even in church because once they do they're not interested in relationships


That's easy. Just find a guy whose religious beliefs meet your standards then give him sex till his brain melts.

Problem solved.


NNNNNNNNNNNaaaaaaaaaaaaawwwwwwwww a ring has to be on this finger for that


Maybe you need to broaden you expectations', because I know men who are in there seventies and have children. I'm not say to date a seventy year old man, but men don't forget if everything still works.

Dodo_David's photo
Thu 11/01/12 02:26 PM




I'M really into falling in love with Christ and a lot of men look at me and see one hot number and think S E X...
I'm looking 4 that guy who puts God first in their life instead of themselves and that's rare to find even in church because once they do they're not interested in relationships


That's easy. Just find a guy whose religious beliefs meet your standards then give him sex till his brain melts.

Problem solved.


NNNNNNNNNNNaaaaaaaaaaaaawwwwwwwww a ring has to be on this finger for that


Maybe you need to broaden you expectations', because I know men who are in there seventies and have children. I'm not say to date a seventy year old man, but men don't forget if everything still works.


huh Dude, amaria90 is saying that she won't have sex with a man unless she is married to him. That's a good thing.

Dodo_David's photo
Thu 11/01/12 02:29 PM

I'M really into falling in love with Christ and a lot of men look at me and see one hot number and think S E X...
I'm looking 4 that guy who puts God first in their life instead of themselves and that's rare to find even in church because once they do they're not interested in relationships


You could try looking for someone who currently lives outside of Florida. I'm still available. bigsmile

amaria90's photo
Thu 11/01/12 02:32 PM


I'M really into falling in love with Christ and a lot of men look at me and see one hot number and think S E X...
I'm looking 4 that guy who puts God first in their life instead of themselves and that's rare to find even in church because once they do they're not interested in relationships


You could try looking for someone who currently lives outside of Florida. I'm still available. bigsmile


Then are you willing to come for a visit... Not many men areflowers flowers flowers

Dodo_David's photo
Thu 11/01/12 02:37 PM



I'M really into falling in love with Christ and a lot of men look at me and see one hot number and think S E X...
I'm looking 4 that guy who puts God first in their life instead of themselves and that's rare to find even in church because once they do they're not interested in relationships


You could try looking for someone who currently lives outside of Florida. I'm still available. bigsmile


Then are you willing to come for a visit... Not many men areflowers flowers flowers


I did that eons ago when I was in the U.S. Navy. I was stationed in Idaho, and one weekend I flew to Orlando to be with an old girlfriend who lived in Winter Park.

How about chatting in private about the details? bigsmile


robster1170's photo
Fri 11/02/12 12:04 AM

I'M really into falling in love with Christ and a lot of men look at me and see one hot number and think S E X...
I'm looking 4 that guy who puts God first in their life instead of themselves and that's rare to find even in church because once they do they're not interested in relationships



You are an awesome girl!