Topic: Nope...women do NOT want drama | |
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Stop yapping away women and just pass the beer will ya
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Isn't this thread drama? Nice Sleestack there big boy. Looks a lot taller and more attractive than your inner self though. |
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I will step up...
This is where Bugs slaps the sh*t out of elmer with a gauntlet... Of course women like drama...they thrive on that sh*t. Some dudes play that game too. The mistake people constantly make is forgetting a basic principle... OPPOSITES ATTRACT ..the drama people prefer to hook up with the ones who will watch thier show and not steal thier spotlight. The non drama people are good at cleaning up the mess. |
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Isn't this thread drama? Nice Sleestack there big boy. Actually that is a Gorn! Trek stuff. Now you don't want to be a Now some women are drama free. That is the kind of girl I like! Guys on the other hand, Some of us are not into drama at all either. Then again there are guys that thrive on it. Normally another man would accuse a male who is being overly dramatic of being Gay but that is unfair to gay men because even many of them prefer trouble free lives. What I prefer calling them is Dramahoes. That's right. It is pronounced Drama'-HO as in a drama whore! Fits for teh guys, fits for the girls, Everybody is offended. I live up to my standard of being an equal opportunity offender! Andy is happy. I know, I being bad again... |
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I don't think either side is any more likely to cause drama. I have a sister that was married and had two kids with someone. They are BOTH crazy as hell. There is one or the other that is constantly causing the drama. When one drops the ball, the other picks it up and throws it back.
This topic is kind of comical, in that it in its self causes drama. :~K |
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MOST men are mostly using trump cards. some are content to live life catering to the other, but what's the point in that? it should be best friends, fifty fifty, no "i'm the man, you're the woman" crap. that's a trump card played by the sexes to get what they desire, and it limits the friendship to only grow to certain limits before it's doomed. they say that relationships were stronger back aways, but in truth, they were regulated by one or more parties,(usually the man) and women were afraid to branch out on their own, and for good reason, but i don't need to get into that, for you understand it more than most could fathom, and your strength and wit is what men fear, for they can't get around their own barriers, no matter how intelligent they may be......their insecurities trump themselves into the greatest adventure that they could ever wish for, but the two edge sword is mighty yet.... i council many on here, and some will just never let it go, or let their guard down and show their true strength, and vulnerability, for they are one in the same, where the heart is concerned, reguardless of gender. Nice I wholeheartedly agree with the 50/50 thing in everything. My dad passed away at a fairly young age (50's) and my mom was a housewife her entire life, she did have a college degree but without any job experience it's not like she can just go find a decent job. We were lucky, my dad was a doc with his own practice and my parents never spent a lot so we had savings and insurance. I wouldn't want to date/marry someone who didn't at least have some way of supporting herself because even if things fell apart on an emotional level my sense of responsibility would keep me in a bad relationship. And I wouldn't want to wonder, is she with me because she doesn't feel she doesn't have a choice? Same goes with cleaning, laundry, house duties, should be shared. Nobody wants to be responsible for all the cooking, or all the laundry. My boss (female) told me once that woman just have to wait until a guy is living on his own for awhile so he's forced to be domesticated. |
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I have to say I disagree with anyone saying that women dont want drama. Well, no, thats true in a sense. Mature, focused, women dont want drama. Non mature, unfocused, and some women under the age of 25 (too many Ive met) seem to thrive on drama due to themselves being way to selfish about how much control they should have within a relationship. Honestly, it seems that as soon as a relationship is made official to some women they create their own drama because they start acting crazy! I cant count how many times women have seemed to do everything in their power to get me to take notice of them by doing everything they can they think I would like (often times it is things I like) and as soon as I notice and we date for a while, make it official that we'll be monogomous, they hella flip the script and become something else. Its like once they know they have you they relax on trying to keep you. So then, you kind of relax on caring whether they keep you or not and soon its calls while your at work to ask what youre doing... like wtf do you think Im doing at work? And who was that girl you were sitting next to on your lunch? Um, my coworker! Why do you want to buy a truck? I dont like trucks! Yet they seemed real glad to be in your truck before you were dating! Lol, **** maybe its just the women Ive been dating. I see a pattern here... well, Im a woman and hell no, I dont want drama! Which lead to my being single now... I leave the drama to the "little" girlies.
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All the world's a stage and we are merely pawns in a twisted game of the gods!
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I will step up... This is where Bugs slaps the sh*t out of elmer with a gauntlet... Of course women like drama...they thrive on that sh*t. Some dudes play that game too. The mistake people constantly make is forgetting a basic principle... OPPOSITES ATTRACT ..the drama people prefer to hook up with the ones who will watch thier show and not steal thier spotlight. The non drama people are good at cleaning up the mess. Umm......SOME women like drama. IMO, most women don't like it. I don't thrive on it. |
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I do understand winx.....
From my particular vantage point... My woman comes with an extra heaping helping of drama...but, I don't care. It is such a priviledge to love someone that much. |
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Edited by
darkowl1
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Thu 06/11/09 09:55 PM
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MOST men are mostly using trump cards. some are content to live life catering to the other, but what's the point in that? it should be best friends, fifty fifty, no "i'm the man, you're the woman" crap. that's a trump card played by the sexes to get what they desire, and it limits the friendship to only grow to certain limits before it's doomed. they say that relationships were stronger back aways, but in truth, they were regulated by one or more parties,(usually the man) and women were afraid to branch out on their own, and for good reason, but i don't need to get into that, for you understand it more than most could fathom, and your strength and wit is what men fear, for they can't get around their own barriers, no matter how intelligent they may be......their insecurities trump themselves into the greatest adventure that they could ever wish for, but the two edge sword is mighty yet.... i council many on here, and some will just never let it go, or let their guard down and show their true strength, and vulnerability, for they are one in the same, where the heart is concerned, reguardless of gender. Nice I wholeheartedly agree with the 50/50 thing in everything. My dad passed away at a fairly young age (50's) and my mom was a housewife her entire life, she did have a college degree but without any job experience it's not like she can just go find a decent job. We were lucky, my dad was a doc with his own practice and my parents never spent a lot so we had savings and insurance. I wouldn't want to date/marry someone who didn't at least have some way of supporting herself because even if things fell apart on an emotional level my sense of responsibility would keep me in a bad relationship. And I wouldn't want to wonder, is she with me because she doesn't feel she doesn't have a choice? Same goes with cleaning, laundry, house duties, should be shared. Nobody wants to be responsible for all the cooking, or all the laundry. My boss (female) told me once that woman just have to wait until a guy is living on his own for awhile so he's forced to be domesticated. NICELY put! we don't live long enough, even if one is young, to live with any kinds of drama or games, for they eat at the soul and confuse the heart to where we wonder is one is telling the truth anymore, when one or more parties should just move on or state intentions from the first!!!! how hard could this possibly be? if you want a relationship! say it! if you are on a power-play! say it!! if you want sex, say it! who cares what people think! it's your life! not theirs, and it would be an oxymoron to go to a type of religious hell for telling the truth, so just be honest and tell someone what you want.....who's afraid of .....no.....<---look! it's tiny! two letters! not much of a threat in my book! it didn't hurt......that's all they can say is no....or maybe yes!!! |
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Isn't this thread drama? Only if some choose to make it that way! |
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