This is not a mingle member so don't look for her.

There is this woman, who played a game with me about 3 months ago. She basically went out to find me through a friend and emailed me, how she wants someone and likes me a lot.

So I emailed her back, then talked on the phone, and went out on a date. We went to a restaurant, but she was nervous and she had phone calls like every 10 minutes, then she was looking out at the window nervously being 'afraid' that her friend is coming (another girl) and she doesn't really want to meet her. Whatever.
I was annoyed , and her constant messing around with the damn cell phone, but since i'm a nice guy, I didn't say anything about it, I'm a patient man. Eventually the date ended, I drove her home, dropped her off and thanked her for coming out with me for a dinner.

Next day morning she calls (Saturday) asking me if I want to come over and we can hang out or go somewhere, she is free on the next day (on sunday). So I got excited a bit..and I talked to her a couple of times on the phone and talking about what to do, where to go and so on... I arranged things, so I am completely free on Sunday.

Eventually it was Sunday morning and I tried to call her to tell her that I will be leaving soon. But she didn't pick up the phone. I called about 5 times, left 5 messages, but no answer. Just around 4-5pm in the afternoon, I finally gave up and just settled, that I should just forget about her.

Around 7pm, she calls back and ask me "How are you?". Since I was still kinda pissed off (would you be?) I said, not really good and I don't know why you even calling me. Then she tells me that she was "sunbathing" and "completely forgot" about the whole deal of me coming over and going out. At that point, I said, "You know what? Just forget it...don't play any games with me, you really think I'm stupid?"
For that she hanged up on me, like it's supposed to be her being pissed off about this.

So why I'm writing this?

She sends me a mail today, out of nowhere...saying "Hello!" " You kinda disappeared or something, how are you?"


Somebody tell me WTF does she wants from me??

Sounds like a fun game for her...
You're a nice guy and she needs some attention, someone to boost her ego a little bit. She'll keep you on the back burner for when she's bored or needs a little attention, string you along just enough to keep you guessing. Get away from her, she's bad news.

Holy crap thats long, I didnt read any of that.

Cliff notes please!

Give attention ..If thats what you want too do

keeping my mouth shut

Don't even worry about her anymore.What I'm surprised about is that u would have even wanted to see her again after the first date.

Also No man I know of would have kept calling her back so much.She had a very bad excuse.Boy u are a nice guy.

OP? In a number of posts (other threads) you've been really bitter about women and the way they behave. Are you sure you aren't just picking the ones who will use/abuse you? I KNOW there are women out there who will treat you with more respect and kindness... this isn't okay by any standards. You deserve better.

rediculous. who needs that? i've had my share of those 20 years ago...it's like they erased what they did, and expect you to roll along with them and put up with whatever they have brewing in a half-a-brain sandwich.......good luck if you persue it, but with that hassle, who need that!

well well, welcome to mingle. Enjoy your stay.

Two words. Run away. She's not worth your time. You seem like a nice guy and she seems immature. Just my 2 cents.

:~K

tell the "girl" to piss up a river and enjoy her hand

agreed

I used to date her. She's crazy. Dump her.

Seriously, I have dated more than one girl who acted the same way. I don't understand the need for the games but some women think that they can maintain this kind of behavior and keep you interested. I get tired of it pretty fast.

Women are quick to point out when men play games, but it has been my experience that women play just as many, if not more.

I'd just forget about her.. She sounds like a flake darlin'... By you giving into her at her beck and call she'll continue to act like a jackass...

Thanks

If I tell you how she contacted me the first time, it will even sound more strange. She gave her email address to her friend and she hand delivered it to me on a piece of paper, telling me to email her.

So it seemed so unique and yet convincing , I mean imagine if someone delivers you an email address on a piece of paper? Would that be convincing to you that someone "really" want to meet you?

i concur

((((joy))))

(((Kim)))