She sounds kind of like that bipolar girl I dated a while back.

Just because someone really wants to meet you doesn't mean that person really has their head together. She's playing little girl games. This will move up into higher forms of drama. Run. Run like the wind.

Sounds like High school or something.

I don't think she is serious about you at all. Just want to play around with you when she wants to.

bookmarking...

((((drivin))) my old friend (rips out the book mark)

She is 28, so high school teen-games should be over for her or at least I would assume she has grown up by now?

And no, I didn't respond to her mail , because if I respond it will be nasty, so I restrained myself doing that. On the other hand, I'm not asking whether or not I should be caring about her or be with her, that's completely out of question.

I just asked what's your opinion about her. I went through a bad breakup last year and I'm through with that..but things like this kinda re awaken bad memories, that's all.

sorry...but don't you know the answer already????

I wouldn't deal with a situation like that

I knew that she is bad news and i won't deal with her, but before all the people answered here, i didn't know where to put her or what exactly she wants from me.

Do you really need us to tell you our opinions about her? You already realize she's playing games. Unfortunately, some people don't grow up and get over the game playing.

put her where...you knew the answer already. and you know what she wnats. use your head for more than a hat rack (as my dad used to say)

I'm getting the feeling that this topic of mine is gonna turn into something that it's not even her fault, but somehow mine.

Why even have this "dating and relationships" section if we get criticized to post various problems of ours?

Appearantly if we have a problem and we want opinions, we shouldn't even post it , don't ask others, perhaps they can relate to it or even learn from it, is that what you are saying?

Well, it sounds to me like she actually forgot. Isn't that possible? I mean, if this became a pattern, that would be one thing. I say write her back, see what happens. If she's that ditsy and it happens again....say cya!

LOL...she forgets that she has a date, discussed over the entire Saturday.. Give me a break.

Oh and about that cell phone thing. I guess I can see why she might have friends call to check on her on a first date with a new guy. But, that would be something else that might need addressing if it continues. That is a bit much.

Well, you likely have a vibe. Seems like your decision is made??

The cell phone thing , well she said, she has a girlfriend she talks all the time and she wants a lot of attention and so on...and they talk all the time and sometimes she needs to avoid her to get away from her..another lonely girl. I didn't entirely bought that. I was rather suspecting either an ex boyfriend or a boyfriend and she can't make up her mind what she wants.

Yeah, to be honest, I can't see many girlfriends calling their girlfriend repeatedly while she is on a date.

Weirdness.

Let it go.

No. Actually, what I was saying is that you seem to already know she's playing games and you weren't happy with that. So I was curious as to why you were asking for opinions.

Most of your posts are pretty bitter. I'm sorry that you've had trouble, but no need to get mad at those who respond.