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Topic: let's see if you can explain this
Atlantis75's photo
Thu 06/11/09 08:52 PM



Most of your posts are pretty bitter. I'm sorry that you've had trouble, but no need to get mad at those who respond.


If I'm bitter, my posts will be bitter. I can't fake my feelings, sorry.

yellowrose10's photo
Thu 06/11/09 08:53 PM




Do you really need us to tell you our opinions about her?


I'm getting the feeling that this topic of mine is gonna turn into something that it's not even her fault, but somehow mine.

Why even have this "dating and relationships" section if we get criticized to post various problems of ours?

Appearantly if we have a problem and we want opinions, we shouldn't even post it , don't ask others, perhaps they can relate to it or even learn from it, is that what you are saying?


no...her faults are hers...but if you play into them...then you should own up to what you already know

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Thu 06/11/09 08:54 PM




Most of your posts are pretty bitter. I'm sorry that you've had trouble, but no need to get mad at those who respond.


If I'm bitter, my posts will be bitter. I can't fake my feelings, sorry.


You missed the point of my response. It wasn't to say you can't be bitter or that you should fake your feelings.

Atlantis75's photo
Thu 06/11/09 09:03 PM





Most of your posts are pretty bitter. I'm sorry that you've had trouble, but no need to get mad at those who respond.


If I'm bitter, my posts will be bitter. I can't fake my feelings, sorry.


You missed the point of my response. It wasn't to say you can't be bitter or that you should fake your feelings.


I haven't got mad at anyone who replied and I appriciate all the responses. But sometimes I feel like it's almost like a sin to complain about women, hell I wasn't even complaning about them, I asked a question, because I can't figure it out on my own, that's all.

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Thu 06/11/09 09:04 PM
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Do you really need us to tell you our opinions about her?


I'm getting the feeling that this topic of mine is gonna turn into something that it's not even her fault, but somehow mine.

Why even have this "dating and relationships" section if we get criticized to post various problems of ours?

Appearantly if we have a problem and we want opinions, we shouldn't even post it , don't ask others, perhaps they can relate to it or even learn from it, is that what you are saying?
hi . I havent been around here long but from what I have read and what I see on your profile you seem like a really great guy and ths lttle game playin chickapoo needs to go back to high school cause clearly she has not grown up. And this is not your fault!!!!!!

yellowrose10's photo
Thu 06/11/09 09:04 PM
(throws up my hands) I quitohwell

have fun

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Thu 06/11/09 09:08 PM






Most of your posts are pretty bitter. I'm sorry that you've had trouble, but no need to get mad at those who respond.


If I'm bitter, my posts will be bitter. I can't fake my feelings, sorry.


You missed the point of my response. It wasn't to say you can't be bitter or that you should fake your feelings.


I haven't got mad at anyone who replied and I appriciate all the responses. But sometimes I feel like it's almost like a sin to complain about women, hell I wasn't even complaning about them, I asked a question, because I can't figure it out on my own, that's all.


I guess I'm just not seeing what you're missing.

XxAchillesxX's photo
Thu 06/11/09 09:16 PM

This is not a mingle member so don't look for her.

There is this woman, who played a game with me about 3 months ago. She basically went out to find me through a friend and emailed me, how she wants someone and likes me a lot.

So I emailed her back, then talked on the phone, and went out on a date. We went to a restaurant, but she was nervous and she had phone calls like every 10 minutes, then she was looking out at the window nervously being 'afraid' that her friend is coming (another girl) and she doesn't really want to meet her. Whatever.
I was annoyed , and her constant messing around with the damn cell phone, but since i'm a nice guy, I didn't say anything about it, I'm a patient man. Eventually the date ended, I drove her home, dropped her off and thanked her for coming out with me for a dinner.

Next day morning she calls (Saturday) asking me if I want to come over and we can hang out or go somewhere, she is free on the next day (on sunday). So I got excited a bit..and I talked to her a couple of times on the phone and talking about what to do, where to go and so on... I arranged things, so I am completely free on Sunday.

Eventually it was Sunday morning and I tried to call her to tell her that I will be leaving soon. But she didn't pick up the phone. I called about 5 times, left 5 messages, but no answer. Just around 4-5pm in the afternoon, I finally gave up and just settled, that I should just forget about her.

Around 7pm, she calls back and ask me "How are you?". Since I was still kinda pissed off (would you be?) I said, not really good and I don't know why you even calling me. Then she tells me that she was "sunbathing" and "completely forgot" about the whole deal of me coming over and going out. At that point, I said, "You know what? Just forget it...don't play any games with me, you really think I'm stupid?"
For that she hanged up on me, like it's supposed to be her being pissed off about this.

So why I'm writing this?

She sends me a mail today, out of nowhere...saying "Hello!" " You kinda disappeared or something, how are you?"


Somebody tell me WTF does she wants from me??


Dude, this happened to me about three weeks ago, but I never even got to the first date part. I have completely ignored her since, figure that if I wasn't worth her time to answer the phone, she wasn't worth my time to talk to about it. Just ignore her, she sounds like a flake.

longhairbiker's photo
Thu 06/11/09 09:28 PM

This is not a mingle member so don't look for her.

There is this woman, who played a game with me about 3 months ago. She basically went out to find me through a friend and emailed me, how she wants someone and likes me a lot.

So I emailed her back, then talked on the phone, and went out on a date. We went to a restaurant, but she was nervous and she had phone calls like every 10 minutes, then she was looking out at the window nervously being 'afraid' that her friend is coming (another girl) and she doesn't really want to meet her. Whatever.
I was annoyed , and her constant messing around with the damn cell phone, but since i'm a nice guy, I didn't say anything about it, I'm a patient man. Eventually the date ended, I drove her home, dropped her off and thanked her for coming out with me for a dinner.

Next day morning she calls (Saturday) asking me if I want to come over and we can hang out or go somewhere, she is free on the next day (on sunday). So I got excited a bit..and I talked to her a couple of times on the phone and talking about what to do, where to go and so on... I arranged things, so I am completely free on Sunday.

Eventually it was Sunday morning and I tried to call her to tell her that I will be leaving soon. But she didn't pick up the phone. I called about 5 times, left 5 messages, but no answer. Just around 4-5pm in the afternoon, I finally gave up and just settled, that I should just forget about her.

Around 7pm, she calls back and ask me "How are you?". Since I was still kinda pissed off (would you be?) I said, not really good and I don't know why you even calling me. Then she tells me that she was "sunbathing" and "completely forgot" about the whole deal of me coming over and going out. At that point, I said, "You know what? Just forget it...don't play any games with me, you really think I'm stupid?"
For that she hanged up on me, like it's supposed to be her being pissed off about this.

So why I'm writing this?

She sends me a mail today, out of nowhere...saying "Hello!" " You kinda disappeared or something, how are you?"


Somebody tell me WTF does she wants from me??
...very dangerous clueless bi polar. Run!

longhairbiker's photo
Thu 06/11/09 09:33 PM


Don't even worry about her anymore.What I'm surprised about is that u would have even wanted to see her again after the first date.

Also No man I know of would have kept calling her back so much.She had a very bad excuse.Boy u are a nice guy.flowerforyou


Thanks flowerforyou

If I tell you how she contacted me the first time, it will even sound more strange. She gave her email address to her friend and she hand delivered it to me on a piece of paper, telling me to email her.

So it seemed so unique and yet convincing , I mean imagine if someone delivers you an email address on a piece of paper? Would that be convincing to you that someone "really" want to meet you?
...bi polar behavior. Run.

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Thu 06/11/09 09:45 PM
Once I saw.."I e-mailed her back"...that kinda ended it.

That means you were slutting...(not meant to be offensive...it used to be a way of life for me)

If you gave out your address and they found you....that is kind of completely your fault.

Next time..may I suggest an alias....Hell, just tell em you are Krupa!

Sugarlipsx3's photo
Thu 06/11/09 10:03 PM
Id just ignore her. No use in wasting time or crying over spilled milk.

IndnPrncs's photo
Thu 06/11/09 10:09 PM






Most of your posts are pretty bitter. I'm sorry that you've had trouble, but no need to get mad at those who respond.


If I'm bitter, my posts will be bitter. I can't fake my feelings, sorry.


You missed the point of my response. It wasn't to say you can't be bitter or that you should fake your feelings.


I haven't got mad at anyone who replied and I appriciate all the responses. But sometimes I feel like it's almost like a sin to complain about women, hell I wasn't even complaning about them, I asked a question, because I can't figure it out on my own, that's all.


Honey, it's not a sin to complain about jerks man or woman... You're a great guy.. It seems like you're looking for something that isn't to be found just now.. Let it ride, don't deal with anyone that doesn't treat you as you deserve to be treated... If you do you're settling.. Is that what you really want? I don't think so, not from what I know of you..

Forget her, bide your time till the right one comes along.... flowers

PacificStar48's photo
Thu 06/11/09 10:15 PM
I think maybe you were overly flattered by the note with the email address. Some gals fill out their social calendar by dropping bread crumbs. Sometimes it is to make a boyfriend jealous or on a dare from friends. Maybe she is feeling guilty or just bored but I would not give anyone and opportunity to dis me like that more than once.

DaveyB's photo
Fri 06/12/09 12:45 AM


I just asked what's your opinion about her.



Gossipmpm's photo
Fri 06/12/09 12:51 AM
I think she's really a lezbo bro!

earthytaurus76's photo
Fri 06/12/09 12:52 AM
WHO CARESSSSS? psy-coooooooooo! RUN!

earthytaurus76's photo
Fri 06/12/09 12:56 AM


Don't even worry about her anymore.What I'm surprised about is that u would have even wanted to see her again after the first date.

Also No man I know of would have kept calling her back so much.She had a very bad excuse.Boy u are a nice guy.flowerforyou


Thanks flowerforyou

If I tell you how she contacted me the first time, it will even sound more strange. She gave her email address to her friend and she hand delivered it to me on a piece of paper, telling me to email her.

So it seemed so unique and yet convincing , I mean imagine if someone delivers you an email address on a piece of paper? Would that be convincing to you that someone "really" want to meet you?


No, id be totally wierded out! She doesnt mind meeting you in person to deliver an email adress, but she doesnt give you her number? After what you explained, she sounds like a parnoid crack addict.

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Fri 06/12/09 01:15 AM
Edited by Jtevans on Fri 06/12/09 01:16 AM
find her,f*ck her,then forget her



my motto....



and no you can't claim it as your own.it's mine!:angry:

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Fri 06/12/09 01:23 AM



I just asked what's your opinion about her.





rofl rofl rofl

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