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So I've always been very in touch spiritually (not so much religious) and I believe in the "soul mate" reality. Dating is nerve racking to me and some seem to think that looking (passively) for one's soul mate is too much what do you think?
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Maybe you're trying too hard to find a "soulmate." Just relax a bit and stop looking so hard.
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Have everything aligned in your life and when it is time to find your soul mate it will happen without directed effort.
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Dating is nerve racking?????
Perhaps you are dating the wrong sex! Just a thought. So I've always been very in touch spiritually (not so much religious) and I believe in the "soul mate" reality. Dating is nerve racking to me and some seem to think that looking (passively) for one's soul mate is too much what do you think? |
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But, you'll never find what you're looking for by living your life passively. Get out there, enjoy, life your life to the fullest on your own, love yourself, love your life, love what you do. When you can do that, life will happen. You may or may not find your soulmate but maybe it won't matter so much? Just a thought
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Well I've been taken advantage of for almost 9 years and just recently found out that they were just a lie, I thought I had my soul mate but she was just clever and manipulative.
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absolutey not asking too mcuh....a soulmate is always your best friend, since they always seem to know what you are feeling or thinking at any one point in time.
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Dating is nerve racking????? Perhaps you are dating the wrong sex! Just a thought. So I've always been very in touch spiritually (not so much religious) and I believe in the "soul mate" reality. Dating is nerve racking to me and some seem to think that looking (passively) for one's soul mate is too much what do you think? No I'm straight for the record, it's just difficult to go from a long term marriage( right out of highschool) to the world of dating is all. |
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my thoughts exactly! I believe one's partner,wife, husband, whatever should also be their best friend.
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my thoughts exactly! I believe one's partner,wife, husband, whatever should also be their best friend. So what happens when you already have a best friend? |
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Well if your best friend and yourself have "feelings" for each other then more might be a possibility.
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Well if your best friend and yourself have "feelings" for each other then more might be a possibility. Experience as a teacher, don't get involved with friends...especially good or best friends. If the relationship doesn't work out you're not only out a girlfriend...but now you're out a friend too. |
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So I've always been very in touch spiritually (not so much religious) and I believe in the "soul mate" reality. Dating is nerve racking to me and some seem to think that looking (passively) for one's soul mate is too much what do you think? I believe they are out there, they just happen to be found when you least expect it! So no, I don't think it's asking too much to find the right one out there for you! Good luck!  
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Well if your best friend and yourself have "feelings" for each other then more might be a possibility. That's not what I was saying. You're saying that your "soulmate" should be your best friend. What if you already have a best friend who you are not going to date? |
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Well if your best friend and yourself have "feelings" for each other then more might be a possibility. That's not what I was saying. You're saying that your "soulmate" should be your best friend. What if you already have a best friend who you are not going to date? But once you meet the one you are going to date, don't they become the new "best friend"? I mean, sure you still have the other friend as a good friend, but the soulmate becomes the significant other, the lover, the husband/wife, the best friend. I'm pretty sure that's what he means. |
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Yes
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Well if your best friend and yourself have "feelings" for each other then more might be a possibility. That's not what I was saying. You're saying that your "soulmate" should be your best friend. What if you already have a best friend who you are not going to date? But once you meet the one you are going to date, don't they become the new "best friend"? I mean, sure you still have the other friend as a good friend, but the soulmate becomes the significant other, the lover, the husband/wife, the best friend. I'm pretty sure that's what he means. My best friend has always been the same. It doesn't change depending on who I'm dating. |
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leggo my eggo
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leggo my eggo Biatch it was my eggo first!! As for the post: I agree that being friends is extremely important to me as well!! |
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Ok I see what you are saying, In that case I believe your best friend(male or female) should remain just that, but in a case where you meet "the one" the former will have to understand that your new relationship will likely develop bonds possibly greater then the one's shared by you and him or her.
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