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been there and still going through it.i have no advice but at least you're not alone 
Thanks, but I made this almost 2 months ago.  I am soooooo way past where I was when I wrote this.
 Die! Evil thread! Die!
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You know a Comedian I saw once said, thier are two kinds of people. The ones that are single, "they are lonely and sad" One the other hand, "There are the married couples, "They are always fighting and unhappy". I think that the truth is....life and the particular state you are in is something that you have control of. Sometimes you have to take a small step backward and a deep breath I think on what you can do to enhance or change the circumstance that you are in. Good luck and be positive things will improve...After all be single and lonely do seem to go together and finding ways to improve this circumstance is kinda what this site is all about. Sharing what you feel and reflecting with others who are in the same situation. 
At the risk of sounding like a one-line parrot or causing you a bit of deja vu, I'm going to say what I just said to you in another thread: Beautifully said. I hope to run into you more often. It's nice to see friendly and level-headed posts here... sometimes it's rare.
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been there and still going through it.i have no advice but at least you're not alone
Thanks, but I made this almost 2 months ago. I am soooooo way past where I was when I wrote this.
Die! Evil thread! Die!
damn,i need to start looking at the expiration date on these threads.... |
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My song that would play if my phone ever rang is "Here I Go Again" by Whitesnake. It's old but fits perfectly. Not going to post it all but this part of the main verse says enough... Here I go again on my own walking down the only road I've ever known like a drifter I was born to walk alone. That damn loneliness wave crashes down upon me so hard sometimes I actually feel like I'm drowning. I usually just go hug my dog. He's a lab, they're water repellant! 
 Great song!
Labs are really water repellant? That's cool! |
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been there and still going through it.i have no advice but at least you're not alone
Thanks, but I made this almost 2 months ago. I am soooooo way past where I was when I wrote this.
Die! Evil thread! Die!
damn,i need to start looking at the expiration date on these threads.... Damn Zombie-threads!
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You know a Comedian I saw once said, thier are two kinds of people. The ones that are single, "they are lonely and sad" One the other hand, "There are the married couples, "They are always fighting and unhappy". I think that the truth is....life and the particular state you are in is something that you have control of. Sometimes you have to take a small step backward and a deep breath I think on what you can do to enhance or change the circumstance that you are in. Good luck and be positive things will improve...After all be single and lonely do seem to go together and finding ways to improve this circumstance is kinda what this site is all about. Sharing what you feel and reflecting with others who are in the same situation.
At the risk of sounding like a one-line parrot or causing you a bit of deja vu, I'm going to say what I just said to you in another thread: Beautifully said. I hope to run into you more often. It's nice to see friendly and level-headed posts here... sometimes it's rare.
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been there and still going through it.i have no advice but at least you're not alone
Thanks, but I made this almost 2 months ago. I am soooooo way past where I was when I wrote this.
Die! Evil thread! Die!
damn,i need to start looking at the expiration date on these threads.... Damn Zombie-threads!
i know.now i'm afraid this thread will eat me when i go to sleep  
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been there and still going through it.i have no advice but at least you're not alone
Thanks, but I made this almost 2 months ago. I am soooooo way past where I was when I wrote this.
Die! Evil thread! Die!
damn,i need to start looking at the expiration date on these threads.... Damn Zombie-threads!
i know.now i'm afraid this thread will eat me when i go to sleep
I've seen enough of your posts to seriously doubt that nightmares are what go on in your head when you sleep 
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been there and still going through it.i have no advice but at least you're not alone
Thanks, but I made this almost 2 months ago. I am soooooo way past where I was when I wrote this.
Die! Evil thread! Die!
damn,i need to start looking at the expiration date on these threads.... Damn Zombie-threads!
i know.now i'm afraid this thread will eat me when i go to sleep
I've seen enough of your posts to seriously doubt that nightmares are what go on in your head when you sleep
ok you're getting to know me pretty well.... |
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What knocks me out about this thread are the number of people, myself included, who are so open and intimate with their feelings on line but will barely look someone within ten feet of them in the eye because we have all been so savaged by one on one relationships the distance is the only thing that feels safe. I know we are suppose to learn from our experiences but the ones that feel like love fade so fast and I am not sure why. Sweet Dreams my Mingle friends. You are never really alone because I keep you in my heart and hopes.
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Been there, done that...cured it. Make sure you really want the feeling to go away before you try and get it to go away...once the feeling of being alone while still surrounded by people fades...it is extremely difficult if not impossible to ever achieve feeling alone again, nullifying most if not all people around you. Of course I want it to go away! I don’t want to push people away, but I also don’t want to feel this way. You didn’t say how you accomplished this. 
You don't push people away, you seclude yourself in a place that you are comfortable with and don't venture out much aside from work...effectively a recluse. Once the feeling of alone fades, it doesn't come back, regardless of attempts to put somebody in your life. Feelings are very tricky, you either have them or you don't there isn't really a way to go in the middle of them. I don't feel much anymore, physical or emotional...the physical bit is from my accident, the emotional bit is from lack of socializing. It isn't pleasant not being able to feel fear, anger, love, sadness, etc. again. Even less pleasant is not knowing how or if you ever will feel them again. Every time I read anything you write, I always get an overwhelming urge to hold you and stroke your hair while telling you it’s ok to cry. 
I don’t know what happened to you, but you’re so lucky I’m in Virginia and you’re in Illinois.
Then again, maybe that's how some serial killers lured their prey... sympathy and compassion... and maybe I'm the lucky one. 
A lot of things happened, all at once. I've loved and lost and am forever traumatized by it, I feel I would have been better off never loving at all for the trouble that love was to begin with. Therefore, I've decided I will try my hardest not to fall in love again. Not to say it cannot or will not happen someday, but it definitely won't be happening soon. Someday, perhaps, I will break out of this solitude...and maybe, that same day, it will be with someone else...but I'll live either or.
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Been there, done that...cured it. Make sure you really want the feeling to go away before you try and get it to go away...once the feeling of being alone while still surrounded by people fades...it is extremely difficult if not impossible to ever achieve feeling alone again, nullifying most if not all people around you. Of course I want it to go away! I don’t want to push people away, but I also don’t want to feel this way. You didn’t say how you accomplished this.
You don't push people away, you seclude yourself in a place that you are comfortable with and don't venture out much aside from work...effectively a recluse. Once the feeling of alone fades, it doesn't come back, regardless of attempts to put somebody in your life. Feelings are very tricky, you either have them or you don't there isn't really a way to go in the middle of them. I don't feel much anymore, physical or emotional...the physical bit is from my accident, the emotional bit is from lack of socializing. It isn't pleasant not being able to feel fear, anger, love, sadness, etc. again. Even less pleasant is not knowing how or if you ever will feel them again. Every time I read anything you write, I always get an overwhelming urge to hold you and stroke your hair while telling you it’s ok to cry.
I don’t know what happened to you, but you’re so lucky I’m in Virginia and you’re in Illinois.
Then again, maybe that's how some serial killers lured their prey... sympathy and compassion... and maybe I'm the lucky one.
A lot of things happened, all at once. I've loved and lost and am forever traumatized by it, I feel I would have been better off never loving at all for the trouble that love was to begin with. Therefore, I've decided I will try my hardest not to fall in love again. Not to say it cannot or will not happen someday, but it definitely won't be happening soon. Someday, perhaps, I will break out of this solitude...and maybe, that same day, it will be with someone else...but I'll live either or.
Of course you’ll live either or. Sh*$ happens and we adapt. I think that’s what I like about you… you don’t sugarcoat everything and you’re a realist. Even realists need to let all the cr@p that builds up out every now and then.  I do hope you find someone who can cry with you. Sheesh… that sounds morbid, but maybe you can understand what I mean by that.
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THIS part of the song... this one part I know very well. I'm walking down the line That divides me somewhere in my mind On the border line Of the edge and where I walk alone Read between the lines What's fµcked up and everything's alright Check my vital signs To know I'm still alive and I walk alone I like the lyrics and will have to see about getting a copy of the song to hear how it sounds with music. Thank you for sharing. I love good lyrics.
Anytime Alternativa
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Been there, done that...cured it. Make sure you really want the feeling to go away before you try and get it to go away...once the feeling of being alone while still surrounded by people fades...it is extremely difficult if not impossible to ever achieve feeling alone again, nullifying most if not all people around you. Of course I want it to go away! I don’t want to push people away, but I also don’t want to feel this way. You didn’t say how you accomplished this.
You don't push people away, you seclude yourself in a place that you are comfortable with and don't venture out much aside from work...effectively a recluse. Once the feeling of alone fades, it doesn't come back, regardless of attempts to put somebody in your life. Feelings are very tricky, you either have them or you don't there isn't really a way to go in the middle of them. I don't feel much anymore, physical or emotional...the physical bit is from my accident, the emotional bit is from lack of socializing. It isn't pleasant not being able to feel fear, anger, love, sadness, etc. again. Even less pleasant is not knowing how or if you ever will feel them again. Every time I read anything you write, I always get an overwhelming urge to hold you and stroke your hair while telling you it’s ok to cry.
I don’t know what happened to you, but you’re so lucky I’m in Virginia and you’re in Illinois.
Then again, maybe that's how some serial killers lured their prey... sympathy and compassion... and maybe I'm the lucky one.
A lot of things happened, all at once. I've loved and lost and am forever traumatized by it, I feel I would have been better off never loving at all for the trouble that love was to begin with. Therefore, I've decided I will try my hardest not to fall in love again. Not to say it cannot or will not happen someday, but it definitely won't be happening soon. Someday, perhaps, I will break out of this solitude...and maybe, that same day, it will be with someone else...but I'll live either or.
Of course you’ll live either or. Sh*$ happens and we adapt. I think that’s what I like about you… you don’t sugarcoat everything and you’re a realist. Even realists need to let all the cr@p that builds up out every now and then. I do hope you find someone who can cry with you. Sheesh… that sounds morbid, but maybe you can understand what I mean by that.
I write, and that is how I cry. Though for the most part they all lead down the same road of anarchy, some are really deep. Should check me in the Creative Writing area, have quite a few works in there.
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