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Depends.....
What did you have in mind, Winx???? I think in one way it would be fine cause Im not the type that has to see my significent other every day but on the downside when I wanted to see them we both would have to shell out alot of money to come see each other to hang out or f**K which would really be a pain in the a**! Are you looking for someone to "f**k" or someone to have a relationship with? |
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my bad i forgot to say female  
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Edited by
Mr_Music
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Tue 06/09/09 08:41 AM
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But see I don't think your right one would have died at a young age..
Nobody has any control over that. It's not up to any of us when the button is pushed, for whatever reason. A person can eat healthy, exercise, live right, then wander out into the street in front of a bus (only an example). |
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Edited by
directandwrite
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Tue 06/09/09 08:44 AM
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What if I met my singular "right on" when I was 12...... or perhaps they died at a young age or perhaps they don't know I am the "right" one. If there is only one singular "right one" the odds of meeting are enormous .....if not statistically impossible..... Maybe I see things as I do because I feel like there's a right one for everybody. Not that there are several right ones. I mean if you look at your past relationships, while something good came out of them most likely, they obviously weren't the "right one" because things didn't work. Maybe I'm just an idealist? 
But see I don't think your right one would have died at a young age..or if they didn't know you were the right one, then obviously they weren't... I think that was probably very hurtful to her. And frankly, you owe AuburnGirl an apology. That being said, and I think this discussion is going a little off-topic but I think there are many "right" ones in our life. They are right for the moment, for a while, and if we are really lucky, for the rest of our lives. I'm divorced but I have no regrets with my ex, he was the "right" one at the time and in many ways, is still the right one, though the nature of our relationship has changed drastically. He's the "right" very good friend. Many people walk in and out of our lives, they sometimes stay, sometimes not but they all serve a very real and "right" purpose. To narrow your view of "right" or "soul mate" to such an extent, THAT seems sad to me 
I'm not sure who you were referring to as needing to apologize to auburn, but I am in agreement with her. So I have no need to apologize. I think God gives us a right one...I think we mess things up when we veer off and choose others instead of the right one. The real sad part is when we do what we want to do for our own personal pleasure instead of what He would choose for us...but rather than get into a religious debate about it, I'll stop my opinion there. Going back to the main point, I do believe LDRs can work if worked on. I think it's kind of silly to limit oneself to only those in your backyard. And if that's all you're going to attempt to look for anyway? Why bother getting online at all?? Just go out places and meet them....  Good luck and God speed to everyone!
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Depends..... What did you have in mind, Winx???? I think in one way it would be fine cause Im not the type that has to see my significent other every day but on the downside when I wanted to see them we both would have to shell out alot of money to come see each other to hang out or f**K which would really be a pain in the a**! Are you looking for someone to "f**k" or someone to have a relationship with? I didn't have anything in mind. 
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listen ed i can interdouce you to..
sssssssssssssssssshhhhhhhhhhhhhhhaaaaaaaawwwwwwwwwwwwnnnnnnnnnn
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listen ed i can interdouce you to.. sssssssssssssssssshhhhhhhhhhhhhhhaaaaaaaawwwwwwwwwwwwnnnnnnnnnn
eeeeeeeeeeeek not SHAWN 
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Are some of you not romantics at all? Why would you automatically dis-include anyone not close to you for a relationship? How do you know your perfect match isn't eight states away? But since you're so stubborn and won't try a long distance thing, you settle for someone within driving distance. What a sad tale that is!!!!! 
Especially when you're settling for "second best". I agree with you. I was not looking for another relationship. I had decided if it was to be, UPS would have to just deliver him to my front door. Sometimes things happen that are meant to and I for one, wouldn't let the distance stand in my way. UPS???? UPS??? UPS???????????????? don't you mean FedEX??? 
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Damn......
you could have been "the one"..........
Depends..... What did you have in mind, Winx???? I think in one way it would be fine cause Im not the type that has to see my significent other every day but on the downside when I wanted to see them we both would have to shell out alot of money to come see each other to hang out or f**K which would really be a pain in the a**! Are you looking for someone to "f**k" or someone to have a relationship with? I didn't have anything in mind.
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Are some of you not romantics at all? Why would you automatically dis-include anyone not close to you for a relationship? How do you know your perfect match isn't eight states away? But since you're so stubborn and won't try a long distance thing, you settle for someone within driving distance. What a sad tale that is!!!!!
Especially when you're settling for "second best". I agree with you. I was not looking for another relationship. I had decided if it was to be, UPS would have to just deliver him to my front door. Sometimes things happen that are meant to and I for one, wouldn't let the distance stand in my way. UPS???? UPS??? UPS???????????????? don't you mean FedEX???
Yes, well, I had the wrong company. Or the right company as it turned out!
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Damn...... you could have been "the one"..........
Depends..... What did you have in mind, Winx???? I think in one way it would be fine cause Im not the type that has to see my significent other every day but on the downside when I wanted to see them we both would have to shell out alot of money to come see each other to hang out or f**K which would really be a pain in the a**! Are you looking for someone to "f**k" or someone to have a relationship with? I didn't have anything in mind.
I blew it. 
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ANY RELATIONSHIP TAKES WORK BEING IN THE SAME TOWN OR LONG DISTANCE.
BUT MY LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP IS SUCCESSFUL  AND I AM GLAD I DIDNT TURN IT DOWN BECAUSE IT WAS LONG DISTANCE, THE BEST RELATIONSHIP I HAVE BEEN IN 
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Image edited for page alignment. |
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Thanks for blowing the borders of the page.
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Edited by
papersmile
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Tue 06/09/09 08:50 AM
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If you cant afford to be in a LDR, and if you aren't mature enough to be in one, then it possibly isnt for you.
i absolutely agree, as well as whether you can make the time in your working and/or family schedule to see each other fairly often. it's relatively cheap to fly city to city within america. try it from another country with your partner living in the most remote part of his state! and when you're spending that kind of money, weekend trips just don't cut it.
~~~~ oh my, dubz? who ever the chick is in that photo, she REALLY needs a pedicure. |
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With regard to what Suzin said...I did not see Auburn's post about her husband passing away
And I did not mean any offense to her by saying that what I was replying to ddn about someone dying at a young age. Those are two completely different thoughts. For Auburn. Perhaps he was her one! Now that is not to say that she won't find another one later in life. Perhaps they too, had a one somewhere that something happened to or something.
My comment about the dying at 12 thing was meant for ddn, not auburn. I really don't think that most people find their "ones" at such a young age although it is possible. But I meant no hurt at all toward auburn
That is not how I meant it at all Suzin
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hey not a problem
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With regard to what Suzin said...I did not see Auburn's post about her husband passing away And I did not mean any offense to her by saying that what I was replying to ddn about someone dying at a young age. Those are two completely different thoughts. For Auburn. Perhaps he was her one! Now that is not to say that she won't find another one later in life. Perhaps they too, had a one somewhere that something happened to or something.
My comment about the dying at 12 thing was meant for ddn, not auburn. I really don't think that most people find their "ones" at such a young age although it is possible. But I meant no hurt at all toward auburn
That is not how I meant it at all Suzin
I see
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