It seems to me that I have the worst of luck trying to find a
relationship. My last and only relationship didn't even last a month and
then I found out she dated a 400 pound asshole after me. Which made me
feel even more worthless because she is more attracted to him then me.
Every girl I've attempted to ask just denied me saying I'm just too
nice. It's not that I'm asking the wrong girls either because I've tried
asking every type. What should I do here? I have talked to some girls
online that might be interested in me but they all live too far away. It
feels like there is nobody meant for me and it leaves me with a cold
numbness inside

man, i understand what you mean. im in the same boat. you just got to
keep on poushing and dont lose faith. and i know its hard, but you have
to

man, i understand what you mean. im in the same boat. you just got to
keep on poushing and dont lose faith. and i know its hard, but you have
to

man, i understand what you mean. im in the same boat. you just got to
keep on poushing and dont lose faith. and i know its hard, but you have
to

cover your body in tattoos, plenty of piercings....don't bathe for a
couple months...women will fall all over ya....oh yes and make it a
point to be seen treating a woman like crap.....they seem to like the
roughneck type

I know exactly how you feel. I sometimes feel like women dont date me
because I'm disabled but it sometimes doesnt stop me from asking them
just go with the flow dude

hugs to both you great young men... keep trying, don't give
up........ you will both find what you are looking for!!

trust me u aint the only one havin an hard time findin a relation ship
cause it seems im havein that trouble to

There is Steve’s way which has much merit and I would add grow your hair
long and never wash it as well.

Put all your effort in to becoming rich and trust me the pretty ones
will come. Word of advice here make sure you keep your money coming in
because as soon as it its gone so will the women.

Or be true to yourself build a life that you want and one you will enjoy
and when you least expected it she will be right in front of you. Your
only 20 shut up and enjoy life all things after that will fall in to
place.

Nope, its not just you babe. Its everyone...

keep this word in your mind "Commitmentphobia"

its an epidemic...

Aw come on guys. Not another all women only like thread....No, not all
women like bad boys. Some of us much prefer the good guys.

IMHO, modern society with its emphasis on the physical and de-emphasis
on the emotional and spiritual components of relationships makes it hard
for anyone who is looking to find a lasting love relationship,
especially those who follow society's dictates.

I believe the best love relationships are those that start slowly and
are built on a strong foundation of friendship, mutual respect and
understanding, these elements will weather the test of time when lust
and physical attraction have long since faded away.

Of course I'm single, so what do I know? :)

SheNerd :)

I know what you mean! I had not had much luck in the dating area. The
last man i was dating lasted about a month or so and he broke it off by
text message.
What ever happened to really getting to know someone..taking things
slow?

First, my friend, don't EVER let someone take your self esteem away from
you. Some people live, to take the spirit from others; especially, the
good spirit!!! Know that your worth is NOT dictated by the people we
meet, or involve ourselves with; it is dictated by that spirit, within!
We tend to be our own worst enemies, so, let's try to be the friend
inside, that we are looking for, outside! Sometimes, the hand dealt, may
MEAN to travel for your love. Some things are truly appreciated, after
hard work, is put into them! Just know, you are NOT the only one going
through this change. Weary of the GAME, myself!!! Know also, it does get
better!!!!! GOOD LUCK, MY FRIEND!

you would think it gets easier with age...nadda....

Yes., Billy It is harder

DONT LOOK FOR IT AND IT WILL HAPPEN!!!!

closing my eyes.....real tight

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww



me too!!!!!!!


Pappa


and clicking my red stilletos

no place like.........................

If I were 20 years younger I would date you but my own son is
22, lol. Just wait it out. Post more in the forums to get you noticed.
Keep beingthe nice guy. Believe it or not, there are tons of women who
are just dieing to meet nice guys.