Topic: Building Friendships and Romances Online
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Sat 06/06/09 03:10 PM

:heart: Do you think there is stigma attached to building friendships and romances online?:heart:


nahhhhh all my family and friends know that papersmile and I met online and they all adore her

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Sat 06/06/09 03:15 PM
ive been speaking to someone on this site after finding this site by accident. and ive suprised myself, i have more in common with them than any one ive met in person i find we talk alot about our common interests, and i say screw the stigma:thumbsup: cos imsmitten

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Sat 06/06/09 10:31 PM


:heart: Do you think there is stigma attached to building friendships and romances online?:heart:


nahhhhh all my family and friends know that papersmile and I met online and they all adore her
smile2 excellent:thumbsup:

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Sat 06/06/09 10:32 PM

:heart: Do you think there is stigma attached to building friendships and romances online?:heart:


Yes.

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Sat 06/06/09 10:47 PM

:heart: Do you think there is stigma attached to building friendships and romances online?:heart:


I met my girlfriend off of MySpace back in December. I liked that we got to know each other quite a bit through emails, then phone calls, then finally in person. I think there's advantages of meeting someone online & I don't think that there's too much stigma attached these days.

After my divorce, I figured I'd probably be single for quite a while cause I didn't think women like her existed, or were in very short supply. Glad she came along and proved me wrong happy

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Sun 06/07/09 02:23 PM


:heart: Do you think there is stigma attached to building friendships and romances online?:heart:


I met my girlfriend off of MySpace back in December. I liked that we got to know each other quite a bit through emails, then phone calls, then finally in person. I think there's advantages of meeting someone online & I don't think that there's too much stigma attached these days.

After my divorce, I figured I'd probably be single for quite a while cause I didn't think women like her existed, or were in very short supply. Glad she came along and proved me wrong happy
:thumbsup:

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Sun 06/07/09 02:29 PM
The way I see it, U meet who u meet an it doesn't matter how u meet em. The most important thing is u met em an they're in ur life. shades

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Sun 06/07/09 03:10 PM
Yes. but it make no since. What's the difference between meeting someone online and meeting someone at a bar except if things go south, they can't hurt you (being as you may vary well be on different continents). If anything, online dating is the safest way to go if you're not going to stick with people you already know.

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Sun 06/07/09 03:12 PM
this is a place i come to vent. i would not say i come on to make friends but i enjoy alot of the people on here its a nice place to wast a little time when your just chillin at home

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Sun 06/07/09 03:12 PM
I had one removed from my ass cheek

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Sun 06/07/09 03:14 PM


:heart: Do you think there is stigma attached to building friendships and romances online?:heart:


nahhhhh all my family and friends know that papersmile and I met online and they all adore her


papersmile huh... lucky man.. good luck to you two:thumbsup:

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Sun 06/07/09 03:15 PM


:heart: Do you think there is stigma attached to building friendships and romances online?:heart:


I met my girlfriend off of MySpace back in December. I liked that we got to know each other quite a bit through emails, then phone calls, then finally in person. I think there's advantages of meeting someone online & I don't think that there's too much stigma attached these days.

After my divorce, I figured I'd probably be single for quite a while cause I didn't think women like her existed, or were in very short supply. Glad she came along and proved me wrong happy


That's cool. Though, I've always wondered if many people really look to meet new people on myspace and facebook. I reserve those sites for just people I already know.

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Sun 06/07/09 03:40 PM
Edited by lighthouselover on Sun 06/07/09 03:41 PM


Yes, over all I still think there is a stigma; perhaps more so in certain age groups than others. I also think it depends "how" you know them on line when you tell people.

For instance, if you talk about chatting with someone that you play a computer based game with, I think people generally think ok...a casual friendship based on a game.

If people are posting in forums with a group of people and that is the base of the friendship...same thing may apply.

If people hear that you are talking on the phone with someone that you met on the internet and you are friends, I think that some people will still think this is a "scam" type thing or very dangerous. (not saying it is not dangerous at times, so is talking to someone in a bar or parking lot or....)

If people hear that you have a great friend that you met on the net and you are going on a date that night....(this is where I chuckle) the first question they may ask is..."Have you met them yet?" some people are still not comfortable with the idea that people can write, talk, and interact and have a great friendship...and then take the relationship to the next level..the meeting.

and personally, I met Darrel(my sweetheart) on the internet and we were great friends. We talked, we emailed, we chatted, played around in the forums...all as friends. Neither one of us had ever talked about being anything more than that to each other...we were just great friends.

Then last summer...almost one year ago...I had a couple of my internet friends over for a party...(40 people, 5 countries, and 4 days)...that was the first time that Darrel and I had actually met, after almost 2 years of knowing each other...and we knew we really loved each other. Our friendship was and is the basis for our love and our relationship.

some people still look at me and say..."well, you are lucky he was not a serial killer rapist!!"

The thing is, people have to be smart and use common sense on or off the internet...

I think in a couple of years...the stigma will lessen...and soon become rare...there are more people on the net then ever!

I have made some fantastic friends on the internet!! I live with someone that I met on the internet and if my 79 year old mother doesn't have an issue with it, then others can take a different perspective too!


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Sun 06/07/09 04:05 PM



:heart: Do you think there is stigma attached to building friendships and romances online?:heart:


I met my girlfriend off of MySpace back in December. I liked that we got to know each other quite a bit through emails, then phone calls, then finally in person. I think there's advantages of meeting someone online & I don't think that there's too much stigma attached these days.

After my divorce, I figured I'd probably be single for quite a while cause I didn't think women like her existed, or were in very short supply. Glad she came along and proved me wrong happy


That's cool. Though, I've always wondered if many people really look to meet new people on myspace and facebook. I reserve those sites for just people I already know.


I never really used MySpace to try and meet new people. It just happened to be how it went down. We became good friends that way and when we met in person the chemistry was there.

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Sun 06/07/09 04:06 PM


:heart: Do you think there is stigma attached to building friendships and romances online?:heart:


nahhhhh all my family and friends know that papersmile and I met online and they all adore her


This family/friend sure does. These two are about as well-matched as two folks can get. (We sort of adore the Q too, but don't tell him...don't want him getting too big for his britches!)

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Sun 06/07/09 05:50 PM
Edited by Mr_Music on Sun 06/07/09 05:51 PM
I figured I'd probably be single for quite a while cause I didn't think women like her existed, or were in very short supply. Glad she came along and proved me wrong


I can relate to THAT!

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Sun 06/07/09 06:04 PM



Yes, over all I still think there is a stigma; perhaps more so in certain age groups than others. I also think it depends "how" you know them on line when you tell people.

For instance, if you talk about chatting with someone that you play a computer based game with, I think people generally think ok...a casual friendship based on a game.

If people are posting in forums with a group of people and that is the base of the friendship...same thing may apply.

If people hear that you are talking on the phone with someone that you met on the internet and you are friends, I think that some people will still think this is a "scam" type thing or very dangerous. (not saying it is not dangerous at times, so is talking to someone in a bar or parking lot or....)

If people hear that you have a great friend that you met on the net and you are going on a date that night....(this is where I chuckle) the first question they may ask is..."Have you met them yet?" some people are still not comfortable with the idea that people can write, talk, and interact and have a great friendship...and then take the relationship to the next level..the meeting.

and personally, I met Darrel(my sweetheart) on the internet and we were great friends. We talked, we emailed, we chatted, played around in the forums...all as friends. Neither one of us had ever talked about being anything more than that to each other...we were just great friends.

Then last summer...almost one year ago...I had a couple of my internet friends over for a party...(40 people, 5 countries, and 4 days)...that was the first time that Darrel and I had actually met, after almost 2 years of knowing each other...and we knew we really loved each other. Our friendship was and is the basis for our love and our relationship.

some people still look at me and say..."well, you are lucky he was not a serial killer rapist!!"

The thing is, people have to be smart and use common sense on or off the internet...

I think in a couple of years...the stigma will lessen...and soon become rare...there are more people on the net then ever!

I have made some fantastic friends on the internet!! I live with someone that I met on the internet and if my 79 year old mother doesn't have an issue with it, then others can take a different perspective too!




Very wise words.

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Sun 06/07/09 06:07 PM
Personally, I'm not sure that love really exists out there. Online or off. I guess that doesn't really answer your question on your terms, but, just my thoughts on it.

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Sun 06/07/09 06:10 PM

:heart: Do you think there is stigma attached to building friendships and romances online?:heart:


Actually, for me it's turned out to be more of a stigmata.


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Sun 06/07/09 06:12 PM




Yes, over all I still think there is a stigma; perhaps more so in certain age groups than others. I also think it depends "how" you know them on line when you tell people.

For instance, if you talk about chatting with someone that you play a computer based game with, I think people generally think ok...a casual friendship based on a game.

If people are posting in forums with a group of people and that is the base of the friendship...same thing may apply.

If people hear that you are talking on the phone with someone that you met on the internet and you are friends, I think that some people will still think this is a "scam" type thing or very dangerous. (not saying it is not dangerous at times, so is talking to someone in a bar or parking lot or....)

If people hear that you have a great friend that you met on the net and you are going on a date that night....(this is where I chuckle) the first question they may ask is..."Have you met them yet?" some people are still not comfortable with the idea that people can write, talk, and interact and have a great friendship...and then take the relationship to the next level..the meeting.

and personally, I met Darrel(my sweetheart) on the internet and we were great friends. We talked, we emailed, we chatted, played around in the forums...all as friends. Neither one of us had ever talked about being anything more than that to each other...we were just great friends.

Then last summer...almost one year ago...I had a couple of my internet friends over for a party...(40 people, 5 countries, and 4 days)...that was the first time that Darrel and I had actually met, after almost 2 years of knowing each other...and we knew we really loved each other. Our friendship was and is the basis for our love and our relationship.

some people still look at me and say..."well, you are lucky he was not a serial killer rapist!!"

The thing is, people have to be smart and use common sense on or off the internet...

I think in a couple of years...the stigma will lessen...and soon become rare...there are more people on the net then ever!

I have made some fantastic friends on the internet!! I live with someone that I met on the internet and if my 79 year old mother doesn't have an issue with it, then others can take a different perspective too!




Very wise words.


Yes Deb very wise wordslaugh waving