So i just wanna post a question to the world of men out there....
Is there anyone of you out there that....
don't have a hang up from your ex, and hold it against every future woman you meet?
that don't start something with a woman and then decide you want the ex back, that you complained about for 2 months?
that mean it when they say they want to settle down?
that want more than sex?
and any that are just plain honest and normal?
if so please please come forward....

Are you saying that some guy did that to you?
That is to sad if so.

First off, the past is the past & I never make the next one pay for the last one's mistakes!!!!!!

Not me..I am grown...My child has made me feel grown anyway

well god bless you!!!!!!!!!!!! thank you...just as not all men are pigs...not all of us woman seek to destroy men

Try not to judge all guys by the one moron you happend to go out with for a while.

oink....oops

i mean, thats right

see iam mature enough to NOT judge all men based on one....

did i say...i love men? i do. Infact i want one, but one thats normal....lol

I know not all men are pigs, but there are far more out there like that than aren't.

I seem to have the worst time finding a man that is interested in me for more than just sex.

I am one. I would never hold anything against someone that wasn't they're fault and would never break up with a person, just to go back to a old fling. Definilty looking for more than just sex. Consider myself to be a very honest person.

then maybe you and i should chat??????

goood guys(i wont say gentlemen as a gentleman nver calls himself a gentlemen) are frustrated whith theese flakey types as it makes women find us hard to trust blody anoying

One thing I've learned -- everybody is different, and just because the last 94 dumped all over me, it doesn't mean the 95th one will. Everybody has to be seen as a new person, a new individual, a new start. That's NOT always easy -- and sometimes the old residue will creep through, if only briefly, in moments of doubt and uncertainty. It's a bit of a struggle sometimes, actually, but I think reality demands that each person has to be allowed to be judged on her own merits, her own actions, not those of a string of ghosts.



I had issues with one particular ex, one particular person I had a hard time getting over -- getting past. But I've discovered she's not "the one" either.



I hate that expression -- to me, it sounds like something cereal does in a box during shipment.

I will never "settle down" in the get-married-start-a-family way. No interest in any of that whatsoever. A long-term scenario with one person? That I could do.



Yup. Brains, creativity, communications skills, a sense of humor. Sex is great but it's not enough to retain my interest for long if there's nothing more.



Normal? Hardly.

But maybe there is still someone out there who can cope with outside-the-box....

meh i feel this way about you women... how many out there won't throw your heart out in the air then let it crash down anywhere :\

i dated/am dating an older women (may-december relationship; her 34, me 18) I repeatedly asked her not to lead me on and that i was the real deal and so did she and everything was/is still there. just at times, her insecurities screw her over and i'm still willing, just she isn't i guess :\

now here i am, heart ache is a *****...

Sorry you've had such a rough time.

I think your rhetorical applies to a very limited sampling of my brethren. I've been around this site long enough to know that not many of the dudes here could be categorized as such slovenly malcontents.

Time to Mingle ...

i got an idea, i will give every single one of you a chance!!!!! sound fair?

1. I don't hold anything against future women I might happen to encounter.

2. I'll never take my ex back (I got a nice boat in the trade)

3. Settled down with my kids (but they allways want to get up and do something)

4. I would like more sex (well it's better than none)

5. I'm honest (not crossing fingers behind back)

6. Depends on what your def of "normal" is

All at once? Or one-by-one?

KIDDING BABY .... I'm only here to terrorize.