Those of you that have been married or plan on getting married... when you take those vows " for better or for worse" ... how much of the "worse" will you put up with before you call it quits?

do not know.

Just to say "I do" again would be the worse for me!!!

for me? --> anything, EXCEPT physical abuse, emotional abuse, spiritual abuse,substance abuse...

Yeah, I tried to deal with this with #2, but ain't happening again. God doesn't want us injured or miserable.

CHEATING

I'm not gonna admit what I put up with in order to keep those vows intact...suffice it to say that he is dead now & I don't have to worry about it anymore...

well he would not work...drank all the time..a self centered a$$...and just when I was about to ask for the divorce...he got into a wreck and broke his neck....he was paralyzed from his neck down...he did however get some use of himself as the months rolled on...I did not divorce him until 8 years after the wreck..I had all I could take...he became verbally abusive

geeze i have been there. i should had called it quits before we even got married for we didnt even celebrate our first annerversay together... i kicked him out of the house 4 differnt times and the 4th was the last.. and how much of the worse (i would think cheating counted).. i put up with his crap for 2yrs before we got married. he cheated before during and after.. i guess i would say at the time i was just to blind to see...(when my family and friends told me prior) have been divorced 20yrs. he remarried about 16yrs ago and his wife can put up with his crap.

while we were separated he got together with this one lady and they had a child together. and he cheated on her with his 2nd wife.. he told her when he met her that we were already divorced, which we were not. he lied to her.. he told her that i burned his clothes. that wasent true. he also told her that he threw me down the stairs..THAT NEVER HAPPEN!!!! that was ONE!! BIG LIE!!!

he wasent abusive.. he just had a ego that he thought he was gods gift to woman. and couldnt keep his dang freaken pants up

Ditto that is my limit.........you go there your gone....

I put up with a lot of "worse," but when it came to her using illegal drugs on weekend visits to her mother's house, that was the limit.

i also put up with the illegal drug from the ex hubby. that was way before we even got married. and i gave him a choice me or the drug. and he put that down.. but you know i still think he may had been using without me really knowing... i wouldnt put it past him now. but then who knows(he had a wonderful mom...NOTT!!) she smoked and sold the stuff)

I have two sugars in my coffee and one in my tea, if that b1tch ever dares get it around the wrong way she is OUT!

oh Dan... that just doesn't surprise me with you. ANYONE else... but not you

There are some things i just cannot tolerate! haha

Damn, girl...remind me to never p!ss you off.

Cheating, abuse of any kind and it's over and done with darlin.

It has been my experience that term has no meaning anymore!

Ain't that the truth.