For me....

The better and worse is a war of attrition.....

I am 40 and have never married.
But, there is one woman out there that I would marry. (never thought I would say that sh*t)

For her....the battle is time and distance...the time is rediculous..the distance is half the planet (not an exageration)

but, it is what is right...in my soul...

No one ever said that love is easy. From my experience...it is tough as Hell. But, without a taste of Hell..I couldn't know what Heaven tastes like.

There is no "Better" without "or for worse"

When you can just know an honest love....it is worth it.

Well said and so true

Thanks Jill...

Just missing my woman tonight..thanks for letting me vent that...

Reminds me of a quote from the movie "Shadowlands" with Anthony Hopkins playing C.S. Lewis. The quote is....


"The pain now is part of the happiness then. That's the deal"

Lewis

I'm sorry

It is okay honey....nothing to feel blue about....don't really matter that she is a 25 hour flight away...

What matters is the love....sure, I miss her...but sacrafice for the ones you love comes with the territory. For me...it is the ONE...I will endure what I gotta ....just for one more minute in my arms.

I miss my man and he's only an hour away. I can't imagine what you're going thru. I hope it continues to work out for you.

i dont plan on marrage untill i can mentaly get along with ppl.

when i can do that i'll c how much i can take.

Yes, that would be a good start