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Topic: Is it bad...
redhead44613 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 12976	Thu 05/28/09 03:13 PM
when you can't wait to have a baby that you think bout buying a doll to make up for not having one? Its crazy there are now 8 people I know having a kid... it seems like I'm the only one not having a kid. I know its a lot of work, I am ready for it. It just sucks cause I'm not sure if I can even get pregnant.

ledi180 Joined Sun 04/15/07 Posts: 5910	Thu 05/28/09 03:14 PM
Get a puppy

agbbieannie Joined Thu 02/21/08 Posts: 942	Thu 05/28/09 03:15 PM
Get a pet its cheaper and easier to care for.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Thu 05/28/09 03:15 PM
I'd say adopt but Angelina Jolie has that market cornered

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Thu 05/28/09 03:15 PM
You may think you're ready for a kid, but you're not. Nobody ever is.

redhead44613 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 12976	Thu 05/28/09 03:16 PM
We plan on getting a kitten soon.

MeChrissy2 Joined Sat 12/13/08 Posts: 10155	Thu 05/28/09 03:16 PM
Red, all children should be raised in a loving, stable environment. Just wanting isn't enough of a reason to have one. Your time will come but don't do it just because you want to.

redhead44613 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 12976	Thu 05/28/09 03:17 PM
You may think you're ready for a kid, but you're not. Nobody ever is. I know I'm ready, I watched my nieces over the summer, 3 of them by myself for bout 8hours. they are 4,2 an 2months. I think I can handle it.

gayfifer Joined Sat 04/04/09 Posts: 6655	Thu 05/28/09 03:17 PM
animals are not replacement children, if u can't have kids tuff go get a teddy!

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Thu 05/28/09 03:19 PM
Get an ipod. or a Wii... or a ps3... anything... but leave the babymaking till life is more stable...your economy sucks...life is tough enough without having to raise a child when you are so young. baysit your friends babies.... just because everyone you know has their left ear cut off, do you have to do it too?

Mikey117 Joined Mon 11/20/06 Posts: 23736	Thu 05/28/09 03:19 PM
Try vollentering as a big sister, big dividends with very little investment and it would give ya a world of satisfaction!!

moonlight_ride62 Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 4414	Thu 05/28/09 03:20 PM
heck you can have a couple of mine...that will stop the wanting...

EZ4Sheezy Joined Tue 01/20/09 Posts: 4694	Thu 05/28/09 03:21 PM
We plan on getting a kitten soon. Kittens don't count. Sure you can show them all the love and affection you might wanna show your baby. But once they're a year old, they're completely independent animals aside from feeding them.

SimplyElla Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 7124	Thu 05/28/09 03:21 PM
Well you seem to be in a loving relationship now with your mate.. why not have one if you so desire it? I mean as long as you both are ready - so to speak no one is really ever"ready for kids" but you know what I mean! Ha ha. Plus just because everyone else is doing it doesn't mean you have to too! I know you know that! You are young and healthy and beautiful and have everything ahead of you and in your grasp... Look and see what you want and go for it... If you can't get pregnant, well then you can't. There are other means to having children. Plus you don't know for sure so don't give up!! Puppies work too... or a kitten, fish, rabbit (got two), the list is endless. He he

Jim519 Joined Thu 12/27/07 Posts: 9203	Thu 05/28/09 03:21 PM
You may think you're ready for a kid, but you're not. Nobody ever is. I know I'm ready, I watched my nieces over the summer, 3 of them by myself for bout 8hours. they are 4,2 an 2months. I think I can handle it. 8 hours and your ready? Try 24/7. I am sure they were healthy during that 8 hours? It's not a piece of cake, it is a life changing experience. Dont rush it

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Thu 05/28/09 03:21 PM
You may think you're ready for a kid, but you're not. Nobody ever is. I know I'm ready, I watched my nieces over the summer, 3 of them by myself for bout 8hours. they are 4,2 an 2months. I think I can handle it. 8 hours is not a lifetime... until you truly understand that having a child is agreeing to have your heart walk around outside of your body for the rest of your life.... get an ipod.

gayfifer Joined Sat 04/04/09 Posts: 6655	Thu 05/28/09 03:22 PM
Well you seem to be in a loving relationship now with your mate.. why not have one if you so desire it? I mean as long as you both are ready - so to speak no one is really ever"ready for kids" but you know what I mean! Ha ha. Plus just because everyone else is doing it doesn't mean you have to too! I know you know that! You are young and healthy and beautiful and have everything ahead of you and in your grasp... Look and see what you want and go for it... If you can't get pregnant, well then you can't. There are other means to having children. Plus you don't know for sure so don't give up!! Puppies work too... or a kitten, fish, rabbit (got two), the list is endless. He he

wannacuddlewthme Joined Tue 11/11/08 Posts: 7110	Thu 05/28/09 03:22 PM
Enjoy your life have fun...Volunteer to babysit your friends youngins .... Life as a parent is just that....You time comes when they are 18

SimplyElla Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 7124	Thu 05/28/09 03:22 PM
You may think you're ready for a kid, but you're not. Nobody ever is. I know I'm ready, I watched my nieces over the summer, 3 of them by myself for bout 8hours. they are 4,2 an 2months. I think I can handle it. Try having them for a week or more straight 24/7... 8 hours is nothing... When you have them you have them for life.. ha ha.. You know that silly...

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Thu 05/28/09 03:23 PM
You may think you're ready for a kid, but you're not. Nobody ever is. I know I'm ready, I watched my nieces over the summer, 3 of them by myself for bout 8hours. they are 4,2 an 2months. I think I can handle it. It takes a lot more that 8 hrs to know if you're ready.. I thought I was ready and 20 and I did.. It's taken far far longer to finish my degree.. They come first, not you and what you want... I did what I needed to and it worked out b/c I was willing to bust my azz, but it's hard, it's not easy and the younger you are the more stressful it is b/c life's experiences are less.. Wait, do things you want to do, find yourself, finish your degree, find a man you want to spend your life with and then think about it...