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Well you seem to be in a loving relationship now with your mate.. why not have one if you so desire it? I mean as long as you both are ready - so to speak no one is really ever"ready for kids" but you know what I mean! Ha ha. Plus just because everyone else is doing it doesn't mean you have to too! I know you know that! You are young and healthy and beautiful and have everything ahead of you and in your grasp... Look and see what you want and go for it... If you can't get pregnant, well then you can't. There are other means to having children. Plus you don't know for sure so don't give up!!   Puppies work too... or a kitten, fish, rabbit (got two), the list is endless. He he  wth what is with you? i thought what i said was good..  
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NONONO no puppies as kid replacements
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I would love to babysit my friends kids..but I'm in NJ an they are in OH. I don't have friends out here yet.
I know we wanna wait till we have the money an get married, I know just because everyone else is having one I shouldn't.. but I have been waiting kids for a long long time now. They just make it worse. An yes Jim they were sick, I babysat them 5 days a week. Had throw up all over me, I got sick... yeah was not fun but I loved every min of it! I love my nieces a lot. I know we are ready mental just not money wise yet. an the way things seem.. it will be years before we have a kid. *sign* Thanks Ella means a lot to me to hear some very kind words. 
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NONONO no puppies as kid replacements I meant it as something to fill the void she has with being childish for now.. She is so cute and young and has a lot to offer the world still.. she doens't need to bring her self down about having no children yet.. Pets are great things to have.. and they aren't replacements but the fill voids for many many people.. that is what I meant by it.. |
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Red, I was 23 and married when I had my first daughter....and unless you are both financially stable, right now may not be the best time. You are only in this relationship a short time and if things don't work out you will be on your own with a baby to take care of, and it isn't easy.
Please think long and hard about it, a baby will look to you for everything and you need to KNOW you are ready. Asking us if you should, means you may not be ready.
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News Flash you worry about your kids forever. Baby sitting and having a baby are 2 different things. Way different. Once you are a parent its a life time. Yes life time commitment. Diapaers to college degree to marraige to grand kids. Get a pet. |
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I found the man I want to marry, we are so happy together. If I wanted to finish my degree it will take 10+ years. I really don't wanna be having kids at 32.. plus Randy is 10 years older then I am, so if we waited he would be 42 by the time we have kids.. I do want him there to help me raise our kids, an not some old man.
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NONONO no puppies as kid replacements I meant it as something to fill the void she has with being childish for now.. She is so cute and young and has a lot to offer the world still.. she doens't need to bring her self down about having no children yet.. Pets are great things to have.. and they aren't replacements but the fill voids for many many people.. that is what I meant by it.. ok but she's not havin a puppy else i'll stamp my feet an hav a tantrum 
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42 is not old!! My Dad was 40 when I was born, and we did everything any of my friends younger fathers did with them.
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I found the man I want to marry, we are so happy together. If I wanted to finish my degree it will take 10+ years. I really don't wanna be having kids at 32.. plus Randy is 10 years older then I am, so if we waited he would be 42 by the time we have kids.. I do want him there to help me raise our kids, an not some old man. Why the rush? |
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Red, I was 23 and married when I had my first daughter....and unless you are both financially stable, right now may not be the best time. You are only in this relationship a short time and if things don't work out you will be on your own with a baby to take care of, and it isn't easy. Please think long and hard about it, a baby will look to you for everything and you need to KNOW you are ready. Asking us if you should, means you may not be ready. |
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I would love to babysit my friends kids..but I'm in NJ an they are in OH. I don't have friends out here yet. I know we wanna wait till we have the money an get married, I know just because everyone else is having one I shouldn't.. but I have been waiting kids for a long long time now. They just make it worse. An yes Jim they were sick, I babysat them 5 days a week. Had throw up all over me, I got sick... yeah was not fun but I loved every min of it! I love my nieces a lot. I know we are ready mental just not money wise yet. an the way things seem.. it will be years before we have a kid. *sign* Thanks Ella means a lot to me to hear some very kind words. Then you are being smart waiting because it is best for you two right now ot seems. You don't want to jump gun or rush things. You are going about it just fine. Just think for now you can be that cool auntie that gets to do all the fun things with kids when you can and you will be surrounded by others and their children. Enjoy that for now. He hee. |
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Doll Doll Doll i vote Doll yup u go get one gal (i miss my doll - tippy tumbles)
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Once again... can't see my neice because they live in Ohio.
Here is the thing.. the men in his family don't make it past 60. I want him there to see his kids grow up an having kids of there own. |
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Doll Doll Doll i vote Doll yup u go get one gal (i miss my doll - tippy tumbles) |
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I'm glad I will never have this problem...and you lot should be glad too.
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Sure go ahead have a kid, have two or three, have seven or eight, might as well everyone else is doing it. Don't bother to get married. Nobody does that anymore. Better yet have several with several different fathers, won't that be fun. Don't bother getting a job either or getting an education, let someone else support them. Ship them off to grandmas every chance you get. Put em in daycare. Might as well everyone else is doing it.
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Sure go ahead have a kid, have two or three, have seven or eight, might as well everyone else is doing it. Don't bother to get married. Nobody does that anymore. Better yet have several with several different fathers, won't that be fun. Don't bother getting a job either or getting an education, let someone else support them. Ship them off to grandmas every chance you get. Put em in daycare. Might as well everyone else is doing it. |
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Doll Doll Doll i vote Doll yup u go get one gal (i miss my doll - tippy tumbles) I am not being mean. U asked about doll so i say yes its a good idea. I don't like ppl gettin puppies coz when the kid does eventually come along its no more doggy thats all
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Sure go ahead have a kid, have two or three, have seven or eight, might as well everyone else is doing it. Don't bother to get married. Nobody does that anymore. Better yet have several with several different fathers, won't that be fun. Don't bother getting a job either or getting an education, let someone else support them. Ship them off to grandmas every chance you get. Put em in daycare. Might as well everyone else is doing it. Bravo!!!!!! 
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