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I'm sorry I don't follow. What is the work program? How does placing man in jail bring her financial relief and reduce his debt? Does the state pay her for his incarceration? Keep in mind - financial assistance was not used by woman/child. While in prison the subject is charged a certain amount for each day they are incarcerated. (Three hots and a Cot lets say $60/day) While in Prison subject joins a work program(oft times cleaning the highway at lets say $10/hr for 12 hours 6 days a week) $720 /week then after deductions it comes out to $300/week in support repayment. at $15600 per year the subject spends 40 months incarcerated and repays debt. |
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meh... this subject got me fired up a little. I'm sorry, not my intent 
Nothing to apologize for... Dead Beats erk my nerves... |
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well the govt is slow that is for sure but i am not sure she can stop it best thing i could suggest if she wants to would be to go to the district attorney and ask how to stop it or even the attorney general of the state the order is based in thanks 
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I'm sorry I don't follow. What is the work program? How does placing man in jail bring her financial relief and reduce his debt? Does the state pay her for his incarceration? Keep in mind - financial assistance was not used by woman/child. While in prison the subject is charged a certain amount for each day they are incarcerated. (Three hots and a Cot lets say $60/day) While in Prison subject joins a work program(oft times cleaning the highway at lets say $10/hr for 12 hours 6 days a week) $720 /week then after deductions it comes out to $300/week in support repayment. at $15600 per year the subject spends 40 months incarcerated and repays debt. ahh now it makes sense - thanks woman is paid by govt a portion of his earnings while incarcerated. thanks |
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SCENARIO: Man and woman have child, get married, get divorced. (simple right) Woman and man go to court and settle on X amt to be paid by man per pay period. Man pays for less than a year. (ya still with me) It's partially your fault. You tolerated it, and your kid probably suffered because of it. Yes, he still owes. |
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SCENARIO: Man and woman have child, get married, get divorced. (simple right) Woman and man go to court and settle on X amt to be paid by man per pay period. Man pays for less than a year. (ya still with me) It's partially your fault. You tolerated it, and your kid probably suffered because of it. Yes, he still owes.  You are too much
please explain to me how it's partially my fault???
Scenario - is not mine see what happens when one assumes but it's ok  good try 
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i pay 500 a month. its my kid no problem. my problem is this scenario..... woman cheats, woman was granted custodial parent, man still pays 500 a month
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i pay 500 a month. its my kid no problem. my problem is this scenario..... woman cheats, woman was granted custodial parent, man still pays 500 a month scenario does suck, I'm sorry, she cheated, not cool by any means. but thought you were ok with paying child support? Does her cheating make you less apt to pay? |
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i pay 500 a month. its my kid no problem. my problem is this scenario..... woman cheats, woman was granted custodial parent, man still pays 500 a month scenario does suck, I'm sorry, she cheated, not cool by any means. but thought you were ok with paying child support? Does her cheating make you less apt to pay?
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i pay 500 a month. its my kid no problem. my problem is this scenario..... woman cheats, woman was granted custodial parent, man still pays 500 a month scenario does suck, I'm sorry, she cheated, not cool by any means. but thought you were ok with paying child support? Does her cheating make you less apt to pay?
Have heard and learned of horror stories regarding the family court system. Can't comment as she was awarded primary custody, but you can always take her back to court and fight for custody - not sure how it would affect your child(ren). |
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Edited by
lilith401
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Thu 05/28/09 10:43 AM
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Here is my opinion.
Child support is court ordered. No one can forgive the debt, other than the court. If he's not paying it, go ahead and send him to prison. He's not paying anyhow, what's the difference? Child support is not about the ex, it is about the child. Infidelity is not a reason for divorce in most states, nor is it a reason why a parent should not get custody. IMO |
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My father split b4 i was born.Never met him or recieved a dime.Are you telling me I have monies owed? I think you are past statue to limitations and possibly not included under new laws. (Also, it would be owed to your mother.) |
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Here is my opinion. Child support is court ordered. No one can forgive the debt, other than the court. If he's not paying it, go ahead and send him to prison. He's not paying anyhow, what's the difference? Child support is not about the ex, it is about the child. Infidelity is not a reason for divorce in most states, nor is it a reason why a parent should not get custody. IMO hey sunshine. Agreed debt is owed, but if woman decides not to seek monies does the court on their own seek arrears? |
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Oh yes.
It is a felony, and folks are prosecuted in Ohio for this all the time. There is a sign here in the county I work in.... it is filled with photos and under each it says their name and how much they owe, and when the warrant was issued. It is a court order. The courts will persue it. There aer the occassional prosecutors who will call the parent and ask, and let it go if they don't cooperate. But why anyone would forgive the debt is beyond me, as they have no right to do so. |
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Here is my opinion. Child support is court ordered. No one can forgive the debt, other than the court. If he's not paying it, go ahead and send him to prison. He's not paying anyhow, what's the difference? Child support is not about the ex, it is about the child. Infidelity is not a reason for divorce in most states, nor is it a reason why a parent should not get custody. IMO hey sunshine. Agreed debt is owed, but if woman decides not to seek monies does the court on their own seek arrears? ive got a co worker that paid til his son was 30 because of arrears. he owed it and paid it.he didnt work for like 10 yrs so they waited.....LOL |
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My father split b4 i was born.Never met him or recieved a dime.Are you telling me I have monies owed? I think you are past statue to limitations and possibly not included under new laws. (Also, it would be owed to your mother.)
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Here is my opinion. Child support is court ordered. No one can forgive the debt, other than the court. If he's not paying it, go ahead and send him to prison. He's not paying anyhow, what's the difference? Child support is not about the ex, it is about the child. Infidelity is not a reason for divorce in most states, nor is it a reason why a parent should not get custody. IMO that was what the state lawyer (New Mexico) told my ex. that the money was to compensate her for the time and money she provided under hardship to cover his missing half they suspended his drivers license and put liens against everything he owned. he couldn't buy or sell anything without the state taking the money |
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It's funny to me when "scenarios" like this get written out, or even spoken about....the sterotypical assumption that it's going to be the man (father) who pays.
It's as bad as watching cop shows, and the the cops are always trying to "get the guy who (insert crime here)". |
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Edited by
quiet_2008
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Thu 05/28/09 11:42 AM
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It's funny to me when "scenarios" like this get written out, or even spoken about....the sterotypical assumption that it's going to be the man (father) who pays. It's as bad as watching cop shows, and the the cops are always trying to "get the guy who (insert crime here)". well, in me ex's case. she raised three kids in diapers (one with Down Syndrome), worked 40 hrs a week, AND carried a full load in college to get a degree and everytime the court ordered him to pay child support he quit his job and moved so they couldn't find him or garnish his wages |
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Edited by
LordCole
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Thu 05/28/09 11:44 AM
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It's funny to me when "scenarios" like this get written out, or even spoken about....the sterotypical assumption that it's going to be the man (father) who pays. It's as bad as watching cop shows, and the the cops are always trying to "get the guy who (insert crime here)". It, in fact not funny, but the facts are that it is MOSTLY men that are doing this anyway. Not being stereotypical... just typical. This can easily apply to Dead Beat Mothers as well... just so happens that there are fewer of those from what I see. |
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