Topic: Good guys Finish Last
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Sat 05/23/09 04:49 PM
i get the same thing my man.i think these women just come on here to feel better about themselves and see how many of us men try and talk to them.maybe us nice guys are better off being monks

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Sat 05/23/09 04:51 PM

i get the same thing my man.i think these women just come on here to feel better about themselves and see how many of us men try and talk to them.maybe us nice guys are better off being monks


DANG! The secret is out now! HOW did you figure it out??????

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Sat 05/23/09 04:51 PM

I have checked out hundreds of profiles of ladies all over the place and they all say they want a good guy to treat them right, well I am a good guy and when I send them a message I get nothing back. I don't understand why people don't put on here what they want. If they want a bad boy say it, I treat people how I want to be treated with respect and I answer all my emails. My question is why is it that us good guys are still struggling to get a chance?



Bottom line here dude,,,
This venue is just like any other, the women can pick and choose. The numbers most likely are way out of proportion (men to women) and they most likely get hit on constantly by the guys since guys are a little more brazen. Have patience and relax. Maybe take the time to read through their profile completely just in case you miss something that they don't care for. Maybe just relax and let them come to you even. If you're emailing away like crazy, odds are they talk to each other and it may come across as desperate if you email a group (in the same area).
Above all (no harm meant), this is not the only dating site...

nurjoyce's photo
Sat 05/23/09 04:51 PM
just because you want a good guy does not mean that you will be attracted to every good--- there are other factors

auburngirl's photo
Sat 05/23/09 04:52 PM

i get the same thing my man.i think these women just come on here to feel better about themselves and see how many of us men try and talk to them.maybe us nice guys are better off being monks


And you know this by THREE posts, not counting the one you just put on here?? :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

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Sat 05/23/09 04:52 PM
Edited by Mr_Music on Sat 05/23/09 04:53 PM


i get the same thing my man.i think these women just come on here to feel better about themselves and see how many of us men try and talk to them.maybe us nice guys are better off being monks


DANG! The secret is out now! HOW did you figure it out??????


And after only 4 whole posts! Damn, he's GOOD!

*EDIT* Great minds, huh, Connie?
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Sat 05/23/09 04:54 PM
Apparently! :laughing: :laughing:

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Sat 05/23/09 04:54 PM

i get the same thing my man.i think these women just come on here to feel better about themselves and see how many of us men try and talk to them.maybe us nice guys are better off being monks




I like it when the competition thins.

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Sat 05/23/09 04:59 PM

just because you want a good guy does not mean that you will be attracted to every good--- there are other factors



-gets pen and paper-
Well?

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Sat 05/23/09 05:04 PM
MH67456, Do you know anyone that fits the description of being good AND bad at the same time?

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Sat 05/23/09 05:04 PM

MH67456, Do you know anyone that fits the description of being good AND bad at the same time?


I do.devil :angel:

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Sat 05/23/09 05:06 PM


MH67456, Do you know anyone that fits the description of being good AND bad at the same time?


I do.devil :angel:





:laughing:

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Sat 05/23/09 05:17 PM

i get the same thing my man.i think these women just come on here to feel better about themselves and see how many of us men try and talk to them.maybe us nice guys are better off being monks


huh huh huh huh
so you're assuming that we don't feel good about ourselves in general AND that we don't get hit on outside of here??? huh.... does your box have windows???

auburngirl's photo
Sat 05/23/09 05:26 PM

MH67456, Do you know anyone that fits the description of being good AND bad at the same time?


I DO!!!! love pitchfork

auburngirl's photo
Sat 05/23/09 05:27 PM
Shoot Chrissy you beat me to it!!! :laughing:

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Sat 05/23/09 06:26 PM


I started this post because society looks at your appearance and if you aren't perfect then you are kicked to the curb.

I can't believe I came under attack for my beliefs......


Perfect is very subjective to many people. Who I find to be hot and sexy may not be of any interest to my fellow girlie friends on Mingle. winking

It seems every woman thinks Hugh Jackman and Russell Crowe are the hottest guys in hollywood and I think they are FUGLY! slaphead tongue2

On my side of the sexual meter, Marilyn Manson, Josh Todd (Buck Cherry), and James Michael (Sixx A.M.) are amazingly hot, gorgeous and ooooh so purrrfect! smitten I know not many women will agree with me.

My point is .... what is hot? Depends on who you ask.

You just have to meet someone who thinks you are the cat's meow and don't worry about anyone else! waving :thumbsup:

As far as feeling attacked? This is a public forum in which you chose to vent. No one is attacking you but we are offering our opinions and advice as freely as you are replying. flowerforyou


I concur. I am not attracted to the typical hottie, either. A "nice guy" is a given, but that cant' be the extent of someone's personality. I value intelligence and wit above nearly anything else. I LOVE NERDS! And if someone can make me laugh on a regular basis, I'm a total goner.


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Sat 05/23/09 06:32 PM
As I fall deeper into this hole, I'm beginning to think that nice guys are always last. After your heart gets ripped out by the one you loved, it should be no surprise that I become heartless living in shadows of my own room.

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Sat 05/23/09 06:33 PM
Good Guys finish last because Bad Guys finish first. At least that's what the girls say. devil

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Sat 05/23/09 06:34 PM
Seriously? noway

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Sat 05/23/09 06:35 PM
BEEP BEEP BEEP BEEP We interupt this whine tirade to inform u there's still 20 hours to go on the whine free thread zoneshades