Success.

That's just it though. You do sound bitter. And whiny. Take a look at the types of emails you're sending and see if there's something you can change.

Oh, GOODIE!!!!! A "nice guy" thread!!! We haven't had one of those for, oh, about 3 minutes now!!

Hi and welcome to Mingle!

You are missing the other half of the equation though. You might not be their 'type'.

I know it's nice to get a reply back -- even for them to say "Thanks but no thanks" -- but the reality is not on our side for those types of replies. I tried this method when I first joined; however, over half of the 'gentlemen' wrote back and said I was a b*tch because I was not interested. I have since stopped replying because I don't care to get abused for being polite -- saying "Thank you and good luck" -- only because I was not attracted to the person.

I believe a majority of people on dating sites do play games, but the gems, the small percentage of people who are sincere, will emerge if you stay true to yourself and use common sense.

As AuburnGirl said, not all women want bad boys. In fairness, using the term 'good guys' and bad guys' is not accurate anyway. Blanket statements in general are not a good idea in any surrounding.

The entire process boils down to immediate attraction first (in most cases) and the emotional connection second. If both elements are present then the entire package becomes irresistible!

Be patient, don't play the bitter card, and just relax.


Enjoy yourself!

Rump roast

Yeah, what she said.

Maybe your parents raised you wrong.

Maybe your parents raised you wrong.



how could my parents raise me wrong to respect and take care of the people you love?? That is what I try to instill in my daughter. didn't your parents teach you to treat people like you want to be treated?

You said it yourself. "It isn't working'

working or not, treating people right is how I was raised, I was raised if a friend needed help you jumped in and did it, maybe there isn't enough people around that are raised right anymore.

If you grow up as a nazi, is it right to kill jews?


What if the nazis won world war II? How would you act and how would your parents raise you?

You need to think outside the box.

What if the nazis won world war II? How would you act and how would your parents raise you?



My parents still would have raised me to show respect to people and to treat them properly, society has changed to where people like you argue the fact that treating people with respect isn't right. If you see someone that needs help do you help them or expect someone else to do it?? That question has nothing to do with society that has to do with who you are inside. I personally stop and help people if I can....Do You??

also dont confuse being a good guy with being a sucker

While you argue about treating people with respect, you completely miss the point of the critical thinking exercise. I see you don't want my help and would just like to complain about how unfair the world is. It will be my honor to let you continue down your own little road of success.

you completely miss the point of the critical thinking exercise. I see you don't want my help and would just like to complain about how unfair the world is.

I am arguing the fact that you said being who I am isn't working, I can't change who I am. You mentioned if the nazi's would have won the war that still wouldn't change who or what I am. I think the world has gotten bitter toward good natured people and now nobody cares.

Oh please. Yes you can.

It's not about good guys or bad guys, and that goes for the women to.

It's about attraction. Now mind you, i know that not everyone is looking for somone there really attracted to. Although, there has to be some kind of attraction when you might be interested in getting to know somone. When it comes to women, and this is fact of life these days. Men have it harder looking for somone then women do. Thats because there are more men that are players on the net then women and it gives the rest a bad name.

Never drink a glass a milk at the bar. Women seem to be turned off by that

So your telling me my parents were wrong to teach me to respect and care for my fellow neighbor and that I should change and not care??

everyone changes

you can either allow the changes to be random responses

or you can control the changes to become what you want to be