Unfortunately Alcoholism is a disease......if she wants help; it is out there. She needs to find out "why" she does what she does. OMG....that's terrible. Just know that what she did was NOT you! It was her issue. Good luck, that's got to have been and most likely still is painful. Cheer Up....here's some flowers for you....Bren

or they have been around the block so many times they coudn't tell you

I am sure most of us here have. That IS why we are still single

I second that

<-- been around the block, ran a few stop signs, crashed and burned.

I thought I was the only one that did that.

Bad marriage!!

2 me, trying is the best thing to do anymore..Leaving is the best thing there is..Ive tried my best to be there for someone and they never gave back..I was just recently in a relationship and that guy NEVER kept to his word bout nething..It just pissed me off and my friend saw the way he treated me. He gave me a time limit to go to my friends house to pick something up. He was always asking why I didnt answer the phone, who was at my house, what I was doin, etc., etc..It just pissed me off so we broke up.. Im just glad to be single now.