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Topic: I find myself wondering.........
AZTATTOOER96's photo
Tue 05/19/09 12:19 AM
Maybe it is just one of those nights ..... I find myself sitting here staring at the empty other side of the bed, finding nothing but a cold spot where I wonder if someone shouldn't be there. Maybe it is because it has been empty for so long. I feel kind of weird with these feelings in my head. Wondering if alone is really that bad yet yearning for someone to lay next to. Wishing I had that last call at the end of the day, that one person that I wake up thinking about and go to sleep to dream about. Is it weird for a guy to think like this? Is it normal for a man to find himself wondering why being alone had been so great and free, then all of a sudden in an instant looking around realizing that alone isn't really as great as he thought? Maybe just having that person to stare at and watch sleep next to you is what I miss. That extra arm wrapped around you at night. The breath on the back of your neck letting you know that someone is there. Wondering if that extra pillow you always end up tossing off the bed shouldn't have another person's head resting on it. Dreaming about you, holding your hopes and dreams close to them just because they care and want the best for you.

Or maybe..... just maybe.... I need some more sleep.

FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 05/19/09 12:30 AM
I used to do that...then I just made up friends in my head, and with them all I'm never alone.

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Tue 05/19/09 12:37 AM
"Enter" Loud Snoring.......scared shocked rofl

AZTATTOOER96's photo
Tue 05/19/09 12:45 AM
asleep

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Tue 05/19/09 12:58 AM
Lets not forget the loud noises in the middle of the night or you a dutch oven kind of guy??:wink: laugh

Beachfarmer's photo
Tue 05/19/09 01:02 AM
flowerforyou would never let your feet get cold

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Tue 05/19/09 01:07 AM
The more I think about it.......the more I love my blow up doll!!!noway laugh laugh laugh

ArtGurl's photo
Tue 05/19/09 01:11 AM
When I have been single I had to leave stuff piled up on half of the bed ... it just felt too big and empty otherwise.

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Tue 05/19/09 01:23 AM
There are reasons why God invented body pillows!!bigsmile

bigkeeper00's photo
Tue 05/19/09 01:42 AM
the cold spot is for when you get hot. but then again someone in that spot could be good too.

tessa68's photo
Tue 05/19/09 02:03 AM

Maybe it is just one of those nights ..... I find myself sitting here staring at the empty other side of the bed, finding nothing but a cold spot where I wonder if someone shouldn't be there. Maybe it is because it has been empty for so long. I feel kind of weird with these feelings in my head. Wondering if alone is really that bad yet yearning for someone to lay next to. Wishing I had that last call at the end of the day, that one person that I wake up thinking about and go to sleep to dream about. Is it weird for a guy to think like this? Is it normal for a man to find himself wondering why being alone had been so great and free, then all of a sudden in an instant looking around realizing that alone isn't really as great as he thought? Maybe just having that person to stare at and watch sleep next to you is what I miss. That extra arm wrapped around you at night. The breath on the back of your neck letting you know that someone is there. Wondering if that extra pillow you always end up tossing off the bed shouldn't have another person's head resting on it. Dreaming about you, holding your hopes and dreams close to them just because they care and want the best for you.

Or maybe..... just maybe.... I need some more sleep.



i feel the same waysad2 asleep

shoesmonkey's photo
Tue 05/19/09 03:23 AM
I've got my cat. She doesn't snore or, hog the bed.

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 05/19/09 03:24 AM

There are reasons why God invented body pillows!!bigsmile



:thumbsup:

galendgirl's photo
Tue 05/19/09 04:48 AM

Maybe it is just one of those nights ..... I find myself sitting here staring at the empty other side of the bed, finding nothing but a cold spot where I wonder if someone shouldn't be there. Maybe it is because it has been empty for so long. I feel kind of weird with these feelings in my head. Wondering if alone is really that bad yet yearning for someone to lay next to. Wishing I had that last call at the end of the day, that one person that I wake up thinking about and go to sleep to dream about. Is it weird for a guy to think like this? Is it normal for a man to find himself wondering why being alone had been so great and free, then all of a sudden in an instant looking around realizing that alone isn't really as great as he thought? Maybe just having that person to stare at and watch sleep next to you is what I miss. That extra arm wrapped around you at night. The breath on the back of your neck letting you know that someone is there. Wondering if that extra pillow you always end up tossing off the bed shouldn't have another person's head resting on it. Dreaming about you, holding your hopes and dreams close to them just because they care and want the best for you.

Or maybe..... just maybe.... I need some more sleep.


I doubt there's any single person who hasn't felt this way at times...
flowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou

Citizen_Joe's photo
Tue 05/19/09 05:17 AM
I can relate to that. In the past 1 1/2 years, I've only dared to sleep in my California king possibly a dozen times. It's way too much bed for one person. Usually, I'm found in my easy chair, remote in hand and the TV on, until about 7 or 8, at which point a feline friend push paws me, telling me it's time for breakfast.

mssilverfox's photo
Tue 05/19/09 05:22 AM
I think we all feel this way at times, maybe because it was fun being single and now we are getting older and don't want to be alone.....I actually LIKE having someone in my life....I miss it :cry: flowerforyou

ReddBeans's photo
Tue 05/19/09 05:59 AM
It's unreal the lil' things u miss when ur alone. I miss sharin that first cup of coffee while the house is still quietshades

LordCole's photo
Tue 05/19/09 06:13 AM
Edited by LordCole on Tue 05/19/09 06:16 AM
In a couple more years you will get used to it...

Otherwise I recommend a Giant Alaskan Malamute...

The Mute will take up the space and become your very best pal in the whole world...

You take the Mute for walks and women go gaga over giant dog... Bed gets filled... there are more details that I left out...


Puppy Mute...always the women go goofy over this puppy...



Adult Mute... Hell she will be impressed it has not eaten you yet..




metalwing's photo
Tue 05/19/09 06:16 AM
Yep. Sums it up pretty well.

auburngirl's photo
Tue 05/19/09 06:35 AM

I used to do that...then I just made up friends in my head, and with them all I'm never alone.


That, and his collection of blow up dolls. They help too.

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