Topic: Should I let him know?
MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 05/07/09 08:38 AM


:heart: My bf and I have been together for a year.:heart:We finally told each other "I love you".:heart:Now my ex is trying to contact me again by email and he is saying if I do not talk to him he will just show up at my house.:heart:Should I let my bf know that my ex is bothering me?:heart:


Now see Mirror...it's questions like this that confused me in the beginning as to your gender! Man, was I surprised...remember that? That was so funny to me, anyway.

You have a great day!drinker drinks
laugh I wrote this question to sound like something a chick would saylaugh

jedigirl's photo
Thu 05/07/09 08:38 AM
foiled again!!! drats

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 05/07/09 08:40 AM

foiled again!!! drats
:tongue: Perhaps you should change your screenname to Sithgirl:tongue:

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 05/07/09 08:44 AM

ummmmmmmmmmmmhuh I would probably also think about a protective order....have all the back-up you can. I would consider that a threat and not take it lightly. If he knows you don't want to see him and you are in a relationship...then he should be man enough to back off....if he is set on seeing you, regardless of how you feel....that spells danger.
flowerforyou

Mr_Music's photo
Thu 05/07/09 08:53 AM
Edited by Mr_Music on Thu 05/07/09 08:53 AM

:heart: My bf and I have been together for a year.:heart:We finally told each other "I love you".:heart:Now my ex is trying to contact me again by email and he is saying if I do not talk to him he will just show up at my house.:heart:Should I let my bf know that my ex is bothering me?:heart:


Is this something that really needs to be wondered about? This is a no-brainer, it ain't rocket surgery.

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 05/07/09 08:56 AM


:heart: My bf and I have been together for a year.:heart:We finally told each other "I love you".:heart:Now my ex is trying to contact me again by email and he is saying if I do not talk to him he will just show up at my house.:heart:Should I let my bf know that my ex is bothering me?:heart:


Is this something that really needs to be wondered about? This is a no-brainer, it ain't rocket surgery.
:thumbsup:

auburngirl's photo
Thu 05/07/09 08:57 AM
"Rocket Surgery"???? Is that like rocket science or brain surgery?? laugh

Mr_Music's photo
Thu 05/07/09 08:58 AM
Yes. :smile:

auburngirl's photo
Thu 05/07/09 08:58 AM
rofl

lilith401's photo
Thu 05/07/09 09:08 AM

"Rocket Surgery"???? Is that like rocket science or brain surgery?? laugh


This is AWESOME..... thanks for that!laugh

lilcupcake25's photo
Thu 05/07/09 04:46 PM
i think you should tell your bf maybe he can do something about it.:smile:

PATSFAN's photo
Thu 05/07/09 04:49 PM
smokin abuse the both of themsmokin

auburngirl's photo
Thu 05/07/09 04:54 PM
I think she should tell her boyfriend! What if he DID show up at her place as he threatened!?? I mean, he could chop her up into little tiny pieces! scared

GG2's photo
Thu 05/07/09 04:55 PM


ummmmmmmmmmmmhuh I would probably also think about a protective order....have all the back-up you can. I would consider that a threat and not take it lightly. If he knows you don't want to see him and you are in a relationship...then he should be man enough to back off....if he is set on seeing you, regardless of how you feel....that spells danger.
flowerforyou


Agreed.



Totage's photo
Thu 05/07/09 04:58 PM

:heart: My bf and I have been together for a year.:heart:We finally told each other "I love you".:heart:Now my ex is trying to contact me again by email and he is saying if I do not talk to him he will just show up at my house.:heart:Should I let my bf know that my ex is bothering me?:heart:


I would want to know something like that

no photo
Thu 05/07/09 10:19 PM


I have the same problem... My ex still hasn't gotten over me and from the start of my new relationship I let my new bf know that I do have baggage but it's not my fault. My new bf is very understanding, however; there are some guys I dated who if I would tell them I was being harassed, it would cause a butt-kicking lol

I would send a very firm e-mail to my ex in that case and tell him he is *not* welcome at your house. If you still feel like you have no control over the outcome and your man is understanding, bring the bf into the situation.

Good luck (:
flowerforyou


:banana: slaphead

unreal1's photo
Thu 05/07/09 10:47 PM
hiya

you should tell your ex your seing some one else now and you dont want any more contact with him if he carrys on tell your bf stright away

no photo
Thu 05/07/09 10:51 PM
yep but in the mean time tell your ex if he shows up at your house your gonna put a BOOT in his BEEP!:wink:

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 05/08/09 09:33 PM


:heart: My bf and I have been together for a year.:heart:We finally told each other "I love you".:heart:Now my ex is trying to contact me again by email and he is saying if I do not talk to him he will just show up at my house.:heart:Should I let my bf know that my ex is bothering me?:heart:


I would want to know something like that
bigsmile

Monier's photo
Fri 05/08/09 09:46 PM
Edited by Monier on Fri 05/08/09 09:48 PM
I don't want anybody that I'm seeing to have to deal with my baggage. I actually feel insulted when I have to deal with somebody's ex. Like why is this even happening, why am I even hearing about it why do I need to fix your situation? is how I respond to being told about an ex.

Tell the ex to get lost and tell the person you're with if you think anybody's safety is at risk. More often than not, discussing other people drives a wedge between partners.