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My bf and I have been together for a year.We finally told each other "I love you".Now my ex is trying to contact me again by email and he is saying if I do not talk to him he will just show up at my house.Should I let my bf know that my ex is bothering me? Now see Mirror...it's questions like this that confused me in the beginning as to your gender! Man, was I surprised...remember that? That was so funny to me, anyway. You have a great day! |
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foiled again!!! drats
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foiled again!!! drats |
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ummmmmmmmmmmm I would probably also think about a protective order....have all the back-up you can. I would consider that a threat and not take it lightly. If he knows you don't want to see him and you are in a relationship...then he should be man enough to back off....if he is set on seeing you, regardless of how you feel....that spells danger. |
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Edited by
Mr_Music
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Thu 05/07/09 08:53 AM
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My bf and I have been together for a year.We finally told each other "I love you".Now my ex is trying to contact me again by email and he is saying if I do not talk to him he will just show up at my house.Should I let my bf know that my ex is bothering me? Is this something that really needs to be wondered about? This is a no-brainer, it ain't rocket surgery. |
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My bf and I have been together for a year.We finally told each other "I love you".Now my ex is trying to contact me again by email and he is saying if I do not talk to him he will just show up at my house.Should I let my bf know that my ex is bothering me? Is this something that really needs to be wondered about? This is a no-brainer, it ain't rocket surgery. |
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"Rocket Surgery"???? Is that like rocket science or brain surgery??
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Yes.
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"Rocket Surgery"???? Is that like rocket science or brain surgery?? This is AWESOME..... thanks for that! |
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i think you should tell your bf maybe he can do something about it.
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abuse the both of them
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I think she should tell her boyfriend! What if he DID show up at her place as he threatened!?? I mean, he could chop her up into little tiny pieces!
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ummmmmmmmmmmm I would probably also think about a protective order....have all the back-up you can. I would consider that a threat and not take it lightly. If he knows you don't want to see him and you are in a relationship...then he should be man enough to back off....if he is set on seeing you, regardless of how you feel....that spells danger. Agreed. |
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My bf and I have been together for a year.We finally told each other "I love you".Now my ex is trying to contact me again by email and he is saying if I do not talk to him he will just show up at my house.Should I let my bf know that my ex is bothering me? I would want to know something like that |
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I have the same problem... My ex still hasn't gotten over me and from the start of my new relationship I let my new bf know that I do have baggage but it's not my fault. My new bf is very understanding, however; there are some guys I dated who if I would tell them I was being harassed, it would cause a butt-kicking lol I would send a very firm e-mail to my ex in that case and tell him he is *not* welcome at your house. If you still feel like you have no control over the outcome and your man is understanding, bring the bf into the situation. Good luck (: |
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hiya
you should tell your ex your seing some one else now and you dont want any more contact with him if he carrys on tell your bf stright away |
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yep but in the mean time tell your ex if he shows up at your house your gonna put a BOOT in his BEEP!
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My bf and I have been together for a year.We finally told each other "I love you".Now my ex is trying to contact me again by email and he is saying if I do not talk to him he will just show up at my house.Should I let my bf know that my ex is bothering me? I would want to know something like that |
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Edited by
Monier
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Fri 05/08/09 09:48 PM
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I don't want anybody that I'm seeing to have to deal with my baggage. I actually feel insulted when I have to deal with somebody's ex. Like why is this even happening, why am I even hearing about it why do I need to fix your situation? is how I respond to being told about an ex.
Tell the ex to get lost and tell the person you're with if you think anybody's safety is at risk. More often than not, discussing other people drives a wedge between partners. |
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