My bf and I have been together for a year.We finally told each other "I love you".Now my ex is trying to contact me again by email and he is saying if I do not talk to him he will just show up at my house.Should I let my bf know that my ex is bothering me?

HELL YA YOU SHOULD ITS TIME TO BE TRUE NO?

Most definitely! If ya don't then he could think there is more going back and forth between you and the ex than there is.

I have the same problem... My ex still hasn't gotten over me and from the start of my new relationship I let my new bf know that I do have baggage but it's not my fault. My new bf is very understanding, however; there are some guys I dated who if I would tell them I was being harassed, it would cause a butt-kicking lol

I would send a very firm e-mail to my ex in that case and tell him he is *not* welcome at your house. If you still feel like you have no control over the outcome and your man is understanding, bring the bf into the situation.

Good luck (:

ummmmmmmmmmmm I would probably also think about a protective order....have all the back-up you can. I would consider that a threat and not take it lightly. If he knows you don't want to see him and you are in a relationship...then he should be man enough to back off....if he is set on seeing you, regardless of how you feel....that spells danger.

short sweet and to the point very simple

I agree
Stalkers.........

You should tell him.... You shouldn't hide anything from the person you love

For sure...been there, done that...and it doesn't stop until you stand up and take care of it.

well yea dont you think its only right. for just think if your ex shows up

Now see Mirror...it's questions like this that confused me in the beginning as to your gender! Man, was I surprised...remember that? That was so funny to me, anyway.

You have a great day!

Would you expect your BF to let you know?

If the roles were reversed.

my question is ...when the hell did you go gay??

I was wondering when someone was gonna notice that.No,Im not gay.I wrote the question to sound like something a chick would say.

thats all i gotta say about that!!

WOW!! i was going to ask someone else for i was just thinking you were