maybe men are affraid of "putting themselves out there" because there are so many judgemental women be seeing you

DID YOU READ MINE AND DID YOU LAUGH..........

And for what its worth -- I just removed my "Any questions? I am an open book" And replaced it with about 5 paragraphs....I realize this isn't a "Rate my profile" community.....but that was a great idea...thanks again

I do not know why Guys do this, I also do not know why Gals do this either...
This is not a gender specific problem, to me Laziness is Mediocrity...

When posting a profile you can add in a lot of information; Likes, Dislikes and what you are looking for in a potential date, it does not mean you have to put so much up that your life is exposed.

To the OP; Keep searching, looking, chatting and browsing the forums... You will eventually find someone interesting.

I'm thinking maybe if you take the time to think about what it is you are REALLY looking for in a man, you will be able to ask the appropriate questions. If a person says, "ask me anything you want", then they are probably the kind of person that DOESN'T boast about themselves and could quite possibly be a nice and humble person.

At least that's how I look at it. It's probably not going to get you too far if the first thing you've ever posted is a ***** about men.

So youre saying I should go delete everything I just wrote?!

Chat Global, Date Local.

I was born in Escondido.

why are women so dillusional?

Why is the sky blue?

And why do women think I'm interested in their tits and tattooes? That's all I see in repitition in profiles along with looking for nice guys, knights in shining armour, and prince charmings. Let me rephrase that.....why are women so dillusional?

And why do women think I'm interested in their tits and tattooes? That's all I see in repitition in profiles along with looking for nice guys, knights in shining armour, and prince charmings. Let me rephrase that.....why are women so dillusional?

It seems the majority of the men on the dating sites don't fill out their profile info and then say "ask me anything and I will tell you" Man that bugs me.

Most women I know have a common complaint that their men don't share or talk about their feelings, hopes, dreams and goals. If you are starting out by saying "Ask Me" it's a pretty tell tale sign that later on in the relationship the women will have to ASK to get the guy to talk and share.

I am searching out someone who doesn't need to be asked - someone who wants to share ... someone who communicates without a prodding.

Why do you guys do this??? arrrggghhh.

You want my answer? I'll give you it if you run past this again lol. In my opinion since I have looked up at the sky often. And this is exactly what I'm talking about...I think the sky is blue because it has to be blue. Not because of the "color" blue itself. The color blue was modeled after the sky. See its the other way around. The question is why is the sky called blue?

Wow I can't believe no one has figured it out. It's rather simple



People say "Ask me anything and I'll tell you" because he/she can sit back and let someone else initiate a conversation. Once someone initiates a conversation, the reciever has the upperhand because he knows the initiator has to be interested in him (at least looks-wise) if she contacted him first inquiring that she wants to know more about him. The initiator does not have the luxury of knowing if the recievers likes him/her not.

For me, looks arent enough, this looking up people on the internet thing is always wierd feeling anyway, and I dont know whats in his big fat head.. I dont care WHAT they look like.. I mean many times I just see the pic, and go.. no nope eww.. nooo.. not you.. wtf was that? Dont get me wrong, he cant be freakish, but Its not the looks alone that are like... gonna get me to email. I kinda also rely on the mutual match thing.

If I have to lead the whole time, its not worth it, so that wouldnt work for me, no matter whats said, I really dont contact anyone.. I ait to see who contacts me. I have only emailed ONE SINGLE guy, and that was because he sounded hilarious with what he wrote.