I've been accused of divulging too much information as a man, so I limit myself.

life is like a jar fillrd with golf balls. is the jar filled,yes ,then you add pebbels, is the jar filled,yes, then you add sand,is the jar filled , yes, then you pour 2 cups of coffee in it. now its realy full. The golf ball are important things like GOD,family,friends, The pebbles are like house, job, bills. THE sand is the small stuff like e-mails,resentments,regrets. I know whats the coffee? don't forget to take time to enjoy 2 cups of coffee with a friend.

For me, looks arent enough, this looking up people on the internet thing is always wierd feeling anyway, and I dont know whats in his big fat head.. I dont care WHAT they look like.. I mean many times I just see the pic, and go.. no nope eww.. nooo.. not you.. wtf was that? Dont get me wrong, he cant be freakish, but Its not the looks alone that are like... gonna get me to email. I kinda also rely on the mutual match thing.

If I have to lead the whole time, its not worth it, so that wouldnt work for me, no matter whats said, I really dont contact anyone.. I ait to see who contacts me. I have only emailed ONE SINGLE guy, and that was because he sounded hilarious with what he wrote.

why are women so dillusional?

Chat Global, Date Local.

I was born in Escondido.

So youre saying I should go delete everything I just wrote?!

I'm thinking maybe if you take the time to think about what it is you are REALLY looking for in a man, you will be able to ask the appropriate questions. If a person says, "ask me anything you want", then they are probably the kind of person that DOESN'T boast about themselves and could quite possibly be a nice and humble person.

At least that's how I look at it. It's probably not going to get you too far if the first thing you've ever posted is a ***** about men.

I do not know why Guys do this, I also do not know why Gals do this either...
This is not a gender specific problem, to me Laziness is Mediocrity...

When posting a profile you can add in a lot of information; Likes, Dislikes and what you are looking for in a potential date, it does not mean you have to put so much up that your life is exposed.

To the OP; Keep searching, looking, chatting and browsing the forums... You will eventually find someone interesting.

And for what its worth -- I just removed my "Any questions? I am an open book" And replaced it with about 5 paragraphs....I realize this isn't a "Rate my profile" community.....but that was a great idea...thanks again

DID YOU READ MINE AND DID YOU LAUGH..........

maybe men are affraid of "putting themselves out there" because there are so many judgemental women be seeing you

Paisley, I've run into the same issue. The profile is meant to be an introduction, a conversation starter, a chance to see if we have anything in common. If a guy doesn't take the time to complete his profile, I don't bother with him. If he truly wants to get a date here, he'd make the effort, right? If he can't be bothered to write an attractive blurb to start some conversation, he's probably too lazy to keep up a relationship, IMO. The profile is his chance to "sell" himself; if he's not going to take the opportunity, why is he here? Makes no sense to me. This is an ONLINE dating site, so obviously communication must be in writing.

Likewise, I don't understand not adding a pic to your profile if you're seriously looking to get a date. For most of us, there has to be a physical attraction to get us interested. A guy could be the best catch on the planet, but without a photo and an introduction, we'll never know.

first welcome to the site and the forums. Here in the forums you get to know people and see what their responses are . It does tell some about each individual. . join in .. AND not all men are what you say. some of us do want that open communication.

some men are like an oyster... yeah, they are hard to open... yea there may be some mess involved... but you never know until you open one if there is a pearl inside!!

Hmm, I'm not one to put my life story out there, have you tried emailing & talking to someone that you may be interested in?

Welcome to this site

Do you communicate without prodding.

Must be nice to read minds that way.

First: Welcome to the forums. You should have a good time!

Second: Many woman's profiles say the same thing. Why? I don't know.

Thirdly: Be patient. If treasure was easy to find, it would all be gone.

Welcome & G'Luck! Crystal ball says"a world of knowledge lies beneath your fingertips if one shall seek"

Hello and welcome and ... oh wait ... this is one of those " why do guys _______!?!?!?!?!?!?"


oh well HI anyway