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Topic: Is it possible?
Purelifeman Joined Thu 04/02/09 Posts: 169	Fri 04/03/09 09:27 PM
For an attractive single female to be only friends with another attractive male without having any sexual tension?

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Fri 04/03/09 09:28 PM


ladywolf9653 Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 1012	Fri 04/03/09 09:29 PM
I think so - after all, looks alone don't make an attraction happen, even a sexual one.

MelodyGirl Joined Sun 01/25/09 Posts: 9452	Fri 04/03/09 09:34 PM Edited by MelodyGirl on Fri 04/03/09 09:37 PM
In my case, yes. I've had my best friend for 18 years!!! There is no sexual tension between us at all. His GF and I are very good friends. She took this pic I posted. He is always cool when I am dating someone. We have a super healthy relationship; no bullsh*t; no drama. I wish I could clone him though -- but into someone with whom I have chemistry. We just don't have that "WOW" between us. I think he is damn near perfect though -- personality, ambition, soul, and looks. He has all the qualities I would like in a partner for me but it's just not there for us romantically. I actually like that better though. He is the best friend anyone could have and I don't want to change that for the world.

Purelifeman Joined Thu 04/02/09 Posts: 169	Fri 04/03/09 09:39 PM
Thats great! Good friends are hard to find. I have a lot of them but I can honestly say out of all of them only 5 of them I can really count on! Hope you guys stay friends : )

4974 Joined Mon 01/19/09 Posts: 1621	Fri 04/03/09 09:40 PM
for sure....

Morena350 Joined Sat 09/30/06 Posts: 13611	Fri 04/03/09 09:50 PM
For an attractive single female to be only friends with another attractive male without having any sexual tension? yes it is possible, when priorities are strait in the friendship.

trsmith22 Joined Sat 08/02/08 Posts: 5959	Fri 04/03/09 09:50 PM
anything is possible

imsingle951 Joined Mon 12/01/08 Posts: 1984	Sat 04/04/09 05:37 AM
I truely believe so

LightVoice Joined Thu 08/09/07 Posts: 7405	Sat 04/04/09 05:40 AM
Absolutely

MeChrissy2 Joined Sat 12/13/08 Posts: 10155	Sat 04/04/09 05:41 AM
Of Course. Not everything is about sex. Well most things but not EVERYTHING.

bastet126 Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 15553	Sat 04/04/09 05:48 AM
wish i could say yes to this, but i'm leaning towards no; it's human nature. a man and woman can choose to not act on it, but i can't imagine it doesn't cross their minds

evilbabe277 Joined Thu 02/19/09 Posts: 2751	Sat 04/04/09 06:50 AM
I agree with everyone else that you can, as long as you and your friend knows where each other stand

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Sat 04/04/09 07:10 AM Edited by PATSFAN on Sat 04/04/09 07:16 AM
Been friends 20 years

elwoodsully Joined Tue 05/01/07 Posts: 7477	Sat 04/04/09 07:14 AM
Yes, I know 1000's of women that wouldn't think of having sex with me..

feistybaby Joined Fri 04/25/08 Posts: 2422	Sat 04/04/09 07:17 AM
Yes it is. I have a guy best pal that I have had for 14 years. When we started out there was chemistry but as we got to know each other we found that although we love each other that there are "deal breakers" present that would make a disaster if we tried to be more than friends. We have held each other's hands through many many bad situations and many more happy ones. He's my rock and my shoulder to cry on. I get to pre-screen his girlfriends He's my bud~

transientmind Joined Sat 03/10/07 Posts: 4827	Sat 04/04/09 07:28 AM
Yes, it's very possible, depending on the people.

ArtGurl Joined Sun 04/08/07 Posts: 17722	Sat 04/04/09 08:32 AM
Yes! Absolutely!

tombraider Joined Wed 09/12/07 Posts: 5042	Sat 04/04/09 08:52 AM
..i wouldn't know because i'm UGLY..

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76393	Sat 04/04/09 08:55 AM
Sure can my best friend is a guy and we have been friends now for 23 years and only friends.