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| Topic: If you don't have kids do you want any? | |
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but..lol the mexican part of me says...why stop at 4? keep goin and goin...  Kinda of selfish, don't you think? Kids don't ask to be brought in this world and being of a certain nationality or religion that says procreate (without concern for their welfare) is selfish.
Unfit parents, people sucking up government assistance, and the earth being tapped out in terms of natural resources is reason enough to rethink having more than one or two. What burns my butt even more is when adults -- that have kids together -- aren't balanced enough to maintain a relationship with each other and still think it's a good idea to have kids. Shouldn't mastering a relationship, understanding WHO will be the father or mother of someone's kids, or the meaning of commitment even in the worst of times MORE important than actually having a child? If a person doesn't have the skills to be in a relationship, how will they teach their kids to have the skills to be in a relationship? This is a sensitive subject. I now defer.  
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And I don't want to have them in litters, either!
 one at a time, please! One guy that I dated joked about maybe we should wish for triplets adn be done in one fell swoop. I told him that I would do the medical procedure on him with a dull knife if I had a litter.
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And I don't want to have them in litters, either! one at a time, please! One guy that I dated joked about maybe we should wish for triplets adn be done in one fell swoop. I told him that I would do the medical procedure on him with a dull knife if I had a litter.
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Yeah, but certainly not directed at anyone here. You guys didn't say it, and the one who did is VERY computer illiterate. If he can't have a talking computer like on Star Trek, he won't use one.
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Can I fall head over heals for a woman that has children of her own? YES. youll regret that when you come to cross that bridge my friend...lol    
at least someone loves an old lady with a kid, thank u peccy 
I love you too!
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Can I fall head over heals for a woman that has children of her own? YES. youll regret that when you come to cross that bridge my friend...lol
at least someone loves an old lady with a kid, thank u peccy
wake up call....they all play nice at first,... once they get what they want, they follow up telling you that typee of lifestyle isnt for them...sorry for blowing the whistle on you gentlemen....  
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but..lol the mexican part of me says...why stop at 4? keep goin and goin... Kinda of selfish, don't you think? Kids don't ask to be brought in this world and being of a certain nationality or religion that says procreate (without concern for their welfare) is selfish.
Unfit parents, people sucking up government assistance, and the earth being tapped out in terms of natural resources is reason enough to rethink having more than one or two. What burns my butt even more is when adults -- that have kids together -- aren't balanced enough to maintain a relationship with each other and still think it's a good idea to have kids. Shouldn't mastering a relationship, understanding WHO will be the father or mother of someone's kids, or the meaning of commitment even in the worst of times MORE important than actually having a child? If a person doesn't have the skills to be in a relationship, how will they teach their kids to have the skills to be in a relationship? This is a sensitive subject. I now defer.
Very cool! You have to add smileys so we know you are joking! It's hard to discern the tone of one's writing!
Thank you for being kind in your reply to me. I really put myself out there .... 
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Hummm nope no more mine are already grown and can't have any more there is no way I would start back over. So all the rest that want them have at it I will stay with just practicing how to have them
  
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Can I fall head over heals for a woman that has children of her own? YES. youll regret that when you come to cross that bridge my friend...lol
at least someone loves an old lady with a kid, thank u peccy
wake up call....they all play nice at first,... once they get what they want, they follow up telling you that typee of lifestyle isnt for them...sorry for blowing the whistle on you gentlemen....
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 I'm done. Grandkids will be nice but no rush.
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Can I fall head over heals for a woman that has children of her own? YES. youll regret that when you come to cross that bridge my friend...lol
at least someone loves an old lady with a kid, thank u peccy
wake up call....they all play nice at first,... once they get what they want, they follow up telling you that typee of lifestyle isnt for them...sorry for blowing the whistle on you gentlemen....
No, Peccy.. He's saying that the GUY is the one that's out for the cookies, not the woman. |
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True there were some that had the IQ of a houseplant, I simply didn't date them any longer,
your honor, the defense rests.... 
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Edited by
Peccy
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Fri 03/27/09 03:11 PM
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True there were some that had the IQ of a houseplant, I simply didn't date them any longer,
your honor, the defense rests....
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True there were some that had the IQ of a houseplant, I simply didn't date them any longer,
your honor, the defense rests....
all in good fun my good man...lol no harm done.. |
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Edited by
trgirl
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Fri 03/27/09 04:17 PM
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Can I fall head over heals for a woman that has children of her own? YES. youll regret that when you come to cross that bridge my friend...lol
at least someone loves an old lady with a kid, thank u peccy
I love you too!
thank you 2 melody, i knew my good mingle friends would stand up for me!!!
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Edited by
mark77
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Fri 03/27/09 05:53 PM
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I'm done. Grandkids will be nice but no rush.
I have two sons, two step sons, one grandson and two more grandchildren on the way. 
It is way better to have the grandchildren, they like you all the time. In their eyes you can do no wrong. 
The one in my picture thinks Im just wonderful and I love him so much! |
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I did my part for the world's population...my 4 children are grown adults now...
...<-------- this ole gal is now preapring for grandmotherhood...first grandbaby due Septemebr 30th! I do love children though, having worked in the education field for the last 10 yrs. |
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Kinda of selfish, don't you think? Kids don't ask to be
Very cool! You have to add smileys so we know you are joking! It's hard to discern the tone of one's writing!
Thank you for being kind in your reply to me. I really put myself out there ....
ahh...ok...from now on smiley's will be included...thank you for the helpful tip
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And if you do, do you want more? No one wants anymore of me running around...not even me.
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I didn't want any more children but I guess God has a different plan in store for me. I guess I'll see how the plan goes once July gets here.
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