As terrible a dad as i might be, i really want to be a father

I want no more

oh i think youll change your mind after the first one i think...lol..
wanting 3 or 4 kids, you'd better have a good paying stable job cause itll cost ya down the road.., including alimony support if she decides wake up one day wanting to be miss independant like her friends....lol

How ya know you'd be terrible?

You might end up being a great Dad

You never know

I have a great Dad , i always wanted to be just like him

Till this day i feel like i'm not even close

lol i might...the smart part of me says one kid will be hard enough, and i wouldn't try to have a kid( or more) if i couldn't support them...but..lol the mexican part of me says...why stop at 4? keep goin and goin...

i am to old peccy i told u this already, why is is such a big deal?
i guess i just lt the cat out of the bag! do you think that mirror will be angry?

Do I want to create any children? NO.

Can I fall head over heals for a woman that has children of her own? YES.

i know what ya mean...i have an awesome padre...i want to be like him 2, but i've stopped growing and he's tall...lol

i hear ya bro...me too, ive always thought about it as well, but from what troubles ive seen in past 3 years with regards to relationships?? no thanks..its suicidal at best....

ROFL!

No, 3 gave me enough grey hair, BUT I do like to practice!!!

youll regret that when you come to cross that bridge my friend...lol

Kinda of selfish, don't you think? Kids don't ask to be brought in this world and being of a certain nationality or religion that says procreate (without concern for their welfare) is selfish.

Unfit parents, people sucking up government assistance, and the earth being tapped out in terms of natural resources is reason enough to rethink having more than one or two.

What burns my butt even more is when adults -- that have kids together -- aren't balanced enough to maintain a relationship with each other and still think it's a good idea to have kids. Shouldn't mastering a relationship, understanding WHO will be the father or mother of someone's kids, or the meaning of commitment even in the worst of times MORE important than actually having a child? If a person doesn't have the skills to be in a relationship, how will they teach their kids to have the skills to be in a relationship?

This is a sensitive subject. I now defer.

The first time I crossed that bridge was almost 20 years ago. Now that I'm in my mid 40's, any woman that interests me... like 35+ yrs old... Chances are about 85-95% that she has at least one child.

women who have kids are the best, well most of them. They have grown up early in a sense. They have my utmost respect because I wouldn't want their job!

I think he was making a joke and laughing at himself - I could be wrong, but that's how I read it.

I am a mother, and I am divorced. Doesn't mean I didn't have the skills to be in the relationship, it means that the situation changed, and as hard as we fought for it - and we did fight, going to two years of marriage counseling before finally accepting that it was done - it just couldn't work. That being said, I don't think that the fact that we divorced disqualified me to teach my daughter about relationship skills. My ex and I both work VERY hard to reassure her that she is loved by both, we didn't fight in front of her, and we focused on what she needed during the divorce, rather than what we wanted.

If I ever do become a mother, I don't want to stop at just one child.

at least someone loves an old lady with a kid, thank u peccy

i hear ya bro