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do you think 19 is too young to get married?
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NO in some cultures people get married at ten..WILL
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good to know...and how do you know they are the right person for you...
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ok how you know that the on ei sthat you get a warm nice feeling like ur
in a nice bubble bath and if he is everthing you want in life and if he can take word out of ur mouth and can be a dream come true listen to ur heart it wont lie |
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My wife was 19 when she married me!
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thats so sweet...i just wanna stay in love with that person forever...
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,I say no,,cause you still have alot to look forward to in life ,,what
if hes not the one for you,,and you dont find that out till you get married,,you will kick yourself in the ass later,,but hey to each is own,,im for what ever you want in life,,hey I been there and didnt care for it to much,,till I find the right one this time,,im not thinking of it any more...lol..love always,,Thomas.... |
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well some people can make it people if people my age just jump into it
they will be diroviced by age 22 i have seen it happen and talke dto grils who are dirvoiced at age 22 and 24 |
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i don't think it has as much to do with age as your maturity level and
commitment to settle down with only that person. some people that get married young often find themselves wondering down the road what they might have missed out on. congratulations if you met the kind of person that would make you consider it but i would not rush into it. i think you have to be sure that it is not that deep infatuation that we all get when we first meet a terrific person. good luck |
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forever is along time WILL
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i know hosstin, i'm 30 and have never been married but you would not
believe how many girls i meet that are divorced by the time they are in their mid 20's |
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yes honey, i know from experence.
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like i siad forever is a long................time
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lol, or is it a
lo..........................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................ng time |
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what you said
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i dont believe so i dont think anybodies really ready at that young hell
you cant even go to a bar together lifes just gettin started and trust me i moved out of my parents house when i was 17 and my son was born before my 20th bday and the stress of young ones when your that young is alot to bear marriage is a lot of work and unless you are totally sure you can work with that person through thick and thin and you know they feel the same. put it off for a lil while try living together first see if you can take all the lil idiosyncracies of each others lives because you are going to be that person for a while especially if you have children and property divorce becomes a thousand times tougher once those factors enter the ecausion. |
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hey hosstin18 are u high cause u cant spell worth a shit in a bucket
lmfao 420 my good man |
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19 is not the right age to get married.Think further then just fun. do
you want to be mom at your 21st birthday?. |
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I have 4 young men who call me mom... I have always told them... think
about the things you liked at 5, did you like those same things at 10, or 15, or even 20?? needless to say... none of them are married and they are now 21,21,22,24. |
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It depends on the person, but I think at the very least you need time to
get to know a person beyond that feeling you have when a relationship is new. For example, getting married before you even live with someone seems like a big mistake. You don't get to see the things that are a part of every day life when you date. If they are messy (which may not show until they are done trying to impress you), or are you messy and will that get on their nerves. Gas - human gas that is - does it offend you? People don't share bad habits when they are still dating. You tend to be selling yourself. When real life starts coming through, you sometimes are with someone different than you thought. I also think that from 20 to 30 years old you are still pretty young. Most folks just got their independants. They are just free enough to cut loose and discover things about themselves for the first time. You need time to figure out you. I definately think if you get married at 19 you shouldn't be having kids for several years, and maybe until 30. Controversial opinion for many I know - some folks say they want to get the kids out of the way early and have time to be young again at 40. I say from 20 to 30 you should be free to not have children and that way you don't have to drag them through a divorce as you and your partner grow and maybe change into different people then you originally were. My two cents - and I am no expert. Just another guy with a keyboard who's still trying to figure life out myself. Cheers, Dave |
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