Community > Coffee Houses, Bars & Chit Chat

Topic: When people are too nice
MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Tue 03/03/09 06:10 PM
http://mingle2.com/topic/show/209314

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Thu 03/05/09 03:45 PM
whoot whoot

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sun 03/08/09 01:24 AM


HasidicEnforcer Joined Thu 12/20/07 Posts: 10235	Sun 03/08/09 01:30 AM
When people are "too nice" do they lose your respect? Yes. Because you never know what they are really feeling inside about you. I know this, because I used to be one of those people who was nice to everyone and all it did was cause me pain. Now I am a b!tch to the appropriate people and seriously, if I don't like you, you will know it. I used to get walked on all the time, even by family. Now I am a bit older and wiser and b!tch at the right people and am nice to the right people. If you are a bad person with bad intent to others, I will not be nice or stand idly by and take it or watch others get hurt. I am a Momma now and I stand up for the defenseless. No more nice nice pu$$y here.

scoundrel Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 5960	Sun 03/08/09 01:33 AM
When people are "too nice" do they lose your respect? A spoonful of sugar makes the medicine go down, in the most delightful way.

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sun 03/08/09 12:21 PM
When people are "too nice" do they lose your respect? Yes. Because you never know what they are really feeling inside about you. I know this, because I used to be one of those people who was nice to everyone and all it did was cause me pain. Now I am a b!tch to the appropriate people and seriously, if I don't like you, you will know it. I used to get walked on all the time, even by family. Now I am a bit older and wiser and b!tch at the right people and am nice to the right people. If you are a bad person with bad intent to others, I will not be nice or stand idly by and take it or watch others get hurt. I am a Momma now and I stand up for the defenseless. No more nice nice pu$$y here. Everything changes when you become a parent

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Sun 03/08/09 12:32 PM
When people are "too nice" do they lose your respect? I don't know if I really lose respect for them, but I definitely become suspcious of their motives.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Sun 03/08/09 12:35 PM
They are usually up to no good!!

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Sun 03/08/09 12:37 PM
When people are "too nice" do they lose your respect? I see other's through how I would feel from them,,so if they come-off, or SHOW to be nicer than me,,,,then YES,,most times I DON'T FEEL they are really being, or acting their REAL FORM. But,,thats just my take on this,wink,

misstina2 Joined Sat 11/01/08 Posts: 13508	Sun 03/08/09 12:39 PM
I enjoy being nice its nice thinking of ways to brighten someones day

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Sun 03/08/09 12:45 PM
When people are "too nice" do they lose your respect? I don't know if I really lose respect for them, but I definitely become suspcious of their motives. me2

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 03/09/09 03:56 PM
whoot whoot

SitkaRains Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 17228	Sat 04/04/09 07:38 PM
I think It would depend if we are talking about a person that is kind and compassionate etc...Not a problem for me. In time I will see if it is real or not. If it isn't then I will pity them since they are role playing and not living. I don't associate nice with patsy way different to me. I have met some really great nice people in my life and I happen to strive to be nice.. I am not a push over, I can and will stand up for myself I just feel I dont' have to destroy someone else in the process to do this.