Topic: Curious
Kenny84's photo
Mon 02/23/09 12:31 AM
I would like to first say I am sorry for this post but I have to get this off my chest.

Am I that hidious and ugly that no women on here will write back to me???? I mean I don't know how many flirts and messages I've sent without getting no replies at all save 1. She a really nice sounding girl in Lancaster that I am interested in.
I mean it would be nice ladies even if your not interested for you to send some kind of note back saying..hey..I'm not interested, go jump off a cliff, interest are not the same but something!!!!

I am getting to wonder what is the point of even being on these dating sites if you get no replies, I have even said something like..If nothing else,we can be friends but no reply.

Please forgive me but it's just a little frustrating.

Please have a great day.

Kenny

Shidoshi's photo
Mon 02/23/09 02:17 AM
Lol! Anytin on ur mind? Its just a site nt God

Shannonface's photo
Mon 02/23/09 02:32 AM
Well dear, you don't say much about yourself other than the points that might be considered baggage. Speaking from an objective point of view, not judging you.

20 years of marriage is a long time and some women might look at you as being set in your ways. And 4 children is a big responsibility, another thing that a lot of women might be afraid to tackle. Not that it's anything you can help. If they're grown, I would mention that.

I'd put more things that describe you as a person, rather than describe your trials and potential to bring drama.
You look like a nice person, and you're not hideous. I appreciate your honesty, as well. A rare attribute at times. Perhaps a little sugar coating leading to the baggage, may be more beneficial to your cause. :P

Sincerely,
Shannon

Kenny84's photo
Mon 02/23/09 08:48 PM
Thank you Shannon for your honesty and just for even posting.
I tried adding a few more things in my profile.
I am just no good at this stuff, I have no idea what to write.

Thank you again.

Kenny

senses_swim's photo
Tue 02/24/09 01:44 PM
I myself would not say that you are hideous. You've been thru alot, but don't put all that out there because it does scare ALOT of women off. Talk about yourself and your good qualities, basically sell yourself. Not in a bad way :)

Loyaldad08's photo
Tue 02/24/09 02:30 PM
Lose the flannel - the 80's are over. Try a new look and trust your daughters on this one :)

prisoner's photo
Tue 02/24/09 02:38 PM
:smile: oh my god they killed kenny! be seeing you

no photo
Tue 02/24/09 03:10 PM
Your profile choices state that you are divorced; you needn't elaboate. A woman will ask questions if she's interested.

Introduce yourself. Tell us why we should want to get to know you.

jtip1977's photo
Tue 02/24/09 03:14 PM

:smile: oh my god they killed kenny! be seeing you

huh spock