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Topic: Just ask JustAGuy - part 6
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Thu 03/19/09 02:56 PM
Did my taxes finally!!!

Now I'll wait to see if they were accepted.

What do you think O' crystal ball?

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Thu 03/19/09 06:53 PM

Did my taxes finally!!!

Now I'll wait to see if they were accepted.

What do you think O' crystal ball?


Yippee! Now can you come do mine??? I'm still putting off the inevitable. noway

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Thu 03/19/09 06:57 PM


Did my taxes finally!!!

Now I'll wait to see if they were accepted.

What do you think O' crystal ball?


Yippee! Now can you come do mine??? I'm still putting off the inevitable. noway


HA! Mine was accepted....and guess what? If I would have posted it by 11 am today I could have had my money one week earlier than I now will. Today at 11 am was the cutoff time for the deposit. Always a day late and a dollar short!! At least it was accepted. Phew!

I was really concerned about it because I had some self employment money on there this time and wasn't exactly sure how that was gonna roll. I must have filled it out proper.

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Thu 03/19/09 07:02 PM
Hey JAG...

Twice I emailed someone who used to be an M2-er and generally got along with to basically say "hope things are okay and that life is good." Literally, about 2-3 sentences of email. Got a SCATHING and extremely long reply to the second one saying no one here was worth the space they take up on the planet, that no one ever contacted this person after they deactivated (ummmm...me?) and that they only wrote back to tell me (essentially) to take a hike with all the rest of the people in the world. That's fine...an incredibly sad way to live,IMO, but whatever...I was just trying to be nice and I certainly have deleted the contact info and won't write again, as per my 'instructions' in the nasty-gram.

Anyway, I'm wondering:

How people can survive with such negative attitudes?
Do you think that's real all the time or do they put on an act in order to exist day to day?
Do you think it's genetic? Upbringing? A physical or mental illness?
Do you think someone like that has been that way all their life on some level or is it just life's beaten them down?

Was I out of line to bother to say 'hi' and that I was thinking of this person?

This just makes me so sad for the person because I can't imagine living like that. :cry:

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Thu 03/19/09 07:02 PM



Did my taxes finally!!!

Now I'll wait to see if they were accepted.

What do you think O' crystal ball?


Yippee! Now can you come do mine??? I'm still putting off the inevitable. noway


HA! Mine was accepted....and guess what? If I would have posted it by 11 am today I could have had my money one week earlier than I now will. Today at 11 am was the cutoff time for the deposit. Always a day late and a dollar short!! At least it was accepted. Phew!

I was really concerned about it because I had some self employment money on there this time and wasn't exactly sure how that was gonna roll. I must have filled it out proper.


woo hoo...way to go!!!

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Thu 03/19/09 07:04 PM
Will the highway be blocked for a missle firing tomorrow morning when I have to drive west on it? (Seriously...happens all the time and means an hour delay on the side of the road if you get caught in the roadblock! Bizarre, huh?)

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Thu 03/19/09 07:06 PM

Hey JAG...

Twice I emailed someone who used to be an M2-er and generally got along with to basically say "hope things are okay and that life is good." Literally, about 2-3 sentences of email. Got a SCATHING and extremely long reply to the second one saying no one here was worth the space they take up on the planet, that no one ever contacted this person after they deactivated (ummmm...me?) and that they only wrote back to tell me (essentially) to take a hike with all the rest of the people in the world. That's fine...an incredibly sad way to live,IMO, but whatever...I was just trying to be nice and I certainly have deleted the contact info and won't write again, as per my 'instructions' in the nasty-gram.

Anyway, I'm wondering:

How people can survive with such negative attitudes?
Do you think that's real all the time or do they put on an act in order to exist day to day?
Do you think it's genetic? Upbringing? A physical or mental illness?
Do you think someone like that has been that way all their life on some level or is it just life's beaten them down?

Was I out of line to bother to say 'hi' and that I was thinking of this person?

This just makes me so sad for the person because I can't imagine living like that. :cry:


I have a feeling I know exactly who this person is, and if I'm right.....it's not worth worrying over. You were the kind one in this equation. As usual. Hugs.

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Thu 03/19/09 07:06 PM
If things evolve (yeah, back to that...and there was a second question to your first response about monkeys/apes last night that you missed, babe! :wink: )

Why do people still have an appendix, but somewhere I read that kids were being born without buds for wisdom teeth due to mouths being too small to accomodate them in most cases? Why one and not another body part?

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Thu 03/19/09 07:06 PM

woo hoo...way to go!!!


Thanks!

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Thu 03/19/09 07:08 PM


I have a feeling I know exactly who this person is, and if I'm right.....it's not worth worrying over. You were the kind one in this equation. As usual. Hugs.



I'm sure you do and I promise I'm not worrying! Honestly! I can't fix that mess and don't even want to think about it! (I am long over my fixing other people stage!)

I am just curious because it's so incredibly bizarre to think about being that unhappy and hateful toward others.

I guess I'm too much of a PollyAnna but seriously...I can't even imagine being able to draw breath in that much misery! TOO SAD!

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Thu 03/19/09 07:10 PM



I have a feeling I know exactly who this person is, and if I'm right.....it's not worth worrying over. You were the kind one in this equation. As usual. Hugs.



I'm sure you do and I promise I'm not worrying! Honestly! I can't fix that mess and don't even want to think about it! (I am long over my fixing other people stage!)

I am just curious because it's so incredibly bizarre to think about being that unhappy and hateful toward others.

I guess I'm too much of a PollyAnna but seriously...I can't even imagine being able to draw breath in that much misery! TOO SAD!


Heard that.......and it might just be a case of mental illness that probably should be addressed. Sad indeed.

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Thu 03/19/09 07:14 PM


Heard that.......and it might just be a case of mental illness that probably should be addressed. Sad indeed.



...and apparently, given more than one person in my past who's been less than stable (including my ex) I attract mental illness like (umm, not sure what that idiom would be!)

I am hoping it's not me driving people insane...embarassed

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Thu 03/19/09 07:16 PM
I had cheesecake at a 'coffee and dessert' social this evening after only having a salad the rest of the day. Why, why, why did I do that and why, why, why does a big dose of sugar on an empty stomach make you feel sick???

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Thu 03/19/09 07:22 PM
What is the coolest car on the planet?

The most expensive?

The ugliest?

The loudest?

The fastest?

The best for a midlife crisis?

I'm planning to buy one of those cars one day (Potentially just big enough for me and a dog OR a boy-toy which should absolutely NOT be one and the same! LOL!)

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Thu 03/19/09 09:06 PM
Hello Ladies, jag, just dropping by to tell you I have a interview with my non profit org. finally after much delay and am beyond excited.Things are good with my new guy from this site hope to have a pic up after next weekend we have a party to attend "who-ooh"Broke down and bought myself sexy little dress.feeling pretty good about now!

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Thu 03/19/09 09:31 PM

Hello Ladies, jag, just dropping by to tell you I have a interview with my non profit org. finally after much delay and am beyond excited.Things are good with my new guy from this site hope to have a pic up after next weekend we have a party to attend "who-ooh"Broke down and bought myself sexy little dress.feeling pretty good about now!


OMG, am feeling SO pumped on your behalf! You go girl!:banana: :banana: :banana:

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Thu 03/19/09 09:35 PM


Hello Ladies, jag, just dropping by to tell you I have a interview with my non profit org. finally after much delay and am beyond excited.Things are good with my new guy from this site hope to have a pic up after next weekend we have a party to attend "who-ooh"Broke down and bought myself sexy little dress.feeling pretty good about now!


OMG, am feeling SO pumped on your behalf! You go girl!:banana: :banana: :banana:


Thankyou Glenda, I am so pumped on life right now I am afraid I am going to crash!

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Thu 03/19/09 09:35 PM
Just got off the phone after an almost TWO HOUR conversation with my daughter (used to fight like cats & dogs and now best girlfriends - and BTW, I don't normally "do" phone calls!) In the course of conversation she mentioned that my "Glenda the Good Witch" persona is totally appropriate because I do "ride around life in a rainbow bubble." I guess my point is, that I finally JUST GOT IT! My PollyAnna outlook on life is about like a rainbow bubble...

GEEZ...

So JAG...why does it take a half a lifetime to see ourselves in the same way that others see right away?

laugh

And how is it that my kiddo can be so dang smart??? (The student becomes the teacher and all that... flowerforyou )

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Thu 03/19/09 09:36 PM



Hello Ladies, jag, just dropping by to tell you I have a interview with my non profit org. finally after much delay and am beyond excited.Things are good with my new guy from this site hope to have a pic up after next weekend we have a party to attend "who-ooh"Broke down and bought myself sexy little dress.feeling pretty good about now!


OMG, am feeling SO pumped on your behalf! You go girl!:banana: :banana: :banana:


Thankyou Glenda, I am so pumped on life right now I am afraid I am going to crash!



KEEP US POSTED! I just know that the recent change (for me) to a non-profit has been SO empowering and happy! I wish the same happiness for EVERYONE!!!

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Thu 03/19/09 10:09 PM
Seems JAG is out of pocket tonight...
Hope all is well JAG@

Good night all!flowerforyou

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