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Lots of "do's", few "don'ts"
Always been told my problem is; "I'll try ALMOST ANYTHING, ONCE!!!!! But, if I like it, I'll do it again." I LIKE lots most things. |
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Tell me, is there someone real out there? I keep getting mail from these guys who aren't who they say they are. They don't have a cam, now I know why, because they aren't who they say they are. They tell me they love me after 2 or 3 mails and I reply back saying that is impossible, but they insist, then all of a sudden they have to travel far away and next thing you know, they have had an accident or have been robbed and need money to go back home. What is the matter with people, it makes us very discouraged thinking there really isn't anyone out there that is real.  Welcome if you like I have a site I can give you that let's you know if they are a scammer or not.It's really helpful and I use it from time to time if I'm not sure.I have sent to a few other women that were not sure and they really loved this site because of the information it offered.You can email me on here and I will send it to you.To answer your question yes they are some that are real and I have made friends with quite a few on here and I truly love the friendship I have made with them.They are so awesome.Take care Stay Blessed and Have Fun.
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 Welcome and have fun new folks im no old fart sweety 16
im hanging out here alone kool! 
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I tried the 50's threads but they were full of old people  Kool
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Tell me, is there someone real out there? I keep getting mail from these guys who aren't who they say they are. They don't have a cam, now I know why, because they aren't who they say they are. They tell me they love me after 2 or 3 mails and I reply back saying that is impossible, but they insist, then all of a sudden they have to travel far away and next thing you know, they have had an accident or have been robbed and need money to go back home. What is the matter with people, it makes us very discouraged thinking there really isn't anyone out there that is real. it's a nigerian scam. i've had "women" do the same to me. i've made it a hobby to string tham along as long as i can. if "she" is wasting time with me "she" has less time to find someone vulnerable. it's quite sporty really. 
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I use to do that too and then I tired of it. It was getting me down making me a bit bitter so I took widow off my profile. And really haven't been bothered much lately. |
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I agree with everybody--there are some really nice people here--just have to wade through the scammers and players--luckily seems that this site dosen't have as many as some do--believe me i have met both--glad to finally meet some of the good guys
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I'M JUST ME.I DON'T PRETEND TO BE SOMEONE ELSE,[maybe that is the reason,I'm still alone] Some guys say they want the real thing but to find out they don't. They want a beauty queen or close to it. I don't think they would know what to do with a real lady or Ladies,Do you know what to do with a real man?? I'm not talking about sex,I'm talking about the person..
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Edited by
synergized
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Thu 10/29/09 08:32 AM
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I'M JUST ME.I DON'T PRETEND TO BE SOMEONE ELSE,[maybe that is the reason,I'm still alone] Some guys say they want the real thing but to find out they don't. They want a beauty queen or close to it. I don't think they would know what to do with a real lady or Ladies,Do you know what to do with a real man?? I'm not talking about sex,I'm talking about the person.. I know what you mean. I meet a guy from another free singles site, and when we met at the coffee shop he said, well I see you are over weight (my picture and profile reflect the true me), but you are still pretty. After 2 meetings he said I am not sure I can handle your weight. Are you going to go on a diet soon? I said, well I am positive I cannot handle the weight of your judging. 2 months later he contacted me again and told me that he could not find any other nice women out there and he would like to get to know me better.  I of course replied that I knew him as well as I wanted to.
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I'M JUST ME.I DON'T PRETEND TO BE SOMEONE ELSE,[maybe that is the reason,I'm still alone] Some guys say they want the real thing but to find out they don't. They want a beauty queen or close to it. I don't think they would know what to do with a real lady or Ladies,Do you know what to do with a real man?? I'm not talking about sex,I'm talking about the person.. I know what you mean. I meet a guy from another free singles site, and when we met at the coffee shop he said, well I see you are over weight (my picture and profile reflect the true me), but you are still pretty. After 2 meetings he said I am not sure I can handle your weight. Are you going to go on a diet soon? I said, well I am positive I cannot handle the weight of your judging. 2 months later he contacted me again and told me that he could not find any other nice women out there and he would like to get to know me better. I of course replied that I knew him as well as I wanted to.
Good for you Syn! 
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Tell me, is there someone real out there? I keep getting mail from these guys who aren't who they say they are. They don't have a cam, now I know why, because they aren't who they say they are. They tell me they love me after 2 or 3 mails and I reply back saying that is impossible, but they insist, then all of a sudden they have to travel far away and next thing you know, they have had an accident or have been robbed and need money to go back home. What is the matter with people, it makes us very discouraged thinking there really isn't anyone out there that is real. Sounds like scammers. Bane of the internet. They even get into your regular email accounts too. |
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I'M JUST ME.I DON'T PRETEND TO BE SOMEONE ELSE,[maybe that is the reason,I'm still alone] Some guys say they want the real thing but to find out they don't. They want a beauty queen or close to it. I don't think they would know what to do with a real lady or Ladies,Do you know what to do with a real man?? I'm not talking about sex,I'm talking about the person.. I know what you mean. I meet a guy from another free singles site, and when we met at the coffee shop he said, well I see you are over weight (my picture and profile reflect the true me), but you are still pretty. After 2 meetings he said I am not sure I can handle your weight. Are you going to go on a diet soon? I said, well I am positive I cannot handle the weight of your judging. 2 months later he contacted me again and told me that he could not find any other nice women out there and he would like to get to know me better. I of course replied that I knew him as well as I wanted to.
Good choice, Cathi... we may need to kiss alot of frogs, but we don't EVER have to settle for less than what we deserve. 
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Thanks ladies
I would rather be alone than with someone who made me feel lonely. It is tough sometimes, though isn't it? 
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Thanks ladies
I would rather be alone than with someone who made me feel lonely. It is tough sometimes, though isn't it?
It is tough!  But it's so much better being alone by yourself than alone, with someone! We each and everyone have soming that is uniquely us, something that no one else has. We have so much to offer the right person. He or she will find us when the time is right. Until then all we can do is be ourselves and live the best that we can, because we actually don't need that special person in our lives, we just want them to enrich what we already have and so we can enrich their lives also!
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wow I had to think to hard on that one
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wow I had to think to hard on that one
Silly!
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I am Who I am, I try very hard not to fool anyone about who I am or what I want or What i am doing, I try not to put anyone in the position where they would have to question anything about me, although I do NOT post a picture, I dont EXPECT anyone to corespond with me although im happy when they do, I Try not to ASK anything of anyone except to engage in conversation and myabe exchange thoughts and feelings.I to have been scammed and had to deal with my share of lunatics. I just try to keep in mind , This is a Website not a singles bar, Nor is it some kind of members only club. Talk to me, tell me your thoughts and ideas, even tell a joke or two thats about all anyone can ask of the cyber world. |
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I am what I am!!
Please be who you are! 
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Tell me, is there someone real out there? I keep getting mail from these guys who aren't who they say they are. They don't have a cam, now I know why, because they aren't who they say they are. They tell me they love me after 2 or 3 mails and I reply back saying that is impossible, but they insist, then all of a sudden they have to travel far away and next thing you know, they have had an accident or have been robbed and need money to go back home. What is the matter with people, it makes us very discouraged thinking there really isn't anyone out there that is real. Those are all the rough parts we encounter before we get to the cream fillings per say. |
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Tell me, is there someone real out there? I keep getting mail from these guys who aren't who they say they are. They don't have a cam, now I know why, because they aren't who they say they are. They tell me they love me after 2 or 3 mails and I reply back saying that is impossible, but they insist, then all of a sudden they have to travel far away and next thing you know, they have had an accident or have been robbed and need money to go back home. What is the matter with people, it makes us very discouraged thinking there really isn't anyone out there that is real. Those are all the rough parts we encounter before we get to the cream fillings per say. True..the dry crusty 3 day old parts aint what I am signing on for! It's for the yummy insides
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