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Topic: Married but recently separated
MickyG's photo
Sun 02/15/09 06:01 PM
Do you consider a person with this situation off limits from going too far? Where do you draw the line at?

For me yes off limits and the line is drawn at dinner and a movie at the most.

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 02/15/09 06:03 PM
This is always a good one

msmyka's photo
Sun 02/15/09 06:04 PM
A few years ago I dated a guy in this situation and found it much more trouble/drama than it was worth. I don't know how much he lied to me but I know he wasn't completely truthful about his living situation and thats what ultimately ended it.

no photo
Sun 02/15/09 06:05 PM
The line is drawn even before the date has even begun. That's because "married but recently separated" means "married". That's just askin' for trouble.

markc48's photo
Sun 02/15/09 06:05 PM
_______________________________________NO date

Queene123's photo
Sun 02/15/09 06:06 PM
i was with a guy for 2yrs and he had been separated from his wife for over 5yrs. they didnt even talk.. i did eventually help him with his divorce papers.

RKISIT's photo
Sun 02/15/09 06:06 PM

Do you consider a person with this situation off limits from going too far? Where do you draw the line at?

For me yes off limits and the line is drawn at dinner and a movie at the most.
actually its a need some space break,they want to have sex with someone to see if they feel guilty and want to go back to their other half or not:smile:

prisoner's photo
Sun 02/15/09 06:06 PM
:smile: Howard Hughes used to call seperated and divorced women "wet decks" be seeing you

no photo
Sun 02/15/09 06:06 PM
Its kind of awkward...........

awolf1010's photo
Sun 02/15/09 06:06 PM
whats a date!!!!!!!

Redshirt's photo
Sun 02/15/09 06:07 PM
Definitely off limits...don't need the drama.

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Sun 02/15/09 06:08 PM
Its confusing ...How bad you are her want IT

motowndowntown's photo
Sun 02/15/09 06:08 PM
Recently seperated????? Call me when you make up your @#%^&*# mind!

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Sun 02/15/09 06:09 PM

Its confusing ...How bad you are her want IT
Or...sorry

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 02/15/09 06:09 PM
Being seperated myself, it has not stopped me from getting dates, I'm also getting divorced April 12th:banana:

franshade's photo
Sun 02/15/09 06:09 PM
Guess it's all up to the individuals concerned. I was happily separated for over 6 yrs and dated. No reason for delaying my divorce, just never got around to it. But I was honest about it, told anyone interested that I was technically married but separated over x yrs. Choice was theirs and must admit had a great time dating.

I am now happily divorced :banana:

jvlgrl09's photo
Sun 02/15/09 06:11 PM
I've dated 2 guys before that were married but seperated. First one got divorced after I broke up with him. The second one, I became friends with his wife. They had been seperated for while and couldn't afford the divorce. She had no problems with dating her husband and taking care of her kid.

njmom05's photo
Sun 02/15/09 06:12 PM
I never used to care as long as they had no intention of going back with their ex. But my last relationship showed me that without divorce papers, its just asking for trouble. He left her and went back twice ultimately going back for good.

longhairbiker's photo
Sun 02/15/09 06:12 PM
Red flag with cherries and whip cream on top is still a red flag. <---damn I'm hot.

JustAGuy2112's photo
Sun 02/15/09 06:12 PM
How " recent " would be considered recently separated??

What about separated for 6 months, divorce filed shortly after the separation??

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